tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post6587400496956522222..comments2007-06-17T07:36:09.639-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-22078410086490145882007-06-17T01:58:00.000-04:002007-06-17T01:58:00.000-04:00bp, I think I understand your feelings.Matter of fact, I am sure I do.<BR/>I was just about your age, when a very similar thing happened to me.I'm a Libra woman too, and my older very handsome West Indian director was a Libra.<BR/>I had other reasons for cutting it off--I wanted to have the whole affair, but in my case, he and I were both married to someone else--and I knew it would end in misery.<BR/>I don't know your situation, but there is something that makes me sense something similar.<BR/>I don't knwo if he is committed to someone else, but theres some reaosn he didn't contact you again socially. <BR/>I agree that dating and otheriwse getting involved with an employee could be dangerous, so that mght be part of it.(or even all of it).<BR/>What I was uncertain about was why you never called him, or asked him more.I understand he lives in another state...but you've had reason to see him, and know him before the Caribbean trip.<BR/>When you planned on seducing him--why were you going to seduce him, instead of simply seeing if he was also interested.<BR/>I'm also not sure why you could'nt go through with the sexual part even though you both had had too much to drink.<BR/>However--that is ot the point.<BR/>The point is, I shouldn't think he would really feel rejected that you needed to stop--after all, you strted it, and you were there in his bed.<BR/>But--it is possible he wonders if you are sorry now, and it is also possible he is sorry now.<BR/>If he was willing then, he may be again, I'm sure.<BR/>But--I think there is somethung stopping you.<BR/>What?<BR/>In my case, my Libra boss liked me too.We talked a whole lot.<BR/>He never actually told me his real feelings until after I was transfered elsewhere, though. <BR/>I don't know what would have happened had I gone through with it all--but, as much as it hurt me to think so, (and will hurt you too perhaps)..I was not the only woman he'd attracted, and been attracted to.By far.<BR/>Libras are very attractive, and seductive --you should know.<BR/>I might have even been especially attractive to *him*--I think so, and of course I hope so.:-)<BR/>But that still doesn't make for a lasting relationship.And whatever we tell ourselves, when we get hooked, we don't get 'un-hooked' easily.<BR/>My point is that these things can get very very painful.<BR/>If you got as far as you did with him, why aren't you trying to see him now?<BR/>If he's unavailable in some other way, then maybe you know it's not really so clever to involve yourself? <BR/>If's he's free and unattached, and so are you--call him.<BR/>But, bp--I have to admit I think Jeff is correct--this may be a lovely attraction, that has "something" special--but you're probably high on the romance and sexual feelings.<BR/>This might lead to nothing real.<BR/>I can't tell you what to do---but please don't brush off what Jeff said.<BR/>He said what he saw in your chart--for a good reason. <BR/>And what I'm saying is from knowing a *lot* about this kind of thing--just trust me on that one.<BR/> Meditation *is* a good idea.<BR/>:-)And good luck with everything.proserpinenoreply@blogger.com