tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post6453873984384103215..comments2008-03-28T02:07:17.721-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-74129950813472282452008-03-28T02:07:00.000-04:002008-03-28T02:07:00.000-04:00haha Cap dude done pull the goatie wool over ur eyes itchy itchy whatever turns ur crank girl but ur the one he loves maybe tainted love aint so badbadnoozbettynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-41792455011225269482008-03-27T07:50:00.000-04:002008-03-27T07:50:00.000-04:00@Hannah - I agree, it does sound insensitive... at best.<BR/><BR/>@Karen - you're right! Nobody likes to be told "you have to change for me." I liked the way you put it: be firm, straightforward, and loving.Christinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17401557584263774931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-66004583014352298112008-03-27T02:15:00.000-04:002008-03-27T02:15:00.000-04:00Virog woman dating a Capricorn who is close friends and actually sleeps in the same bed with his friend and business partner.<BR/>I believe it--he does not love her as he does you, and I doubt he sleeps wiht her in a sexual way--I doubt her ever has, or , if so, it was a long while back.<BR/>I have men friends I've been close withlike that, and I know men that have women friends that live in their homes etc--no sex no romance or intrigue or even "thoughts"..<BR/>However--if you and he are that close now, and your guys business partner friend lives wiht her boyfriend then it is time for this to stop.<BR/>It *is* difficult when the best freind is the opposite sex, because what does one do when one or both get serious with someone else? <BR/>But I agree with Christine who wrote the article.<BR/><BR/>I think we just have to speak up.<BR/>No--not"I think you're just awful, stupid, and wrong".But we have to say something like "I feel too uncomfortable with it, even though I know what the situation is".<BR/>I am *sure* he would not be so thrilled if you slept in the bed wiht your best guy friend.<BR/>I've seen this type iof thing become an issue, no one wants to be confronted made to feel like a bad child, or told they even have to change.<BR/>But it may very well have to.<BR/>Think of how you'd prefer to be spoken wiht if it was you, and do that--be firm, straightforward, and loving..Karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17635098996636723872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-90943412892864829762008-03-25T14:54:00.000-04:002008-03-25T14:54:00.000-04:00AUGH.<BR/><BR/>That is totally unacceptable. In my humble opinion, that is. Even if he isn't "doing anything" that is still unacceptable, insensitive behavior.<BR/><BR/>Oye vey!!!!Hannahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00686800200532180064noreply@blogger.com