Comments on Seduction Central: How do you know when a Virgo man likes you?

this sounds like my jim whew. but faithful no! tha...

2008-09-04T21:49:00.000-04:00

this sounds like my jim whew. but faithful no! thats why we broke up they can be jealous they do send mixed signals. and procrastinators.

@mecca, i dunno, but just copying and pasting some...

2008-09-04T14:16:00.000-04:00

@mecca, i dunno, but just copying and pasting someone's work on someone else's blog without even giving them proper attribution is not "fair use." Besides, how does it contribute to the conversation if it's not in the commenter's own words?

who me jeffery>>

2008-09-04T12:15:00.000-04:00

who me jeffery>>

The above anonymous comment is lifted verbatim fro...

2008-09-04T12:08:00.000-04:00

The above anonymous comment is lifted verbatim from novareinna. Why are you bothering?

The Virgo male is orderly and methodical in his th...

2008-09-03T11:45:00.000-04:00

The Virgo male is orderly and methodical in his thinking, but not always in his dress. Typically a generous and loyal soul, he may not be overly sympathetic in romantic affairs although he constantly harbors a desire to assist those in need. This man usually proves to be a true partner or husband..once he makes up his mind..and will be very affectionate and devoted to his family. At times, Virgo males may be extremely demanding, requiring that any mates prove themselves over and over again. They will also expect sacrifices to be made if necessary. Anyone seeking a "sugar daddy" or a man who will take infinite care of his partner had best seek elsewhere. This individual can be depended upon, but he is nobody's fool. The key word here is integrity and above all else, the Virgo male needs to feel that he is worthy. This is a man with a quick mind and one who is practical and honest. However, he is basically shy in terms of sharing his feelings. Any partner must help the Virgo male to build his confidence and it would be foolish to expect him to be outgoing. This is a far from happy-go-lucky soul. In order to fully understand him, it is necessary to learn how to "read between the lines." Males governed by Virgo need mates who have faith in them and can appreciate depth of feeling. Patience will also be a factor when it comes to achieving goals. To be truly happy with a Virgo man, any prospective partner must appeal to his intellect rather than his emotions. He is inherently critical and discriminating, and does not admire anyone who is weak or whimpering. Males governed by Virgo prefer strong individuals who can hold their own in any given situation. By nature, men of this Zodiac Sign are very practical and will not waste a great deal of time on those who cannot command their respect. If this male ever appears harsh and arbitrary, then it is probably because he expects much more from a partner than that person has been able to provide. In marriage, he will be self-sufficient, dutiful and faithful. Though dependable souls and good providers, Virgo males are not necessarily exciting or adventurous when it comes to romance. Thus, many partners of these men often seek clandestine affairs. It will be important for any mate to realize that no amount of love, attention and/or devotion will ever transform this man into a Don Juan. When it comes to the ability to change, he will inevitably be somewhat stuck in his ways. His staid attitude is frequently well-hidden in the early stages of a love affair. Indeed, he may initially come across as flirtatious, seductive and a veritable tease. This can lead to problems and much confusion further down the road when the true Virgo nature emerges in full force since once a comittment has been made, he will undoubtedly seem to have lost his love for the chase, preferring to "cozy up" with a good book instead of his partner.

What about if your Virgo calls you by a pet name? ...

2008-08-23T19:10:00.000-04:00

What about if your Virgo calls you by a pet name? One that is specifically realted to a trait he has picked up about you, not something generic, like "buttercup." Coming from the usually very reserved Virgo, it makes me melt.

be patient, show him what a great gf u can be..sed...

2008-08-09T16:38:00.000-04:00

be patient, show him what a great gf u can be..seduce him..with ur mind,..body and soul..invite him for a sensual dinner..candles...slow music...u in a black dress, an afrodisiac perfume...and look deep into his eyes...and act natural..like ur his best friends...but in a seductive way...subtle...elegant..classy...well..at least u do it...i don t think i ll ever met the virgo once again..gd luck!

sounds alot like my night last week with a virgo m...

2008-08-05T20:26:00.000-04:00

sounds alot like my night last week with a virgo man! So now what to do ? He still says hi and text me,but now what?

Hi guys..i m a virgo lady myself..and i meet at wo...

2008-08-03T16:50:00.000-04:00

Hi guys..i m a virgo lady myself..and i meet at work ..guess a virgo male... in 5 minutes i felt completly attracted to him...he offered to drive me home, he was such a sweetheart...we talk a lot in the car...mostly about me, he acted like an old friend of mine and give me advices...when i finally arrive to my house, i said to him i don t wanna go home..it was 4 o clock in the morning..and when he invite me at his house..i said yes..i couldn t said no...he mesmerized me with his inoocent look..and extremly comfortable conversation...when we arrive he was a total gentleman..he openned the door for me, he made me a drink..we watch a movie...then he invited me to his bedroom cuz i was sleepy....he even light candles..and put some music...he gave me a massage..and after...like magic i transformed myself into an incredible passionate vixen...i was so into him...we had the greatest nite...and i can t believe it how fast it hapenned...i think he was criticising me :(( i really like him..and i feel so comfortable with him..and he s such a great listener...the next morning..he was hugging me..and questioning me about my entire life...:))..what i should do..,i don t know if he considers me a slut, i m scared..he was my second guy, i real was hypnotized by him...i would love to have something with him...but do u think i screw it up? he was kind and a gent just to seduce me and get me into his bed...he told me he wouldn t expect me to accept his invitation...but things were developing so fast..i was never that passionate in my life...ohhh....what do u think about my story? :)

Mecca...I didnt think it was spontaneous!But I do ...

2008-07-28T11:10:00.000-04:00

Mecca...I didnt think it was spontaneous!
But I do have quite a few planets in sag :)
That should answer your question.

This message is for Mecca I believe. I just read y...

2008-07-26T21:04:00.000-04:00

This message is for Mecca I believe. I just read your comments and I just wanted to let you know that you are a true Sag! Boy the things that come out of Sags mouths, makes you take a couple steps back LOL!. I work with one and oh my jesus she is a mess LOL! But very fun

Well I am a cancer so I get along pretty well with...

2008-07-26T20:48:00.000-04:00

Well I am a cancer so I get along pretty well with virgos. The previous postings regarding virgos being hard to read are true. They diffinatley act like they have something to hide and also their sense of humor is a little off. But one thing I do know is that if they like you or love you they will always try to fix any flaws that you bring to their attention. You just have to say it in a respectful way because they are very self conscious. Antoher thing is to always keep there mind stimulated. Play a few mind games with them from time to time. And yes they can be a bit stiff so its up to you to brighten the mood they like that. Always stay pure but freaky. ONE THING THOUGH DONT EVER BE SLOPPY OR LAZY IN MIND THEY HATE STUPIDINESS AND A DIRTY HOUSE.

well good for you... but that does not answer my q...

2008-07-25T15:56:00.000-04:00

well good for you... but that does not answer my questions... now does it.?

well good for you... but that does not answer my q...

2008-07-25T15:55:00.000-04:00

well good for you... but that does not answer my questions... now does it.?

Mecca...Yes VERY spontaneous...did you not see tha...

2008-07-25T12:36:00.000-04:00

Mecca...Yes VERY spontaneous...did you not see that i am a virgo too?
Outlandish even for me...but its been almost two years now, and we are buying a house together...things couldnt be more fun!

I'm an aquarius girl and my virgo man is not like ...

2008-07-24T15:27:00.000-04:00

I'm an aquarius girl and my virgo man is not like your guys experiences. He is kind of possesive but I love him for it. He is really grounded, affectionate, and he fell fast for me after he decided to settle down with me. But he was a hard catch, he would say he never wanted to get married blah blah blah but look at us now! He is the most faithful and reliable partner I've ever had once he let me into his heart. If you really want your virgo man be patient and steady, once he let's you into his heart he won't let you go, and you will be very rewarded!

boy you said a mouth full tell me how can i get t...

2008-07-23T12:15:00.000-04:00

boy you said a mouth full tell me how can i get the virgo man to trust me again.. he cheated on me.. but there is always two sides true.. i told a lie to him... but i apologized. and i had him arrested for harrassment... hes out of jail now.. i was confused he made me confused one minute he likes me and want to be in a relationship. then he finds someone else (which he had been seeing all along. then he says i want to be monogamous with her.. but i am the one carrying hes child right now... due in october.. so hes mad because i decided to keep my child.then he shows concern one minute then hes acting crazy as if he does not want to be bothered.

I am a Virgo moonsign male & I believe I might be ...

2008-07-23T10:45:00.000-04:00

I am a Virgo moonsign male & I believe I might be of a little help here.

A Virgo male always & I mean always lives in his head.The basic reason why a Virgo male always seems on & off emotionally is because of his organized & structured approach to everything including romance.He has a mental list of qualities which he wants in a woman & at any point in a relation, he finds a quality missing in a woman, it leaves him confused.Because he realizes that now the battle is between his thoughts & his feelings. He feels strongly for the woman but at the same time he is unable to cope up with lack of a particular quality in the woman. He might be able to ignore this fact for a little while but he is unsure if he can do it in the long run....since he is the fault-finder & critique of the zodiac.I guess most people are able to ignore the shortcomings of the person they love. For a Virgo male, it takes more time than others.

Honestly babe... whateverrrrr!!!. one month thats ...

2008-07-15T15:45:00.000-04:00

Honestly babe... whateverrrrr!!!. one month thats pretty spontaneous. don't you think. ?

I am a virgo lady who has been dating a virgo man ...

2008-07-15T11:34:00.000-04:00

I am a virgo lady who has been dating a virgo man for 1.5 years.
We had an instant attraction within the first five minutes of meeting, and from that moment on, he has been nothing but honest and kind. He has gone out of his way for my family (the most important thing to me); and the most respectful/loyal person I have ever met. He is endearingly possesive, which I like, and absolutly amazing as far as intimacy is concerned. Very nitpicky, but I find it funny b/c I am a complete slob :) we also moved in together after 1 month of knowing eachother, and I havent had a problem since. He constantly tells me he wants to get married & have kids (which is fine either way).we cant stop being complete obssessed with eachother, and seems to grow stronger by the day. & we love to be dirty together.

i have known my virgo male for almost six years no...

2008-07-11T03:02:00.000-04:00

i have known my virgo male for almost six years now and after a few boyfriends in between, he always seems to be the reason i leave a relationship. i fell in love with him the second i laid eyes on him. I am an aries so i expect immediate gratification, which he doesn't give. Talk about mixed messages thats all he sends.
We have created a pattern between us, we will talk for a few months, lets say end of august to december, during this time he will tell me all kinds of things like he loves me and how he wants to be with me forever. Then something hits him and he vanishes into thin air from january to august all over again.
Keep in mind he had a girlfriend for 2 years, the entire time still talking to me and a few others on the side.
I know that just the very act of me being the other woman was bad enough, but to think he would leave me for her was worse. They broke up a few months ago, right before we had a huge fight, he still wont speak to me unless we happen to be at a party together.
To be honest, all i want is for him to trust me and be with me, i just dont know what to do. Do i believe all the things he said to me, or face the harsh reality and move on?

I still am in love with him to this day. For me personally, its hard to express emotions, but when i think of him, i can honestly say he is the only person i could say those three fatal words to...

Virgo man is very new to me and Im amazed at the s...

2008-07-03T05:51:00.000-04:00

Virgo man is very new to me and Im amazed at the similar experiences the majority of all of you have. What have I walked into? Im Leo and that is the first stumbling block from what Ive read. Im older than my Virgo man but its all still very new. I cannot read him and Im holding back with my passion so as not to scare him. I can't stop thinking about him, he has beautiful eyes and a smile that melts my heart like nobody else. I dont know how to cope with such a man, he is not demonstrative, he can shut down, its a shock. Your messages have helped me understand him more but I will try to get to know him better if I have this chance.

l could not help it .. but my virgo was my virgo i...

2008-06-24T14:15:00.000-04:00

l could not help it .. but my virgo was my virgo i still love the idiot. i told his new flame he is going to cheat on her as he did with me on her with . she think shes the alpa and omega . in other words he was seeing both of us he was cheating on her with me.. anywho.. they are strange and very abusive emotionally men to me. i do not get along with these creatures

So glad I found this. I just broke off a 5-year re...

2008-06-24T01:00:00.000-04:00

So glad I found this. I just broke off a 5-year relationship with a Virgo man. Flaky, flaky, flaky, and deceptive to boot.

Doesn't call when he says he will... or anytime close to it... Check. Doesn't show up when he says he will... check. Doesn't follow through on his own plans for "us"... check. Makes love then disappears for a week... check.

Funny thing is, his brother, another Virgo, is just as flaky to him, and he complains about it.

This was a great reality check. I made the right decision.

if i just know...it seems virgo men gets women tir...

2008-06-15T16:00:00.000-04:00

if i just know...it seems virgo men gets women tired...

I am head over heal for this virgo, but how can i know if he loves me?? :\

he keeps staring at me.. he is trying to notice details about me..i feel he has a crash on me or deep attraction, but he is doing nothing!!

if i wake away he is after me
if i am after him he runs away

ALL WHAT HE IS GOOD AT, just staring at me from distance.
he is SOOOOOO SHY as HELL

i am not going to do the first move :( i am just waiting and i dunno till when but i will :(

WAT to do? HELP! i feel i will die waiting :(