Comments on Seduction Central: Virgo finding fault with Libra

I'm a libra female who has been attracted to Virgo...

2008-10-05T07:52:00.000-04:00

I'm a libra female who has been attracted to Virgo men since I can remember...my first crush was a Virgo too...But now I'm 24 and there is this Virgo that I used to hate and we would argue and compete against each other all the time. But some where in the middle of all of this I started to fall for him and now I'm so afraid to even approach him becasue our relationship has been built on our arguments. Recently we have had the opportunities to sit down and be alone and we shared these moments where we both are laughing or smiling and it just feels right. We seem so much alike at times but at the same time we are so different. i'm the undercover emotionalist and he has this ego that gets on my nerves...There's something about Virgos that keep me intrigued.

S....I have just been ditched by my Virgo partner ...

2008-09-22T06:03:00.000-04:00

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I have just been ditched by my Virgo partner of 7 yrs...but I am getting the best support from an ex ( 13yrs ago ) who is also VIRGO !! Very funny....All I know is that virgos can't stand discussing feelings too deeply...but the one thing they love about Librans is the fact that we ask for what we want - we take the initative ...and since they are a bit conservative, critical and wory too much ---allow them their space. It takes a LONG tme to figure out Virgo men...but once you do Ms Libra you'll have them doing waht you want. True - don't overcrowd them. get busy with your life ...your friends and other interests. But when you do take him away on that vacation make the most of it !! GOOD LUCK ..

I am a Virgo female, and i completely agree with A...

2008-09-14T14:12:00.000-04:00

I am a Virgo female, and i completely agree with Anonymous. We Virgos do hold back because we are afraid of being misunderstood or not understood at all. I've tried to break out and express myself, my feelings or thoughts, but the person i was talking to would either lose interest as if i was talking gibberish or change subject, or pretend like he understands, which i can see right through. So yes, i usually tell my date that i am just a listener type:) very rarely i meet someone who understands me and makes me feel free to talk. A Scorpio guy i met recently makes me feel that way. I am drawn to him uncontrollably, but he is so mysterious and hard to figure out. At times he is so emotionally and physically close and intense, that i feel he doesn't want to part with me, he can watch me or hold me for hours, and i can see it in his eyes that there is something there, but at other times he is so distant that i can't even get him to go out. I haven't seen him in weeks now. He has said to me that he doesn't want to fall too hard too fast. I really don't know whether i should just cut it off or wait. Every time i tell myself 'that's it" he shows up, not literally, but sends an email or text message, and it's the kind that makes me think that he is still interested. But then he disappears again. I want to believe that he is cautious in the matters of heart, but sometimes it feels like he is just shopping around and keeping me on hold just in case. And i'm not the type that pests people, i send him a message once in a while and let him be in control of the situation. Should i be direct and ask him whether he wants to continue to see me or should i leave things as they are?

And back to Libra. My ex is a Libra and he is very emotional and abstract. To the point that it seems like he lives in his own little world and just ignores the reality until he can't anymore and then gets super depressed. Our life together before marriage was great, but got rough after. I know i am critical, but i am mostly critical to myself. I also know that the last thing i want to do is to hurt people's feelings, so i keep my criticism to myself, which is so hard at times.
So for example if i want to have something done - it's easier for me to do it myself the way i want it done, than ask someone else and then be dissatisfied and hurt other person's feeling by trying to correct their work..:) Maybe that's why i come across as reserved. I just avoid being criticizing and misunderstood.

I feel honored to write one of your 2 favorite blo...

2008-09-04T14:08:00.000-04:00

I feel honored to write one of your 2 favorite blogs. Thanks!

I don’t read blogs often, and when I do, I have 2 ...

2008-09-04T11:06:00.000-04:00

I don’t read blogs often, and when I do, I have 2 favour ones. Mr. Kishner’s is one of them. Thank you Mr. Kishner for your wisdom, for understanding to all kind of people’s thoughts and traits.

Virgo can be really complicated and hard to be understood because they don’t express their emotions until they are 100% sure they are loved wholeheartedly and vice versa. That doesn’t happen overnight. Virgo suffers of extremely deep love feeling. How many people can love as much as Virgo does? That is a question. We only feel our own feelings. Virgo is afraid, which makes him to be cautious. Hence he hides his emotions, hence he appears to be cold. Besides the feeling, there is Virgo’s analytical mind. I don’t think that Virgo analyzes individuals as much as the whole world, our lives, politics, humanity, etc. Virgos think big and deep but they are aware of being misunderstood, hence they keep their philosophy to themselves until they feel totally free. So until then you might not know your Virgo. But how long can you love someone with whom you cannot share conversation or understand his thoughts? You have to consider all these elements than just that he is critical. It is also possible that your Virgo lack of love feeling towards you and vice versa. I assure you that Virgo is very much adoptable, understanding and loving. As soon as he opens door to your mutual love he will do maximum to make you happy, if you love him the same way. The true love means loving each other traits, good or bad, as we all have some. I am sure you are not perfect. If you really love him give him a time and try to appreciate his good traits, unless you prefere to be cuddled all the time and maybe betrayed at the end.

As a female Virgo, I find it rather interesting th...

2008-09-03T22:45:00.000-04:00

As a female Virgo, I find it rather interesting that every other sign says something about Virgo being so harsh and critical - yet if you take a look at other topics and whatnot, there are few if any Virgos actually typing out how bad all their partners are. Ironic isn't it? Oh yes, we can be critical, but we don't usually go around boasting the problems in our partners. Seriously, if a Virgo male (as most Libra females seem to be mentioning) are SO hard to deal with, why are you bothering? No, most Virgos (male, female, whatever) won't just pop out with their emotions. Some people actually look at the zodiac information and say, "oh, this is all I need". WRONG! Every Virgo has something in common, yes, but people are more than "just a Virgo or Libra". Each has their own personality. Their own experiences. Their own ways like keeping to themselves or how they organize things. They also have more to their birthdate than being a Virgo. Numerology can be determined, and can give a detailed account of their surface - but even stars can't read too deep into a person's sun-sign, much less an individual. Also, a lot of people overlook the Chinese zodiac. What might not be under Virgo may be under the chinese sign. EX: I'm a female Virgo, born August 27, 1991 - year of the metal sheep. Being a Virgo is only part of it, as is being a metal sheep. I've dated a Virgo male myself, and yes, he can be a pain, even as an ex. But I know why he does certain things because I also know him as well as I can for the short time we dated. Personally, I think people need to stop focusing on "he's a Virgo, I'm a Libra, what can I do" and start looking at him, the actual guy, his personality and all, before they start looking to sun-signs. Star charts can help, but not nearly as much as learning the person and their personality. The zodiacs only give a broad description of the signs - not the individual. It makes so much sense to a Virgo.

I am a Libra dating a Virgo and he drives me crazy...

2008-07-25T12:38:00.000-04:00

I am a Libra dating a Virgo and he drives me crazy. He reminds me of Eeyore from winnie the poo. Always feeling bad for himself and I am very confident. My friend told me after reading our birthdates that we were a good match, that we had past relationships that we would be strong. But he is too much. He picks at me so that I yell at him and then we are in a fight. I don't know what to do.

i find it strang that evey body says that virgo me...

2008-07-24T16:23:00.000-04:00

i find it strang that evey body says that virgo men have no fillings.i been dateing a virgo for a month and the sex is out of this planet.he has already told me that he loves me many times.and trust me he means it.i have also done things with him and he with me that we have never done with any body else.i am 35 and he is 29 i now i have rocked his world and he mine. mentally and sexualy. the key to holding on to a vergo man is to not smother him or give long drown out storis about how you are filling because he already knows.and what ever you do dont chase him let him chase you. dont call him all the time let him call you first.better yet at like he doesnt exist that all the more fun for him. but the key here is he likes an inderpentent woman who has something going on like a job hellow if you dont have that you can forget about trying to date him.i doesnt matter how long he knows you.stay looking good at all time dont have a potty mouth they hate that.he will never date you because he alrady knows you there is no suspence so no challange.the only thing he would do if any thing is fuck you and keep it moving.so girl there it is the stone cold truth.just keep him as a friend.thats why he is a friend.

I'm a female libra and my very best friend is a ve...

2008-07-10T15:50:00.000-04:00

I'm a female libra and my very best friend is a very attractive male virgo.

No question I have feelings for him, but we are complete opposites. I procrastinate, a bit of a slob, I'm carefree and "do" before I think. He is a neat freak, caring but sometimes cold, doesnt' like to talk about himself or "feelings"... he actually mocks me when I gush over "romantic things".

Sure once he's had a few drinks I'll get the "kiss goodbye", but we don't talk about it the next day.

Somewhere over our 5 year friendship i've started to have feelings for him and I think to myself, could this actually work? Could I actually be with someone who is so distant? un-emotional? un-affectionate? But who truly knows me better then anyone else probably could because he's analyzed the heck out of me?

Well two days ago, I gave it a shot. I told him, that unless he has "those kind of feelings for me" he needs to stop kissing me because its not fair. He didn't acknowlegdge or deny what he felt for me. he completely avoided talking about it, and I didn't want to make him feel akward.

Should I take his silence as his polite way of telling me he's just not that into me?

I am a classic Libra woman. My Virgo man is DRIVI...

2008-07-04T08:22:00.000-04:00

I am a classic Libra woman. My Virgo man is DRIVING ME NUTS. I can't seem to feel the balance I need with him....

help. No really HELP.

We have been seing each other for 10 months. The relationship hits a rocky point about every 2 months. I get tired and try to break up. I offer to just move on --drama free. He always says that's not fair, and that it's unnecessary. He won't just end it.

So I go back and try again... and again...

He's moody. He says he gets depressed and needs female friends that he has known before he new me to talk things out. I thought he was cheating...

He says he's different and that he doesn't want to tell me how he feels because he always gets burned when he does. He says not to try to get that out of him. He is so un snuggly and cold at times I feel like he's just not that into me. Then he comes around in full force... and I cave.

He asks me to be patient. He asks me to let him show me how he feels. He is thoughtful and somewhat coldly considerate.

I just don't get him. We supposedly have an exclusive relationship and he refers to me as his girl... Yet???

I just don't get why he can't be direct. Nor do I get why he is so emotionally elusive at times then dependant at others.

What do I need to do to make this work and give myself some peace of mind that we are solid?

God, it's true! I've been with a Virgo man for jus...

2008-05-29T11:18:00.000-04:00

God, it's true! I've been with a Virgo man for just coming to a year. He's 25 years older than me, but he's absolutely gorgeous and I love him to bits. We have all sorts of obstacles in our relationship which I won't go into, but we love each other. I moved in with him not long ago, it was a bit of a rushed, pressurised operation but as I am very untidy, financially irresponsible and he's the opposite, we've sort of become at loggerheads. I get disheartened by his seemingly constant criticism and it makes me even lazier. I'm going to move out soon but stay together as a couple. If anyone finds out how to deal the criticism, tell me! It brings out the worst in me!

Also, is it me or are Virgo men very stingy!?

I'm a Libra woman with a Virgo male supervisor. T...

2008-05-27T14:55:00.000-04:00

I'm a Libra woman with a Virgo male supervisor. The last time he counted my till the bills were facing in all directions and he looked digusted. Then I found out he is a Virgo so I took a minute to face all the money in the same direction. He looked like a weight had lifted from him. Now I know how much trival little things mean to him.

I am a libra w/ a virgo rising, and the person I h...

2008-01-11T19:28:00.000-05:00

I am a libra w/ a virgo rising, and the person I had been interested in was a virgo w/ a gemini rising. They ended up using me as a rebound from their "past" relationship to an Aries, which had so much drama it made my head spin. The virgo ended up leaving me to start fooling around with the Aries best friend, who is a cancer. It hurt so bad. I'm still bitter.

How can Libra deal with Virgo's criticism?PATIENCE...

2007-03-26T17:17:00.000-04:00

How can Libra deal with Virgo's criticism?PATIENCE, PATIENCE, PATIENCE!

As a Libra born to a Virgo father and currently waiting for my Virgo man to get off the decision fence, all I can say is that patience is key. Not just key - VITAL - to winning a Virgo over. Read up on them and you will see that what I say is true. They can wait it out forever if they have to!!!!

K. here, Libra woman responding to topic of Virgo ...

2007-02-01T14:57:00.000-05:00

K. here, Libra woman responding to topic of Virgo and criticism.:-)
I forgot to mention somehting I beleive is important.
And that is that if we are close with a Virgo(of either sex).But, *especially* if it's a romantic relationship..and that is that telling the Virgo person how we feel when criticized is important.
I know that it will not stop a Virgo mind from being how it is--quick, and critical.However, if I can identify my feelings, and explain them well[w/o too much whining;-)] then my Virgo partner will often understand and consider a more tactful approach--it just had not entered his or her mind beforehand.
Remember the critical "barb" was not really a barb--they just see life that way.
K.(darkLibra)

I'm a Libra woman, wiht Moon in Tuarus,Capricorn A...

2007-02-01T14:47:00.000-05:00

I'm a Libra woman, wiht Moon in Tuarus,Capricorn Asc. and Mars in Virgo.So perhgaps I find Virgo's atitude a little easier to take.
I say a little eaiser, becuase it is not all that easy.:-)
I like Virgo women to tlak to, and I do get attracted by Virgo men.However, it is true that Virgo will always have to be saying exactly what they see that needs to be corrected.
It doesn't come flying out of their mouthes the way it does with Sagitarius, nonetheless, Virgos are just plain critical imo.
But, it is true, if you understand them, you realize they are not necessarily being mean--just straightforward about what thet see..
Actually, many times I find it refreshing.
(but not always):-D
K.