Comments on Seduction Central: Waiting for a Libra man to call

Hello, I am a gemini woman and I could not help bu...

2008-06-11T01:14:00.000-04:00

Hello, I am a gemini woman and I could not help but laugh when I saw these comments about phone calls, the communication factor and maybe a potential cheater. Well, we met Last summer and I wasn't impressed with him. He called me on and off for months. I dodged him and never made our dates. Yet, he still called out of the blue and told me he dreampt we were married, and would love to take me out. I came to see him and this man began to charm me, but wasn't quite the looker, but his accomodations and drive were parallel as mines. Then he called and asked if I wanted to be spontaneous!! Thats my middle name. After an extravagent weekend at the coast, which I reframed from sex for 9 months. He asked me if we could date exclusively and I agreed, we had Hot steamy sex and the rest is history...I gave in. Yet, there was trouble in paradise when he promised we would connect and I did not here from him the whole day!This was a problem seeing he lives 1hour away from me and we have agreed to alternate weekends. He tried to tell me he was sleeping from 4pm-11pm on Saturday! Please this man loves to be out and socialize as much as me. When he called I was angered and told him I didnt wanna talk. He never called back and begged for my attention like all the other men I have known and the following day I stalled out,broke down and called him. He tried to say he was doing better since I called him! Bottom line, he was suspect and now seems withdrawn. He does lie about childish things when we are together, but seems to despise a cheater! I have told him what I had a problem with and he was never apologentic and made it seem as though I annoyed him by expressing himself. He calls me his dreamgirl,babydoll,..but his actions are otherwise. Gosh! It is like a tag your it, I dont like to chase!Before I do that I will see other men...and ignore him,but I don't wanna cheat. What to do?

I'm an Acquarius woman about to start dating a Lib...

2008-06-05T18:57:00.000-04:00

I'm an Acquarius woman about to start dating a Libra man. We've only chatted and he's emailed me several times. I haven't indicated extreme interest one way or the next but we plan to go to a movie next week... any suggestions?

I am an Aquarius woman who is currently seeing a L...

2008-05-26T10:59:00.000-04:00

I am an Aquarius woman who is currently seeing a Libra man. I don't have these problems with him. He at least texts me every day, mostly several times, if he doesn't text me then he calls me, he comes over almost every night and usually ends up staying the night, he doesn't pull away when I'm agressive, I rather think he likes it. Am I dating a "weird" libra or are Libra and Aquarius a better match than Libra and other signs?

I am a gemini too ladies and im haveing the same p...

2008-05-07T22:56:00.000-04:00

I am a gemini too ladies and im haveing the same problem there is a(communication error)with my Mr. Libra. Dam text me, call me, email me, send a bird, damitt a message in a bottle.The crazy thing is i never have to chase anyone but the libra always gives me a run 4 my money.Sure I could leave him in the dust my elment is air but hot pursuits can be fun and steamy. My other twin says on the other hand its mentally draining. Im convinced its a game.Libras are not good compromisers. Example he eats his cake all, and then wants to eat your cake all up and everything is suppose to be "fine." I was willing in the begining to play the one way street, but Mr Libra is up 4 his match the Gem. I got good convo, im sexy( mr libra loves beautiful objects),I mentally and phycially seduuce him,I love geting money sum that libras love to do, and i feel this strong connection. He is iffy cause he knows i have someone in my corner welllllllll so does he.He cant except that we cant have a grounded relatinship but yet its ok for him to have there relations always looking 4 sum better. We try to fall back from each other but when we hook up things get steamy and then were back at it again. Then he plays this game. I told him we finish handle your business with her and he gives me back all my belongings lol. 3 days later he tells me what i wanna hear. He dosent really lke to express his true feelings. Im a Gem im usally good at picking people heads but this is a tuff 1. Wish i could 4 get about him he was only suppose to be a honey dip. Now im waiting 4 his call.lol. I know I know. I just want the persuit 2 be over . He knows i like the persuit thats why he want pull over. Somebody help me my head hurts. I wanna text him. What do I say?

I was recently seeing a Libra man, he has been goi...

2008-04-23T23:14:00.000-04:00

I was recently seeing a Libra man, he has been going back and forth with me the entire time I was dating him. I wrote him an e-mail telling him how FAKE he is, with his behavior and he don't know the meaning of give and take. He flipped out on me ,sent me this three paragraph letter cursing me out. Saying ,how I act like he owes me something, I act like were in a relationship. I told him he owes me RESPECT. And if I call him and he says he's going to call back, stick his word! Call back! and what's crazy when he has a problem he will call me and EXPECT me to be there for him. I told him HE's FAKE, LIER and has EXTREM SELFFISH MOODS. And I'm A GEMINI ELEVEN YEARS YOUNGER THEN HIM. AND HE ACTUALLY SAID HE'S TIRED OF MY MOOD SWINGS. We thought WE were Best FRIENDS, I LOVED THIS MAN I'm THREW WITH LIBRA MEN!!!!!

to the "I am a Capricorn" Anonymous, You and a li...

2008-04-17T19:04:00.000-04:00

to the "I am a Capricorn" Anonymous,
You and a libra man are one of the worst love matches going. he probably wasn't that into you. there is always 2 sides to a story as well, readers beware. he may fancy a gemini on the other hand who has been thought to be as communicative, social and sex driven as he. better luck next go!

I'm a Gemini women in love with a libra man and he...

2008-04-15T16:41:00.000-04:00

I'm a Gemini women in love with a libra man and he will not call me for days . When I text him or leave him a message saying I don't want to be bothered anymore,he calls me RIGHT back. I could play his cat and mouse game with him but it's draining when you long for love. Libra men are flaky, I should know I'm a Gemini we invented it.
Oh they will DATE you when there MARRIED and not tell you.

oops I hit the wrong button and ended before I was...

2008-04-02T17:16:00.000-04:00

oops I hit the wrong button and ended before I was finished. Yes, I have seen him lie through his teeth. He is very secretive, even though he has told me a few things about him self and he forgot he had and acked abit shocked when I made referrence to those items. He gave me that "How in the .... did you know that." I would remind him he was the one who told me.
Yes, what is it about him ignoring you one moment and flirting in pursuit the next??? I think he just needs the validation and I'm it.

Ok! you guys hit the nail on the head. I had a lib...

2008-04-02T17:05:00.000-04:00

Ok! you guys hit the nail on the head. I had a libra persue me and he is still persueing me and when I start to show interest he then pulls back. I have texted him a few times and he has returned the text BUT has never been the 1st to text me. He told me one day to text him that day. I did twice and no respon. So the next time I ran into him, he too acked as if nothing had happened flirting as usael. I finilly start ignoring him and he start persueing EVEN harder.

This is funny because i have just experienced that...

2008-03-31T17:53:00.000-04:00

This is funny because i have just experienced that... waiting a libra guy to call.... he didnt, so i called him and he was kinda weird... talking as it was normal that he didnt call or didnt give me any excuse... making me feel bad, like i am runing after him. he make himself look so busy like he doesnt have time for me but when hes with me hes so affectionate so its confuses me! i dont knnow what to do.... i might not get in touch anymore because as a gemini myself, lack of communication kills me!i rather being alone... or wait to see whats this guy really plays.

really i am a sag girl f--k libra men!!!

2008-01-19T03:40:00.000-05:00

really i am a sag girl f--k libra men!!!

I'm with Hot Scorpio in Lawrence. Wow, I wish I h...

2008-01-14T03:08:00.000-05:00

I'm with Hot Scorpio in Lawrence. Wow, I wish I had her gumption 10 years ago. Live and learn.

Libra men....STAY AWAY from them!I was married to ...

2007-12-05T23:08:00.000-05:00

Libra men....STAY AWAY from them!

I was married to one for 11 years and then dated one for a year. My ex-mother in law is also one.

A libra man will pursue you if he wants you and will take your heart. Then he will reconsider and reconsider and simply cannot make up his mind. I thought it was me and the responsibility of family until I dated another Libra and it was EXACTLY the same.

They are very concerened about finances and status (every Libra I know). Will screw you over for a dime, if they think its fair (to them that is). Love to spend money and then complain about it. Love can be bought.

They are great with kids and turn into big kids themselves.

They will charm you and entice you and when that wears off or doesnt cut it anymore they become manipulative, lying and even violent.

They are wishy washy. Hard to change their minds and offer advice that they will consider if you are close to them. BUT they will ask a complete strangers advice and make life altering choices based on some strangers views.

Exasperating!

Good advice! Thank you for sharing, I never thoug...

2007-10-21T22:01:00.000-04:00

Good advice! Thank you for sharing, I never thought of neglect as a form of abuse but it most certainly is.

We gravitate to the familiar. If our parents were egotists who neglected our needs, we got used to it, and take the same bullshit treatment from our boyfriends and spouses.

Thanks for turning the light on honey.

Fellow Scorp who withered from neglect and re-emerged from the cocoon hot as hell

and loving it

This is a very strange title to an article. Why w...

2007-10-09T21:30:00.000-04:00

This is a very strange title to an article. Why would anyone wait for a man to call?

My POINTS:
1)Neglect is a form of abuse. In this day in age, there is no excuse for ANY woman to wait for a man to call. He is abusing you by not calling and do not respond to abuse.

2) Always book the double-header when first getting to know a guy. Book one guy Friday night and another one Saturday night. This way you avoid getting overly into the first guy and keeping your cool. Also, if one guys screws you over, you've already got instant validation from the other one. Odds are better with two choices than just one.

Experience: I encountered a Libra man who promised to call and didn't end up calling ONE TIME. I always give men until 7:30 PM. No call by 7:30 PM and I consider that being stood up. I am at the bar by 8:30 and typically with another man by 10. As far as the Libra Man who did not call...I've removed him from my friends on myspace, I've told clients to turn their business to another vendor he competes with and I've told every friend I know his penis was smaller than a salt shaker. I will never give him any consideration. I was a fool for not being able to see his potential for such wreckless treatment to women in the upstart. I'm sure I must have been drinking the night I met him or my intuition would have been better guided.

Love, Your friend and Protector
Scorpio

I have a libra man that I'm dealing with.I'm a tau...

2007-08-28T12:15:00.000-04:00

I have a libra man that I'm dealing with.I'm a taurus .well any way things can be going fine for us.And out of the blue he wont call or answer my calls.Also it always seems like he will wait until 3 days to call me back.But he will never say why it took him so long to call.plus one day we're having sex and he told me that he loved me and I didn't responed .I acted like I did't hear him.,so later that day I called him 2 times and he didn't answer my calls.he called me 3 days later like nothing to it.

I am a Capricorn,-Reply to anonymous and mysteriou...

2007-08-28T09:09:00.000-04:00

I am a Capricorn,

-Reply to anonymous and mysterioussomone comments~~~

You guys are not only "right" about the crookedness in Libras, they are also extremely selfish and childish. And I'll tell you why.
I was dating a Libra "boy" (he's 31 years old, but he acted like a little boy) for 2.5 years. The first two years were like playing tug and war; I kept trying to leave because I didn't like his stubborness and his narrow-mindedness. Yet,he remains persistent. Trust me, when they are interested in you; Libra guys would go out of their ways to impress you, for their own "personal" intentions and self reasons. However, if he decides to cut you loose, they can deliver your personal belongings to your front door. They will move you out of their life so fast without taking a glimpse at what you both once shared.

I got hooked onto him and all of a sudden he found the lamest excuse to dump me. Me and my friends couldn't figure out the reasons and I were confused and frustrated. I insisted to solve any possible conflict, but he wouldn't budge. Yet he still wants to be "friends"- please....you mean "bookshelf?" No way! I'm a Cap women; with dignity, I held my head up high and moved on with my life. I stayed as far away from this ruthless and unpleasant person. I suggest you do that also -anonymous. In addition, 2 months later out of the blue he called me 10 times leaving me annoyed so I finally picked up. He told me that he thought I was not able to live without him so he called to see if I was still alive. Can you believe that? Please.... 2 months later...another lame excuse. You see what I mean? This librarian thinks of himself too highly and not able to realize that he was the vulnerable and insecure one. But sadly, I don't think he will ever take time to be conscious of it due to their egocentric personalities. They never know why they made you mad, or how they made you upset. He's too busy looking at himself holding the 2 trophies in his hands; charms and righteousness- I don't have respect for him. I made sure that was the last phone call he dial to me. Ladies, Libra "boys" are eye candies, but that's all you get to have one as a boyfriend.

Haha, My experience with a libran who wouldn't cal...

2007-07-04T14:18:00.000-04:00

Haha,
My experience with a libran who wouldn't call is just hilarious.

I'm not even sure if he's waiting for me to call, but he just wouldn't. He calls once in a blue moon when i am so not expecting it. something thats totally unexpected. Ask me why? I dont know! (perhaps its his sag influence)

Other times he will make sure he is on my mind, and he does it without calling. By sending symbolic signals.. mind you.. something like subliminal messages.

I thought he wanted me to make the move, but when i did he withdrew. so i got the hint and when i "left".. he came on strong again.

Tell me what sort of dance is this, because i am a libra too and i don't quite understand it.

:)

okay can i just laugh at what sagilarious said?!?!...

2007-04-10T19:03:00.000-04:00

okay can i just laugh at what sagilarious said?!?! omg it is sooo true, and i oughta know, because i'm a libran...

we might not call because

1. you are wicked hot, and we want to make our first conversations with you ideal.

2. you are not hot, but we don't know how to tell you that we were using your affections to make us feel good in the moment or for the benefit of others, and now that we don't have to see you, well we are dissing you...

3. we have forgotten where the hell our cellphone is...

4. we are busy making lavish plans for you and 2 other people we are interested in.

5. we will eventually call because ackk we wouldn't want to appear to be impolite...

6. we have finally worked up the nerve, because we were so excited that you called, and haven't stopped talking about you to our friends for days...

that's all i can think of off hand, but i'm sure there are plenty more reasons...

7. there are plenty more reasons.

LOL! love this blog!

Mysterious Someone,You ask if you "have to be hook...

2007-03-17T19:23:00.000-04:00

Mysterious Someone,

You ask if you "have to be hooked by Libra alone?" I wonder what consistently draws you to this sign. Perhaps there is something in your natal chart (Libra on 7th house cusp, or 7th house ruler in Libra) that relates to your attraction. If you can become conscious of the Libra within yourself, maybe there will be less of a need to experience this let-down from others.

The thing was I waited and waited until he call me...

2007-03-16T21:28:00.000-04:00

The thing was I waited and waited until he call me but maybe his hands was been cut, his mind was been block, his cellphones might been snatched or he don't want to call. I've been seeing with him three times but he promised to call but oh my goodness..such promises can be only fulfilled by the next century... geezzzzzz....I think he just dont want to call. Maybe, Libra is just too charming for their own good, narcissistic and too fancy. I don't like Libra now a days...All I dated for the past days were all under the sign of Libra...but oh my...do I have to be hooked by Libra alone? Libra is crook and too many promises but failed. Don't trust Libra, they are crooked.
He seduced me at first, thats the thing about Libra but after a while they will leave you like you never existed anymore. Like you we're dead..huh? Libra makes you feel good inside because they are charming creatures but they will leave you dumbfounded afterwards, after they become bored with you.
Not all Libra though, but that guy...his just I dont know with him.

The nice thing is, once he finally calls, if he do...

2007-02-24T02:33:00.000-05:00

The nice thing is, once he finally calls, if he does, he will tell you EVERYTHING about why he didn't for so long, what he thinks about you, what kind of potential future you have together, bla bla bla. This is funny to me because I have had a Libra courting me for quite some time, and I am simply not interested in him, but he explains to me in detail why he is waiting, why he thinks it is a judgment error on my part that I am not taking an interest in him, and how he has already analyzed that we are the perfect pair. Libra is a sign of communication, so you may wait a while for the call, but if/when it comes, it will seem like all that time was spent figuring out what to say to you.