tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post6620023562719963785..comments2008-09-15T23:48:29.662-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-22921273195507805912008-09-15T23:48:00.000-04:002008-09-15T23:48:00.000-04:00To everyone that just wanted to know how to get a leos attention...don't...run for ur life!...but if they mean that much to u...I guess I can try to help...I am currently wit my baby daddy...he is a leo...I am a scorpio...we have our good days..but for the most part...its a struggle. Anywaiz (enough about me huh?)...u need to show them ur interested but don't act like u wait around for their call all day...u better have lots of friends or start making some cuz he does and will chill wit them as much as possible...so u better keep urself busy...cuz he won't chill wit u as much as he did when u first met. And contrary to wat a lot of websites say...don't b his audience...his friends can b that...give him 2 much importance and he starts treating u like sh*t...give him too little and he might stray....either way...let him know by ur actions that he is no better then u...u are his equal...wether he likes it or not...it will keep him on his toes....do show him a lot of affection thou...but only when he deserves it...if he treats u bad don't b afraid to return the favor...a lions roar my a$$...one look from me and he's in a corner purring. Lol....a leo will only respect u if u respect urself enough to let him know that u love him but are prepared to live without him if he can't respect u....u r not a peasant to this royal headache...make him want u by making his friends want u..."he will feel lucky because he is the only one good enough to have u"...but will act like ur lucky for being with him...to him...u r the chosen one...and will expect u to appreciate it/him. With a leo...its not so much what u say...more of how u act...pretend that lil extra weight he put on makes him irresistible..then encourage him to do some situps with u...because U need the exercise ;) he doesn't like feeling rejected...(if he does...u can pretty much expect to not get any a$$ that night)...so watch wut u say if ur a blunt scorpio like me... surrender ur heart to him....but never ur mind...leo needs a strong woman that will keep him in check when needed. Or u can just ignore everything I just said....cuz our relationship isn't perfect...so wut do I know? Right?....lol...nosa...jkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-74765795628989131202008-08-28T18:15:00.000-04:002008-08-28T18:15:00.000-04:00I am in love with a Leo man, but I am married. Since he said he loves me I get the hot and cold treatment and I was wondering if I should tell him I am going to leave my current relationship or should I wait for him to ask me to do soGigihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03500199009096122611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-3956289395515776992008-08-28T18:02:00.000-04:002008-08-28T18:02:00.000-04:00I am in love with a Leo man, but I am married, though in name only...he has been SO wonderful and since he has told me he loves me, I get the hot and cold treatment. Should I tell him I am going to leave my husband to be with him or should I wait for him to ask me to do it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-10953577510463294862008-07-07T14:40:00.000-04:002008-07-07T14:40:00.000-04:00Hi All. I need help; I really like a Leo man. He is painter. We have a mutual friend who introduced me to his work. We started speaking before we even met as I expressed I admired his work. When we finally met in one of his exhibitions we were immensely attracted to one another. However when we speak we always speak on instant messenger and its very hot and flirtatious and fun, however I understand its all about technology now a days but I prefer to speak on the phone. I don’t want to pressure him as he just came out of a serious relationship, however I want to get to the point where we actually speak over the phone and go on a date. I feel like he is some what intimidated to meet up or perhaps he is to shy. But we have great chemistry when we speak.. ugghhh.. on aim, but I want a lil more. I want him to be able to know me personally instead of inst messeging. I feel we would really hit it off. So I don’t know weather to be aggressive and tell him lets go on a date and ask him for his number,Or should I give him some nice compliments and then proceed to tell him we should meet for lunch? I just don’t want to seem too easy and available.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-1724869614769524212008-05-07T12:24:00.000-04:002008-05-07T12:24:00.000-04:00@kelly, traditionally, Leo rules "The heart, blood and cardiac system; the back, spinal cord, and sides of the body." (<A HREF="http://www.skyscript.co.uk/leo.html" REL="nofollow">Skyscript</A>). I dunno about the back of the ear. Maybe stroking his back or his chest would help.Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-87238836746273763042008-05-07T07:51:00.000-04:002008-05-07T07:51:00.000-04:00Jeffrey,<BR/> I'm into this leo. I didn't plan on it or anything, it just happened. I have heard about their egos and flattery. A specific saying I heard " Stroke the back of their ear." Or something like that. But, I don't really know what that looks like. Advice please.Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00950491341414761110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-31216049090520874732008-05-05T22:28:00.000-04:002008-05-05T22:28:00.000-04:00I am a pisces female, involved with a leo guy , OH my god the games I have to play with this man... I have no idea if this is worth pursuing as he is a typical leo guy and I am very much the pisces female.. I have big chats with him and tell him right off when he is wrong. Our sex life is on fire, But It seems I am addicted to him for some reason and he hurts me all the time..But still cant bare not to have me around.. Im lost I want him but I dont know if he is worth the bloody effort. It doesnt help he is so great with my son either?? He says im too unpredicatable and moody, I say he lies too much but I can always tell when he does.. Any advice? We decided last night on an open relationship, but I still want to be his number one girl but he sure does so my head in???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-41621932440473926822008-05-05T17:49:00.000-04:002008-05-05T17:49:00.000-04:00Hi, I am a gay Arian male - I came out of a relationship last year after being together with a cancerian for 11 years...<BR/><BR/>I had a Leo friend who I just knew things could happen between us, but he is in a long term relationship with a tarian man.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I hadn't seen him for a while because he moved away with his partner for what ever reasons, but suddenly out of the blue a month after my partner left for a younger fella, he contacted me out of th eblue and asked me to go visit, so I did - not expecting anything because I had known him a good few years and would have thought if anything was going to happen, it would have happened by now?<BR/><BR/>When I got there, we went out the next day to do some exploring, and he made moves on me, I didn't stop him (I know I should have)and things happened from there...<BR/><BR/>I wanted to be sure after that, that I wasn't starting to form feelings for him just on the rebound from my partner and I have to say that I didn't fall for him just because he paid attention to me sexually.<BR/><BR/>I told him a few months after how I felt but got the response that he didn't feel the same - even tho we had spent more time together doing what I would describe as dating without saying it was a date...then more things happened on a sexual level, and even this past weekend, I have been to visit some friends who live near to him and his partner, and we have been out alone together for a meal and other things - but I am not a toy, and don't want to be the MR'ess, so nothing happened sexually.<BR/><BR/>he says things like I know we have so much in common as we are both very spiritual and like lots of the same things, I.E travell, enjoying live and so on.<BR/><BR/>I am just very confused because we are almost a year on and he is still keeping contact with me, knowing how I feel and even tho he has bascially said the love is gone out of his other relationship, he still seems to stick at it, am I making a mistake? Usually I would be bored by now but something is keeping me holding on to this leo and I don't know what - it is weird cause I have a few other options with other leo's but this one does it for me - just wanted opinions please - should I move on - or is it a case of waiting for the lion and having a bit more patience (not something an arian is good at I know lol)...Any advice would be appreciated! thanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-64028768671482396672008-05-02T22:07:00.000-04:002008-05-02T22:07:00.000-04:00If he didn't reply to the letter, does that mean he is doesn't feel the same :( (I can't read this guy, so confusing).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-33734493241464330462008-05-01T13:45:00.000-04:002008-05-01T13:45:00.000-04:00I'd think a Leo guy would appreciate a gesture of love.Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-58729496367127979762008-04-30T23:38:00.000-04:002008-04-30T23:38:00.000-04:00is it a good idea to send a leo man a love letter? I already did <BR/>:( but was it wrong?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-18982039746772997632008-04-12T04:18:00.000-04:002008-04-12T04:18:00.000-04:00Aquarius here but with moon in Leo dating a leo.<BR/> I find Leo's very easy to understand. Mine has changed a lot of his ways to accommodate me. Very sweet.<BR/> Look, I told him up front firmly, "I'm looking for a partner to grow with, it does not have to be you! (leos hate hate! being told what to do) and I will not put anyone above me. Then I smile and be light and sweet. He loves it! <BR/>Never tell a leo to change! When he does something I don't like I say "Do what you want, for I will never tell you what to do, even if I don't like it." Then I get real busy. He is crawling in a sweet way back to me saying "Baby have patience with me." or Baby I want to do so and so, I was just playing with you." He knows very clearly I put up with not much and if he treats me good I shower him with affection and warmth if not I get a little playful bitchy. Works every time! <BR/><BR/>And Leos will test you to see what you are made of. They want freedom, adoration and a strong partner that is loving and playful. They want to be king or queen but they also want someone THEY can look up to. So be a good or a loving goddess. <BR/>Can't forget to be playful. It may seem confusing but it works for me just fine. He even vacuums for me and does my dishes!... because I bragged about someone else who was so wonderful to help out. Praise, be very playful but if they are bad a bit bitchy. Take no shit but be kind. He finds it all humorous and a challenge. Cute. :)Aquarius goddessnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-15066613517402476702008-02-10T23:39:00.000-05:002008-02-10T23:39:00.000-05:00oops..In my haste of writing the above comment, I forgot to add that I am a gemini, in case that makes any difference.<BR/>Actually, that brings me to another question about the aforementioned relationship... should I even be pursuing this or will I find someone I am more compatible with in the near future anyway?<BR/>Thank you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-17516056823747493592008-02-10T23:31:00.000-05:002008-02-10T23:31:00.000-05:00Interesting blog. I am in need of some advice. I was dating a leo for 1 year. We had some ups and downs and recently really broke up. During our previous downs he would write messages to me, saying he was still thinking of me, etc. but now that we've actually broken-up he sends very few if any at all of those types of messages anymore. I've now realize I really want him in my life but am afraid too much damage has been caused and he may not be able to look over look that to try to pursue a relationship with me again. <BR/>I emailed him because I just needed to say a few last things to him. He replied with a "what does love mean" to him type of email. Now I just dont know if I should continue to write him back and go on and on with philosphical questions about "love" or ask him out to discuss in person or not reply at all and hope he comes back to me anyway. <BR/>In a previous email he wrote me he did say "he had not given up on us yet" but I worry that he may change his mind. Is that typical of leos? Should I be doing what I can to prevent him from changing his mind? Should I just leave him alone? How do I win him back?!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-73775337392600972762008-02-01T19:39:00.000-05:002008-02-01T19:39:00.000-05:00One thing i can tell u about leos is they only think about what's good for themselves and if you put too much effort into them, they will run far far away. Believe me, i've dated a few-1 was for 4 yrs and is now the father of my son. I chased him forever and then i finally got fed up with it and let him go. After a little while he realized what he had lost...typical leo trait...and came running back to me. I continued to casually date him but i was also seeing other men. Even though i didn't put it in his face, i also didn't hide it either. Another leo i dated wasn't ready for a commitment, and after a while, i ended up finding someone else. We still hooked up every so often and we are still very good friends. He still flirts with me all the time...another typical-noncommitment...leo trait and he has a girlfriend of 3 yrs. So the point is if you see him let him call you and you can touch base with him every so often but def don't put in all the effort to arrange any get together with him, he'll always go with whatever suits him best-as much as that hurts. When you do touch base with him just make it like your life is so exciting and you are doing oh so fine without his abnoxious leo @$$...and if he doesn't eventually come crawling back, well, his loss and you can do so much better without his games and heartache anyways girlie :o)oh don't i know these leosnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-3542498282896627012008-02-01T01:42:00.000-05:002008-02-01T01:42:00.000-05:00Dearest Anonymous! You didn't mess up a single thing. Not a single thing. You are in love with a man who is not in love with you. It is his choice who he falls in love with, not yours. In the meantime he will continue to have sex with you if you make yourself available when he needs it. And he will continue to have sex with other women too, as he is now. If you wish to continue sharing him and wasting your affection, go ahead. Something tells me you can do better.Common Sensenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-48602474014219880132008-02-01T00:19:00.000-05:002008-02-01T00:19:00.000-05:00hi..<BR/><BR/>Help!<BR/><BR/>i really like this leo. and we use to see each other all the time.<BR/><BR/>we had a disscussion.. about our relationship! he said we should keep it how it was.. but i said i liked him and yeh id like aliitle more. though i didnt explain to him i felt like it was all my effort in callin and meeting up. made me feel like he was not intreastead. <BR/><BR/>he said he didnt want to end up hurting m. but maybe we should see how it goes know that we know how each other feel!<BR/><BR/>i took it to heart. and said that i didnt end up liking incase he just decides to break it up ..<BR/><BR/>he went quiet and said ok thats fine i see your point. !<BR/><BR/>we didnt talk for a month then i seen him the other week!<BR/><BR/>i rang him to catch up at first he said yes .. but then he cancelld and said its because he he had something on befor hand and didnt want to have to cancell last minute..<BR/><BR/>he ask if i was free the day after i said i might go away, the next day .. i did end up going away. because i feel that he doesnt care. i msgd him to organise something the week after if he wanted .. but he didnt!..<BR/><BR/><BR/>its obvious i messed up isnt it.. i just dont understand him! <BR/>and i just want him to careAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-47223445436782260092007-12-09T17:50:00.000-05:002007-12-09T17:50:00.000-05:00i have more than a fair share of male leos in my life - not sure why this is, i am a libra female with a pisces moon and virgo venus, libra ascending. to all girls out there across the astro spectrum trying to land a leo man i would say this:<BR/><BR/>they are great in committed relationships to their girlfriends and take it to the bitter end, even if it's not working out. at this point in time they are all platonic friends of mine. one of them is engaged and two others are in serious relationships. the two single ones are pining for love. <BR/><BR/>what are they looking for? a) someone to talk to and simultaneously be admired by. someone who "gets" them aka gets them enough to compliment them b) someone physically fit and attractive, and FUN. c)someone they respect and who has a strong personality (but not stronger than theirs, they can instinctively feel it and it makes them uneasy), they have to be your knight in shining armor once in a while. d) you can play hard to get, but they don't like mystery.<BR/><BR/>when they get intense about someone, it usually happens very quickly. but it has to be at the right time - for them - otherwise even if you are the perfect combo of all of the above, they will pass right by.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-25376839953132447642007-11-26T14:37:00.000-05:002007-11-26T14:37:00.000-05:00Absolutely. Make yourself scarce for however long it takes and keep yourself busy exploring other options while you wait for Mr. Lion to reappear. He will be very puzzled as to why you suddenly fell out of orbit. Don't let on, just lay it on thick again (if you can stomach that) and you've got the tiger by the tail.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-8911623630213511682007-07-24T20:04:00.000-04:002007-07-24T20:04:00.000-04:00What if I lossed my leo man recently? I've always been his audience, and given his big ego the attention he thinks he deserves, but I think he got too used to it. Now, my plan is to ignore him altogether, so he relaized his audience is not paying attention. Is this the way to win a Leo man back???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-91034030888201224302007-01-24T11:02:00.000-05:002007-01-24T11:02:00.000-05:00Marly, <br /><br />From what I have witnessed, the majority of astrology search queries are about men, not women -- presumably because many more women are into astrology than men. I have noticed a few questions about attracting a [Sun sign] woman. Perhaps I have not answered those because I am writing to an imagined nearly 100% female demographic, with a few gay men thrown in? Perhaps I am wrong.<br /><br />Speaking as a man, I think men are interested in attracting/pursuing a woman, but not as concerned about "making her fall in love with me" -- which quite alot of women ask google.Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-87853579511380007132007-01-24T10:29:00.000-05:002007-01-24T10:29:00.000-05:00I just realized, Jeffrey, that you always talk about how to keep a [insert Sun sign here] interested. I presume this is because more women than men write in with these types of questions. Don't men want to know how to attract a particular kind of woman? If so, that's kind of depressing. It seems like women are sure spending a whole lot of mental and emotional energy on attracting men... who don't seem to devote the same kind of emotional energy to us.Marlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12216097041902446881noreply@blogger.com