Comments on Seduction Central: Why Aquarius loves Libra women

I'm a libra women with a aquarius man, we've been ...

2008-09-04T20:56:00.000-04:00

I'm a libra women with a aquarius man, we've been together for about a little over a year, but lately he seems very distant & he hasn't talked to me for almost four weeks now, this happened before but for a short time(about a week or two) he did call me & said he was sorry he wasnt talkin much, he said work was being stressful(hes a carpenter)& dat he missed me, but since then i havent heard from him..sometimes i get the idea that he could be cheating, but I wait around for him regardless of the thought, its realy confussing me, please give me some advice & info to help me out..thank you

I'm a libra women with a aquarius man, we've been ...

2008-09-04T17:25:00.000-04:00

Interesting....never involved with an aquarius...t...

2008-09-03T12:47:00.000-04:00

Interesting....never involved with an aquarius...though my first french-kiss was with one and it was so intense (I was a virgin) that I decided not to see him again. That was then...this is now. I have been involved with Sags most of my life. Never dated a scorpio until recently. We both have Venus and Mercury in Scorpio. OMG! I can't even sit in the same room with the man without becoming aroused. We have both fallen hard...so hard it's scary. Ay insight on Scorps and libra women? I'm 10/2.

Wow, I'm not even sure where to begin... First of...

2008-09-02T17:59:00.000-04:00

Wow, I'm not even sure where to begin... First of all, I'm a Libra woman (Oct. 16, 2pm), and I've almost exclusively dated Scorpios and Sagittariuses, and most recently a Taurus.

And to be honest, the characteristics that a lot of people are describing, fit my exes to a TEE.

I'm leaning toward agreeing with the other person who said that they are traits of immaturity more than anything else...

I just met an incredible aquarian guy this weekend... and he blew me away. Everything about him just makes my jaw hang open, but at the same time, I don't feel anywhere near as "involved" as I've felt with other "insta-connections". In my opinion, that's really good considering that I end up spending and unhealthy amount of thought energy in those cases.

He really seems to be into me, and if he's truthful, he doesn't act like this towards everyone... and even though I don't "know" him very well, it's easy to believe based on what I've seen.

I'm not sure that I have a question here... I'm just appreciative of everyone's insights, and wish I were more familiar with the intricacies of astrology so that I could understand a little better...

In any case, I'm pretty excited by the prospect. He's far and away the most beautiful person I've ever been with... physically... and we seem to match up particularly well. Lots of teasing, joking, challenging and being truthful. He can see RIGHT into my head. To a certain extent, I know it's not entirely true, but he is extremely intuitive, and very sweet... but a bit harsh at the same time.

If this goes anywhere, I know I'm in for an extremely growth-filled relationship, both personally as well as part of a couple.

im a virgo women..but i would have been a libra if...

2008-09-01T23:49:00.000-04:00

im a virgo women..but i would have been a libra if i was born 2 days later..i have a lot of virgo characteristics when it comes to the worrying and the critical and analytical stuff; however im very much like the libra in the love and romantic side..ive recently started dating this great guy who is an aquarius..hes also 5 1/2 years older than me..theres days where i just adore him completely and then sometimes i feel like this partnership is just too much work...i feel empty when it comes to my emotional side..hes to distant and cold and gets upset with me too easily. He gets me physically and mentally but we are WORLDS apart emotionally..he wont even hold my hand and its a HUGE deal if he makes the first move..im cute and spunky and can pounce on him with confidence like he likes..but sometimes i would like to have that same attention..is that impossible to ask of an aquarius male? someone please comment on this..i hear so many of you libra girls hitting the nail right on the head when you talk about how they dont meet our emotions!

Enjoy it now while it last. You deserve all the a...

2008-08-27T10:51:00.000-04:00

Enjoy it now while it last. You deserve all the attention, right? So why even worry about that. Let him woo you. Yes, keep him guessing. I am pretty sure as a fellow Libra myself, you will open up when you feel the time is right. And of course, when you open up you will dish out all the affection you have inside.

I'm a libra women and i was in a relationship with...

2008-08-26T12:01:00.000-04:00

I'm a libra women and i was in a relationship with a aquarius man for a while...its complicated, but we broke up a while back...we are sursprise sursprise still good friends, i have a connection with him that is really deep and i just click so well with him.The reason we broke up is difficult to explain. He didnt know how he felt about me, i didnt know how i felt about him, although we both knew we just got a long so well..he told me a loved me many times, i couldnt say it back...i confronted many emotions he had, i think that was the problem, he got scared..we live in two different countries, but i just wonder if an aquarian decides its better to be buddies will they ever come around to getting back together again?

I know im generilizing alot here, but i would like some advice...i will go on with my life and date new people, but he holds has such a special place in my heart, its hard to deny that we wont be connected in some form the rest of or lives...just call me Libra lady..thnx

I loved this post- it fits what I have now with my...

2008-08-25T20:47:00.000-04:00

I loved this post- it fits what I have now with my new lover/friend the Aquarian M. I feel so lucky- he is attentive when we're around one another, we give each other breathing room to do creative things on our own. He's supportive... but he's also seeing other women on the side, which I actually don't mind. I'm not committed to him, even though he makes me feel like i'm the only female on earth when I am around him.

Unintentional Reverse Psychology:

I tried stopping the sex part... but it seemed to backfire, he says he doesn't want to lose me as a lover.

I don't want to get attached cause I don't want to be hurt. But I already know that if this relationship should end I'll be treating another heartbreak.

Falling in deep,

Libra F.

Wow, before reaching this page all I knew about Aq...

2008-08-25T16:11:00.000-04:00

Wow, before reaching this page all I knew about Aquarius men is they are very independent,creative/artistic,and intuitively expressive.

I'm a very young libra woman, just started dating an Aquarian two weeks ago...his fault lol. Truthfully I wasn't that into the idea, even though we hung out very often before he asked me out and it was always very exciting and adventurous, I had never really considered him as more than a friend before he asked me out. Sure we had kissed a couple times, but I've learned that kisses don't always mean anything to guys, so in turn I didn't dwell on it at all. Even though i was attracted to his charm and inventive ideas, as well as his spontanious nature, he wasn't by far the most attractive guy pursuing me, and sometimes he'd do things that embarrassed me like answer a phone call in the middle of a movie in the theatre :/

However, I decided to give him a try, because even though I did have another guy in mind...Pisces,(who most of my friends were dying for me to get with),I was unsure that if I did pursue the Pisces it would really go anywhere other than the bedroom... and since I don't like getting myself involved with a guy unless I think it could last and be more than physical, I decided to give this interesting Aquarius a try instead.

These past two weeks have been amazing!! I don't find that he's distant at all, he's soo cuddly and tells me he misses me and wants to see me again like every other day of the week. I feel like it's because I tend to be distant from him and do my own thing,as I've done since the very beginning of our friendship.
I can tell he's already crazy about me, though he doesn't outright say it, it's so obvious both when he is and isn't around me. When we're out hanging with friends he's still affectionate towards me. I'm very non- PDA, and he seems to know that so he doesn't do or say anything perverse infront of them to me, but he'll rub my back and holds hands with me where ever we go. He instantly told all of our mutual friends when I said yes to him, I only told a couple close friends from home.And he already invited me to his family's Thanksgiving dinner... but for some reason none of this is really smothering me, but actually makes me want to be with him more.

I don't love him or anything, but he's definately grown on me in the past few weeks. This is new to me, I've never started dating someone without initially being crazy about them beforehand, this is my first time dating someone and THEN feeling crazy for them lol.

The issue however is that though I'm a very caring and passionate person, I'm also very careful with men, and he doesn't know anything about my past boyfriends, experiences, childhood..anything.

We have very strong, intellectual conversations, and we connect at such a high wavelengh, it constantly surprises me how much we keep discovering we have in common as far as interests and ways of thinking about things. But I'm wondering if I should start to open up a little bit more to him. He's told me some things about his past girlfriends, his family...his past in gereral. He's gone out of his way so far to spend time with me and express how much he cares, and he's even expressed some fears he has already like of me cheating on him (which I would never do to him or anyone) or finding someone better... and he has no idea how much that has made me warm up to him.
I appreciate all the little things he says and does, I just don't want to open up and have it all go away. I kinda like that he calls/texts me and works hard to be with/impress me all the time. I've never had any other guy in my life do that, and it makes me feel so good because for once I'm not the one who's making all the moves and putting in all the effort. I do want things to become more mutual between us, I feel bad that he's been doing all the work to this point, but how exactly do I turn it around?

I know what I'm doing is ok for now because it's the very beginning and he's still caught up in the excitement of being with someone new and whatnot, but how do I keep this alive and show my affection back, yet also avoid him possibly becoming distant and seemingly indifferent as everyone seems to be mentioning about Aquarian men? Is the only reason he's being this persistant because I've been so distant and hiding my emotions? If I show him I'm really into him too will that turn him off of me?

Every guy I've been with up to this point has had an indifferent air to them, and I'm used to dealing with it, but it's not what I want...it's a very unsatisfying feeling to not know if someone truly cares for you or not. And what surprises me the most about this situation is it's making me realize that having been with a lot of unexpressive guys has somehow made me more secretive, inexpressive and indifferent in relationships as well.

Should I explain this to him, and make the effort to show him I care for him back, or am I better off letting him do all the work and keeping him guessing?

-Harmoni

Im a libra woman, whose been dating a aquarius man...

2008-08-17T10:18:00.000-04:00

Im a libra woman, whose been dating a aquarius man for a few mths, within wks i was in love, as he was, could tell, but he didnt admit it until he became distant and then ended it. He then said he had fallen in love with me, but with distance and his job he could'nt see how longterm it could work. Im also 12yrs older than him and have 3 kids. Since then we've continued to speak and txt and i think im finally winning him back again, he's said even to him its not over. When we talk everything is normal, we are a couple, he just wont see me, but i am hoping to see him this weekend, and just hoping its all good again, as until i pushed for why he'd become distant everything was fine. Why cant men just talk about their feelings? Why does it have to end before they say what should of been said and talked about, and then could of been sorted?

Libra Lady~ I've been w/ an Aquarius man for 5 1/2...

2008-08-12T03:50:00.000-04:00

Libra Lady~ I've been w/ an Aquarius man for 5 1/2 yrs~ absolute love of my life...We couldnt have any more in common if we tried! He has the ideas & I make them happen. I've learned when his "distant" times of year are...end of Dec. to end of Jan every year!I just keep my distance. And then I get "needy" in April and he usually starts going out on the town A LOT, asks for a "break" & I pack a huge bag and leave for few wks. This year he started talking about wanting babies with me and a house, but then seemed to start getting really nervous about it. I moved out of our home mid April, (like clock work)but we still were speaking a lot & fooling around, also host a percussion circle 2gether once a week. He started seeing a Leo, but I wasnt concerned bc our connection is so deep, & I thought it wouldnt compare...but then he randomly asked to stop talking 3 wks ago(right after I thought I'd be moving back home or we'd be moving away 2gether!) I really couldnt understand why he would get so close & then want to stop talking. Stopped by "our" condo last sat. & he tells me the girl might be pregnant, which would explain why he asked to stop talking...WOW!? He is my soul mate without a doubt. I said "I know we're unconventional, but this is over the top" I was EXTREMELY UPSET FOR A WK, left the meanest message I've ever left, (about having a baby w/ a stranger) but came to the conclusion I'd still be a part of his life and even help with the baby(although I havent told him that part yet)....but NOT A WORD FROM HIM SINCE~ he didnt even show for our drumming event. I know he must be freaking out, bc he really doesnt know her, but then after not hearing a word I'm wondering could he have really fallen for her??? The last words he said to me after telling me the news was "you know you are still my partner, you will always be my partner, we're just not 2gether right now"....HELP!!!! HE'S MY BEST FRIEND & I FEEL LIKE THIS GIRL IS TRYING TO TRAP HIM! I CANT GET OVER HOW MUCH I MISS HIM! I guess I wasnt worried about her bc we were still having our deep talks and have big goals as a team... He told me that he explained to her how important I am to him and that he wants me in his life, and I guess she asked him not to, at least for now...I would have bet my life that we would move 2gether and start working towards a "healing center" and our own family... The other twist is that I have taken care of other people's children my WHOLE LIFE, so why wouldnt I do it for him? I just dont know what he's thinking at this point or whether to write him an email explaining that I'll be there for him...I'm evolved enough to handle it... but I dont know if he is. I also know he didnt realize that I would almost faint at the news and take it so badly, but I explained that every boyfriend has asked me to have children, and he's the only person that I ever said yes to. Now that I've done really heavy soul searching I remember that I've always said "I love kids, but I probably wont have any" so I'm questioning if this is GOD's way of giving me another child to care for that wont really be "mine", but considering he and I havent spoken, who knows if she even is! HELP! Try to talk to him or not?....~L

Jeff - You are absolutely correct and I thank you ...

2008-08-07T11:24:00.000-04:00

Jeff - You are absolutely correct and I thank you for the advice. I will stay away from the Aqua man and analyze my current situation. I don't think I am bored with stability, I am just afraid that everything will work out.

@self-centered -- Do you think that the Aqua man w...

2008-08-06T12:25:00.000-04:00

@self-centered --

Do you think that the Aqua man would ever be able to forgive me for the break-up? If we were to decide to get back together again in the future as a couple, could this actually work? or should I just walk away like I did six years ago and ignore him forever?

It sounds like you're skating in dangerous territory, if you're what ifing this much. You're married! Perhaps you're bored with stability? It sounds like you regret your decision. Focus on what's lacking in your marriage first, and it might be best to avoid contact with Aquarius for a while, at least until you know where you stand.

@anon who posted before self-centered: it's always...

2008-08-06T12:20:00.000-04:00

@anon who posted before self-centered: it's always a risk to trust, but I wouldn't hold off just because he's an Aquarius. You can't generalize.

Libra woman in love with Aqua man. In a relations...

2008-08-06T11:45:00.000-04:00

Libra woman in love with Aqua man. In a relationship over eight years. Loved him to death but he was so scared of commitment. He is very nice, charming, and the only entertainer. I was immediately attracted to him. We were young and I guess you can say we grew apart. I grew tired of his ways. He was too cold and distant which drove me crazy. In short, I ended up breaking up with him probably due to years of brush-off and his abrupt cold attitude. The break-up was immediate from my part. I met someone who helped me to forget the Aqua man that I was once madly in love with. I avoided any contact with my Aqua man for over 4 years. He did not even cross my mind which was great for me. I moved on got married and its gonna be two years ever since. I am happy with how things turned out bcuz I did want to be married and in a stable relationship. I finally got what I wanted but lately the Aqua man has been coming to my mind. I talk to him over the phone and see him ocassionally. I know I shouldn't be doing this. I just can't be mad at him bcuz I still want to be his friend. Do you think that the Aqua man would ever be able to forgive me for the break-up? If we were to decide to get back together again in the future as a couple, could this actually work? or should I just walk away like I did six years ago and ignore him forever?

Libra woman in love with Aqua man. In a relations...

2008-08-06T11:38:00.000-04:00

Libra woman in love with Aqua man. In a relations...

2008-08-06T11:34:00.000-04:00

Right now I'm datin a aquarius n I'm a libra we be...

2008-08-06T05:14:00.000-04:00

Right now I'm datin a aquarius n I'm a libra we been datin for bout a month but been known each other for bout a year and a half before I actually decided to meet up w him. Everytin been great since we start datin I talk 2 him everyday when I don't see him n he has been tellin me everythin that's been goin on w him, but for some reason I'm scare that he might end up cheatin on me like my ex who was also an aquarius did and that part is stoppin me from gettin too close to him, he say I'm the only female he's dealin with and he always tellin me how much he likes me n when we have sex he always says my name but I unno if I can really trust him I honestly want to tho cuz he always put a smile on my face.

im a libra woman w/ venus in libra and mars in GEM...

2008-07-28T12:25:00.000-04:00

im a libra woman w/ venus in libra and mars in GEMINI (NOT VIRGO SORRY)...and my love intrest is a aquarius male w/ venus in peices and in mars.
The first time we met we immediately hit it off, then eventually I found out he has a girlfriend that he's been with 4 months before me and shes a peices w/ venus in aquarius and mars(should i be worried)sometimes i wanna be more than friends but i kno we can't.
Even though we only met 2 weeks ago it feels as though we have such a strong connection, we can talk for hours.

Do you think I have the chance to win him over??

Should I persue him more, or jus remain friends hoping they break up, or jus forget him all together

Please Help

im a libra woman w/ venus in libra and mars in vir...

2008-07-28T12:07:00.000-04:00

im a libra woman w/ venus in libra and mars in virgo...and my love intrest is a aquarius male w/ venus in peices and in mars.
The first time we met we immediately hit it off, then eventually I found out he has a girlfriend that he's been with 4 months before me and shes a peices w/ venus in aquarius and mars(should i be worried)sometimes i wanna be more than friends but i kno we can't.
Even though we only met 2 weeks ago it feels as though we have such a strong connection, we can talk for hours.

Do you think I have the chance to win him over??

Should I persue him more, or jus remain friends hoping they break up, or jus forget him all together

Please Help

Liberty 34 -I think I can see what has happened he...

2008-07-17T02:07:00.000-04:00

Liberty 34 -

I think I can see what has happened here, after2 years with an aquarian I am something of an expert and I am Libran also!

He has opened up at first and let you see his vulnerable side. Aquarians do this, but then they feel that they have left themselves open to being hurt and rejected. This is how he felt when you withdrew, and yes they do go ultra-cold and make you feel like you are the person they like least in the world.
After a few weeks, he will certainly be missing you like crazy but wont want to admit it in case he gets hurt again. That is why he says he wants friendship only, it is a way of protecting himself.
I know you did nothing wrong, but he will feel like he has been betrayed and it will be hard to coax him out again, but with time and patience and no pressure from you, he will come back to you.
V

Liberty-34Im a 34 yr old libran,thought myself wis...

2008-07-16T19:47:00.000-04:00

Liberty-34

Im a 34 yr old libran,thought myself wise. Ive been with an intense scorpio for 8 years,but wanted to break it off for about a year..I met an aquarian man who was so into me,it became stifling..he said he loved me and also told his friends and my family that too.One morning i woke up and just wanted to leave his place,not because of him,just wanted my own surroundings,think I hurt him,he turned into the coldest man ever and we ended,as even when i admitted that i too loved him,all he put in response was very touching,me being me lashed out and slagged him off,he told me to delete his number,so i did." weeks later i get an email..I miss u..silly me fell for it and went all mushy,then he said he missed the friendship but not the pressure i put on him! er ok.Im confused,im usually logical but this isnt logical is it??any clues???

I'm another Libra woman, appears we like to do res...

2008-07-13T22:42:00.000-04:00

I'm another Libra woman, appears we like to do research on our potential mates! :) One of my best friends is an Aquarius male. I had to laugh at this reference to Star Trek because that is how we met! I love the show as well but he knows a lot more about it than me. Whenever he talks transwarp theory I'm all ears. I love his energy, friendly disposition, and sense of humor. Sometimes our conversations become flirtatious and sexual but that's no problem for me, these are actually some of my favorite conversations. He also has a serious side and once hit me by surprise when we were unable to talk telling me he missed everything about me, my disposition, my appearance, the way I laugh, he also gives good serious advice, and if he has a problem will come to me for advice. I've also seen times where he must be feeling misunderstood, so I try to remain sympathetic.

My friend is from a different country, so yes he does strike me as unsual, exotic.

I adore him and am very happy to know him, a better friendship than I've had with pices or taurus, and actually at times more receptive than my leo friend.

I think the Aquarius Libra relationship works on an intellectual matter after all we are both air signs and air is the element of intellect. If you use your intellect to balance our your emotions or even heighten them (sexual attraction) you will find this also supports you.

oh my GODDD i think im going to go crazy with thes...

2008-07-12T14:41:00.000-04:00

oh my GODDD i think im going to go crazy with these aquarians!!
im a leo woman with a libra ascendant and a capricorn moon with a gemini venus. okay, first time i was with an aquarian was me dating my bestfriend who became completely elusive and then cheated on me. and then told everyone not to date me. good riddance. he was exceptionally distant.
then i met the most amazing man. we met for like one day and we instantly clicked. he lives across the world. its been a year since ive seen him but we talk a lot online and over the phone. mental connection is great and from what i remember, the chemistry was explosive too. we considered a relationship but his ex wanted to get bk with him so he did. they broke up like almost within a week. we began talking again and have been since the past 7-8 months...like 2-3 times in a week, which is pretty good considering were both in college and have interesting ppl around us and things to do.
but now i dont know what his issue is. sometimes he acts amazing, other times hes just detached. i accept a lot of things...whenever i make the effort to communicate, he responds well but hes stopped making the initiative as much as he used to. a few days ago he told me tht he wants to drive me away cuz hes insecure. even though he made it out to be something not to be taken seriously, i knw theres a truth behind it.
the fact tht we still talk and have a connection considering we met for just one day and almost no hope for a future...says a lot, dont u think? but he keeps me wondering. hes told me he likes me, tht im beautiful, tht im his bestfriend, irresistable etc etc but hes also told me tht nothing can ever happen between us cuz i dont knw him and i will never knw him and tht he doesnt do long distance and THATS IT. hes stubborn and i have learnt tht its no good to resist.
but each time i pull back, he pulls me back in his own aquarian way.
and lately, hes started showing slighttttt signs of possessiveness(!)...
but he has space issues too and even though i dont like unbreathable relationships, it still feels lonely. but ironically, he makes me feel at home too.
according to him, we're just having 'casual' talks..
:(
and as u can see by the amount ive written about him, im pretty crazy abt him. and i think he knows that.
infact, he does know tht.
another thing is tht hes coming in a month for a week and tht theres a chance we might be in the same place next year.
how do i manage this? i like him a lot. and even though hes warm and communicative one day, he can be distant and painfully independant the next...
what do i do?

A - I too am a Libra who wears her heart on her sl...

2008-07-10T09:00:00.000-04:00

A - I too am a Libra who wears her heart on her sleeve, I also like to discuss things and have all the cards on the table. My Aquarian man is very like yours. He cannot discuss anything emotional UNLESS he has had a few drinks! This is when all the plans, dreams and things we are going to do together get discussed.
However, in the cold, sober light of the next day, he changes. He pretends to have forgotten most of what was said, and wont discuss it anyway.
I think what has happened with your man is that he can feel himself getting drawn in to your relationship, and his feelings deepening, and it frightens him. He has to withdraw to find himself again and prove to himself that he has not gone weak and that he is still his own man. I think Aquarian men need to feel that they are self reliant and dont need anyone's love, and if they feel at all vulnerable they disappear to make themselves strong again.
I know what you are going through. Your best option is to withdraw yourself, as they def dont like it if you play them at their own game. He may sulk for a bit but if he wants you he will come round in the end. It requires patience.
Good luck and keep us posted.
V