Comments on Seduction Central: How to get a Cancer man to call

I am a 33 year old Capricorn female coming out of ...

2008-09-06T22:25:00.000-04:00

I am a 33 year old Capricorn female coming out of an 18 YEAR relationship with a Cancer. Never again. Seriously, girls RUN until you are out of breath as far as damned possible from them because they will leave you looking and feeling like you just came thru chemo. Unless the whole secretive liar, cheating stalker and extravagant cheapskate with numerous Mommy issues thing is what you're into.

Cancer men suck, period. You will always feel so sorry for poor them, even while they are blaming everything that goes wrong in their miserable life on you. but don't worry, when you kick his ass out finally, he will start paying you all the attention he couldn't when you were together. More manipulative and conniving and dramatic than any woman, he will alwys get things his way all the while crying about how you never do anything for him and noone loves him.
Cancer men are garbage, period. They will use the children, the dog, the damned cat and everything else he can think of to try and guilt trip you. Don't fall for it. If he were capable of feeling anything for anybody but himself he would love you but since he can't all he can do is try and make you as miserable as he is.
He's handsome, charming, good in bed but called Cancer for a reason. Run girl. run hard.

First of all, why would you even want a cancer man...

2008-06-19T01:42:00.000-04:00

First of all, why would you even want a cancer man to call you? Let him call his mother instead. These guys are just plain sick. They are women trapped in men's bodies and actually hate real women because of it. They are sick. CANCEROUS to be precise. Every cancer man that I have ever known is a sociopath and will use women only for their purposes to suckle and whine. TOTAL LOSERS. And because of their total lack of morals, they are almost always STD carriers. STAY AWAY. Let them rot in the hell of their own making.

sigh I had a bit of a heartbreak with a loverly ...

2008-06-05T01:07:00.000-04:00

*sigh* I had a bit of a heartbreak with a loverly Cancerian man (Aqu Moon, Leo Venus and Ari Mars with my Leo Moon, Aqu Venus and Sag Mars). It was just about magical, but he is in a long distance rel that "cannot be", he says, for a couple of years while he and she resolve personal obligations. After a couple of weeks of IMing, we had a date that showed us that besides the mental chemistry, emotional understanding and common life experiences, there was overwhelming physical chemistry on top of it all. At the end of the date, he told me while he was fondling my hand that he was afraid of breaking my heart and couldn't give me what I wanted, which he knew from the way I was looking at him. It was incomprehensible to me how we could have this experience and he could come out with this, esp since my mission at this moment in my life is to date casually. At least that was my mission before I met him. This is my only experience with Cancerians so far and I don't know if it's representative, but it certainly bewildered me and hurt me.

Iam gemini and i met a cancerian guy he nices we w...

2008-06-03T07:35:00.000-04:00

Iam gemini and i met a cancerian guy he nices we went out for the first time on saturday and i thought we had fun we snogged and left it has that i phone him on sun like i promise and we spoke but i felt like i was rush of the phone has he said he just heading out and will call later but never did i sent him txt the nxt day sayin i hope you havent forgotten me he replyed back saying what ever makes you think that he said he willo call but never he txt later that evenin to see if i was ok i dont know if he likes me or not how can i tell..

So I went out on a first date with a cancer boy wh...

2008-05-27T00:20:00.000-04:00

So I went out on a first date with a cancer boy who I am completely smitten with. He kissed me very primly 3 times at the end of the date and left. 2 days later he emailed me but not made any plans concerning future dates.or called. My friends say he is shy, and will open up in time, and that it was a
good thing he emailed me, but what I want to know is, how can I coax him out of his shell? If you are too forward they skitter away, but I want to go out soon!

Cancer males are manipulative and evil to a great ...

2008-05-17T14:59:00.000-04:00

Cancer males are manipulative and evil to a great degree. I "had" been dating on, and let's just say it's over. I don't like the fact that he feels his life and feelings are more important than mine. Their selfish and need to grow up. They are done with diapers and feedings so why not act like it. I dont care who gets offended by this. I'm glad I met him though, I am now a huge bitch because of it, I should have been that way a long time ago. Everything he has done to me will be done to him I believe in Karma. He never called me, even when I landed in the hospital. Never checked on me when I got out of the hospital, and don't ask me if anything before that occured which would make him not call, cause the answer is NO! He's a prick and I know he probably see's other's to make up his mind of who would be the perfect person for him. Screw him and the womb he slid down to get here. He's a prick. Also I got myself checked out for every STD cause most Cancer men will lie to you about what their doing. They would sugar coat having dinner with the devil so eloquently. Be careful! I'm a leo female by the way and I will never talk to him again in life. I hold a grudge like a stapler holds paper together.

I need help regardng a cancerian guy i am intreste...

2008-04-11T06:26:00.000-04:00

I need help regardng a cancerian guy i am intrested in..He's a great guy,a genius at law and very shy..I understand the attachment to the mum part, but this guy's mum expired when he was born..I confessed my feelings for him in jan,for which there hasnt been a reply.And i asked him that thru an sms,big mistake.Bt when i call him,he doesnt pick up, and when i msg him,he doesnt respond.but when he sees me he will give me the most wide toothed grin i have seen..what am i suppose to make of this,should i just wait for the phone call or keep msging him like this?

I just got dumped by a Cancer. I didn't realize h...

2008-04-06T00:03:00.000-04:00

I just got dumped by a Cancer. I didn't realize how attached to him I was until it was over. He never invited me to meet his family :(

I am scorpio female who is head over heals for can...

2008-04-05T14:14:00.000-04:00

I am scorpio female who is head over heals for cancer male. we have dated on and off for 5 years. he never calls.

lmao at victoria =]]i'm a cancer girl but i have a...

2008-03-25T19:42:00.000-04:00

lmao at victoria =]]
i'm a cancer girl but i have aquarius ascendant so i never call people first; i play hard to get like cancer does, but even if we become friends, i keep them at a distance because i'm scared of looking clingy. so i'm very emotional, but i come across as distant. i always make someone else make the first move.

The best way to get a Cancer man to call is wear a...

2008-02-10T23:38:00.000-05:00

The best way to get a Cancer man to call is wear a low-cut top and tell him you'd rather stay in than go out. When he does come over let him lay his head on your lap, that way he gets a good view. Cancer likes to keep it cozy.

This is to funny..my cancer guy always speaks abou...

2008-02-10T00:32:00.000-05:00

This is to funny..my cancer guy always speaks about his mother. It really doesn't bother me at all. For me, that's what draws me to him, the fact that he loves his family the way he does, especially his mom. They say Aries and Cancers don't mix but I say not so. I guess for me I have an understanding of him and why he does what he do. I understand when he needs time along to vent or even just think. He can be very insecure sometimes but I just over look I don't feed into that much. We all have our ways about ourselves and it is what it is.

Eme Kah, exactly. I'm also pretty sure that she'll...

2007-09-13T10:33:00.000-04:00

Eme Kah, exactly. I'm also pretty sure that she'll eventually find him a girl, who will make all decisions for him, just as she does it now.
Well, if it works for them?

Jara, since the Cancerian mother has started cherishing the idea that I'd make an ideal wife for him, I'm too busy avoiding them altogether ;)
What I occasionally witness is enough to suspect that it's not even about apron strings, but umbilical cord.

Cancer, you say?

Fiametta, ask the Cancer guy (alone) why his relat...

2007-09-12T22:58:00.000-04:00

Fiametta, ask the Cancer guy (alone) why his relationships didn't work. Then ask his mom (alone). If they say the same thing, RUN! Translation: those apron strings haven't been cut, yet.

BTW, I hope I have a Cancer child. :)

Careful... when a cancer man calls... he won't sto...

2007-09-12T19:57:00.000-04:00

Careful... when a cancer man calls... he won't stop!!!

Fiametta, that's kinda... yucky. No one wants to c...

2007-09-12T16:24:00.000-04:00

Fiametta, that's kinda... yucky. No one wants to compete with a guy's Mom. Not sessy, imo.

It's not that funny, because it's true. One of my ...

2007-09-12T14:38:00.000-04:00

It's not that funny, because it's true.

One of my mother's best friends has been encouraging me to give her Cancer son a chance many times already.
The guy has been in many relationships, but none of them lasted long - in the end his mother didn't approve.
She's another Cancer.
I'm seriously intimidated every time I see them.

This post is funny!Jackie, you gave good advice ab...

2007-09-12T01:09:00.000-04:00

This post is funny!

Jackie, you gave good advice about a Cancer man. On a 2nd date with a Cancer guy, we were sharing our baby pictures (his suggestion). He invited me to meet his daughter for our 3rd date. Of course, I thought it was sexy that he's such a caring father.

Isn't 'feminine wiles' just a euphemism for emotio...

2007-09-11T20:12:00.000-04:00

Isn't 'feminine wiles' just a euphemism for emotional manipulation? She would certainly have to be careful using any sort of ploy as a Cancerians are eerily intuitive.

A brazen approach might scare him off forever.

I would suggest that she think of something he knows about call him to ask for his advice. Cancerians love to be needed. Then offer to cook him a meal to say thank you - if a good cook - otherwise take him somewhere where the food is good and plentiful and the atmosphere homely. When with him ask him lots about his family and find a way to pay a compliment about his mother.

Warning. If this strategy is successful he will be booking the church and picking names for the children - before dessert.