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22 years ago I can almost remember the hour, on De...

2008-07-22T00:05:00.000-04:00

22 years ago I can almost remember the hour, on December 12, 1986 my BBF /Fiancee and Capricorn .. slipped. And I went ballistic.
Went straight into the waiting open conniving manipulating arms of his Geminii X friend. Who set up the whole event. Advising each a different way.
Marry in haste ? repent in leigion!

We never did completely cut but had too much fire and youth to lket those egos go. So it was Christmas and holiday letters every few years. Peeking at each others lives without... each other.

Now it is 2008. we are together and happy for 13 months, and it just ages well.
His cold pull aways when stressed, unbalance me, but I force myself for the easy confrontations of communication instead of saving up for a row.
They are easily hurt inside and have low esteem no matter how cute they are. The Labels nice guy and boring make them wince and do crazy things in HS. But stability is not boredom.
Wheh they trust you everything is yours and they will want the whole enchilada... marriage kids etc.
Normally they are very faithful but can leave you flat in seconds if they think you are using them.
and they think their Libra mates flake out to avoid responsibility. Not becuase we are overwhelmed at deciding things quickly.

We are still breaking in for fit.
Our charts are heavy with fire with Leo moons firing up inner shyness or indecision.
I worry some becuase he has some past hurt really impacting how he views me.But He's been anxious over our breakup and i have obsessively missed him for over 20 years.
I was with him when I had a break from that Geminii nutjob a few years. I lost out son and he never knew then. While I was processing a failed divorce, I threw myself at him in our 30's. He barely refused.
He huffed off to London and married in haste and let me know he was married. Then I went back to the Gemini. I stopped contact after my second child was born. The drama was overwhelming at home, I couldn't focus if I was worried about him. So he came looking for me. And came back to the US.
We finally are together again, He accepts totally and does well with my youngest that is with me. Age 3 and autistic.
It's tough as our stereotyope zodiacal habits throw stumbles at us. We have so few problems. He is a provider, lover, smart, shy, funny and nervous. Time and some hard circumstances in Europe knocked that Leo arrogance and vanity down to a pussycat. Mine was thrown in a sack and drowned by my eviL X.
IIt has some rough spots I need a handle on... that is why I am here to likely get some insight on what this particular Cap is thinking.
Time is of essence. We are in our 40's adn I got a big surprise to unveil in a month. Not the favorite kind of most typical men that are not mormons.
We are househunting right now. but he is still not committing completely and it makes me nervous. He has been almost married 4 times since his divorce in 04. Must be somnething in his chart. I have always been the one he hesitates with. Yet he pined for me 20 years. Was crying in beer a good 5 years . Sometimes i wonder why he even likes me. He is much more verbal about it this round.
My affectionate displays still can embarass him.
And as a creature of habit it is hard to get the passion ignited if he has late hours adn it is bedtime. I manage. Heh! Things you can learn on the NET! o_0
They are VERY sensetive to infidelity. And they are very meticulous and notice fine detail, no dount he noticed your almost did.
And beside signs... any guy who will chase a girl who is with someone else? Not likely to stay faitful if they even stay with her.
My Geminii X did EVERYTHING to break us and did.
Even married me to play "keep away". Then proceedded to dog me, hate me, keep me like a possession and run around on me. Not saying your Geminii would go so far. But he was going after a woman who he knew was with another.
Bothered to woo you and study you and be "perfect" for you.
That is my own experience with these maddening, fussy , bossy, loyal hardworking goats (dated one other). Winning is hard, but the prize is forever.
So I try hard to winterborn romeo.

Dump that loser and go on with your life...he is n...

2008-04-15T09:14:00.000-04:00

Dump that loser and go on with your life...he is not for you...aren't you bored out of your mind with him....All he talks about is work and money its boring...get someone who stimulates your brain and makes you see things in a different light..Go with the air signs, the are intellectual and will understand you beter...This guy is probably cheating on you, thats why he doesn't want sex...use your Libra instinct...

@anonymous 3:33- I am beside myself! I have never ...

2008-03-30T17:20:00.000-04:00

@anonymous 3:33- I am beside myself! I have never heard the phrase "I'm JUST a leo"...you might as well say "I'm JUST one of the most awesome types of people on the planet!!"

Why are you insecure and "feel so small" compared next to the girl?

Confront him in a gentle way about your feelings...ask him if he finds her attractive, and if he says yes don't be offended...he's not dead yet!

I would just let him admit it and then you can go from there.

Usually I find the girls my husband finds attractive..attractive too so instead of turning it into something between us, it's something shared.

Silence and not acknowledging the elephant in the room is the worst thing you can do.

99% of men will compliment you after the acknowledgment of another womans beauty, and will offer sincere reasons why he's with you and not her.

Above all else...you are awesome, who wouldn't want to be with you, anyway? Fabulous Leo!

I have been worried for the past couple of months ...

2008-03-30T15:33:00.000-04:00

I have been worried for the past couple of months about my boy friend having an afiar with a taurus girl whos really pretty and since I am just a leo I feel small compared to her what should I do???

I'm a Libra (moon-Sagittarius and ascendant-Libra)...

2007-11-07T15:45:00.000-05:00

I'm a Libra (moon-Sagittarius and ascendant-Libra) and I've been with a Capricorn (moon-Aquarius and ascendant-Libra) for nearly 10 years. At the beginning of our relationship I felt that he was very special for me. But soon after it started to feel like he was kind and gentle but no fun and passionless. I felt like if he didn't get excited about having sex with me and etc. And it sometimes still feels the same. I tried to talk to him about it - It looked like he found it difficult. On the other hand he's very hardworking, honest, loyal, generous and makes me feel very secure, and I still think he's very special for me. Maybe that's why I couldn't leave my Capricorn when I fell for a Gemini (moon-Leo and ascendant-Gemini) a year ago. I almost did everything to not to get involved with the Gemini who also fell for me - it was like if we were soul mates and his sweet talk and passion opened new channels in me. Now he's (Gemini) got a girl friend and I'm still with my Capricorn but still can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I will never... I wish I could have made my mind up then because this way it's very upsetting..