Comments on Seduction Central: How Virgo men break off relationships

Virgo man after 7 years played me, i kicked him ou...

2008-09-04T19:26:00.000-04:00

Virgo man after 7 years played me, i kicked him out,we resumed sex immediately and now his girlfriend, a leo, has no clue, he has been sleeping with me the last 6 months. I have never been like this, but still love him, he is a liar, user and not faithful, so i do not know about a virgo being faithful. i feel sorry for the new lady, but oh well, she knew he played me, so she had red flags all over this man. too bad, he will not stay with her for long, he at least was with me for 7 and actually still is,

I'm a Leo girl and I dated a Virgo Male for a year...

2008-08-21T14:24:00.000-04:00

I'm a Leo girl and I dated a Virgo Male for a year and a half. Everything was going absolutely wonderful! We had the most Insane Sex, we did tons of fun things together, and spent basically everyday with each other if not on the phone with each other.( He was my first by the way). He had dated his Ex. before me for two and a half years...She is gorgeous. I had been having feelings that something wasn't right( and I heard from numerous people) that he had been sleeping with her. I confronted him and he denied EVERYTHING telling me I was the only one he loved and how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and all of the bullshit every guy says to keep you around. Of course... I believed him...Then I find out from his ex that they talked, saw each other, even slept together the entire time we had been together. I don't trust Virgo men what-so-ever. They will say whatever they have to say to fulfill their needs, with out any consideration to your feelings. He still denies it to this day... He Cant even man up to what he has done...

My ex was a Virgo. we just broke up...He stopped t...

2008-08-20T17:22:00.000-04:00

My ex was a Virgo. we just broke up...

He stopped talking to me for a MONTH after a small argument before he picked up the phone and told me he didnt want to be with me anymore. He said that the girlfriend thing aint for him, and that he couldnt deal with the girlfriend stress. He said he wanted to be single and that this relationship wasnt going the way "he" wanted it to go. Then, he hung up on me, and I havent heard from him since....

The fact is, this relationship had to be EXACTLY what he wanted in order for it to work. he used to pick me apart and call out everything he thought was a flaw. Eventually, I stopped being ME and started to be the person I thought he wanted me to be. but that was never good enough be I wasnt PERFECT! I still love him, And I miss him, and I keep thinking, how could he just end it like this after a year. I honestly dont think "TIME" means anything to a virgo. Its sad.

dude speak english if i want this virgo man back t...

2008-08-13T12:03:00.000-04:00

dude speak english if i want this virgo man back tell me how i can get him back. sense your a virgo man.. help a sista out...lol

im a virgo guy,...just thought id share some of my...

2008-08-13T04:44:00.000-04:00

im a virgo guy,...just thought id share some of my views...

the self critisism bit-- spot on
the loyalty bit-- spot on!

the bit about getting what you want evn if that means juggling at once-- i wud rather not,...but i have had the urge when the subtle hints dun get thru her thick skull!!....

we would never try to change the person we are with,....we keep hoping they will pickup the hints we drop,...when it doesnt happen-- we fall into a destructive cycle.
most important thing in the world to a virgo(or maybe just me)-- love,.....if you've found it an lost it,...welcome to the zombies'R'us club....

btw,...my ex was an Aquarious....can ya spell "disaster"....lol

Well I've dated a Virgo guy and I'm a Virgo female...

2008-07-26T15:07:00.000-04:00

Well I've dated a Virgo guy and I'm a Virgo female. Whats funny is I thought we would fit perfect for each other but in all reality we were too much alike. We were different in some instances because i would never act "immature" or "hold back on love" and he did exactly those things. I would tell him over and over to "give me you because im giving you me" plus he would tell me how he wanted me to be his wife in the future and that "I have everything he needs in a womnan" just alot of nonsense because he would never give me his ALL and i noticed that. I eventually broke it off because he would send me off on numerous occasions, or not call me at all. I got tired of that and now i know that, "VIRGO'S AND VIRGO'S DONT MATCH!!!!!"

im a pisces nd im datin a virgo man (opposite sign...

2008-07-10T18:44:00.000-04:00

im a pisces nd im datin a virgo man (opposite signs)
i hav noticed that virgo men cn b distance n cold wit u 4 sum tym den come bac a couple of wks later al lovey dovey!! i think d key 2 makin it lst is 2 av patience nd not do d chasin!! wen u chase afta virgo men dey seem 2 pull away even mre. we did break up n he gav no reason at al bu afta a month he did come bac! he does constantly put himself dwn n says i cud do much bttr bu i fink tats jus hes insercurities!!n it seems quite a common line frm virgo men!!!

I presume "inhouse dick" refers to a private inves...

2008-07-07T13:57:00.000-04:00

I presume "inhouse dick" refers to a private investigator employed within your own firm?

thanks mecca for your advice.iam not looking for a...

2008-07-06T17:04:00.000-04:00

thanks mecca for your advice.iam not looking for a relationship eather.but the sex is so wonderfull i dont want to get strung out.but for now he is inhouse dick because we live in the same complex.so i an going to injoy him while it last.do you think that will last for long?i work at night and sleep all day.so i am not exspecting to much.

honestly you will. virgo men are indecsive to me.....

2008-07-03T23:07:00.000-04:00

honestly you will. virgo men are indecsive to me.. and he just got caught cheating... i do not think he is ready for a serious relationship. thats the way virgo men floats. they are picky sometimes overtly.

i am a libra woman who is seeing a virgo guy.we ar...

2008-07-03T19:07:00.000-04:00

i am a libra woman who is seeing a virgo guy.we are not in a relation ship.we have been makeing love to each other for about three weeks now.but the catch is that he has just gotten out out of a nine year relation ship.of course he got busted cheating.i have a little fillings for him.he is just he nicest guy and im aslo a nice girl. ? do you guys think any thing serious can come from this please help with advice.i am thinking of cuting it of i am almost sure i will get hurt.

I am a virgo female and I just wanted to say that ...

2008-05-02T13:46:00.000-04:00

I am a virgo female and I just wanted to say that Virgo's are NOT slow to make a decision as people think, we actually make a decision immediately. If the Virgo in your life is dragging his or her feet on issue with you, its probably that they have BEEN made a decision that YOU wont be to happy with. A virgo WIll allow you to string yourself along, you can cut the rope whenever you feel like it by asking a direct clear and cut question.

I like this virgo guy,very much.and he know it,coz...

2008-04-26T10:35:00.000-04:00

I like this virgo guy,very much.and he know it,coz i told him accidently.At first he act like a jerk,chasing my friend after we have a date and tell lie about us to my friend.im hurt and i decide to not continue with him.and after a month he txt me and we start in touch again and i told him that what he done be4 realy hurt me,he apologize and promise not goanna do that again(oh well...its nearly 1 month and i asked my friend if he txt her again,and he didnt txt her again)and i start meet him again,but mostly i txt him first.he never txt me first,and sometimes he didnt reply my txt at all.he didnt talk too much with me and i dun know much about him but he promise to take me out for dinner and said im pretty and call me babe,and he hug me alot.well i thought maybe theres improvement between us,maybe he start to like me..but im affraid its only a bullshit.

i read all the articles about virgo guy thing and i know they might just take their time and dun like to be rushed.and the girl that be patience and wait will get his heart,but how do i know he like me when i even dun understand him.i dun want waste my time and i dun want after i fallin in luv with him deeper and he dun want be in relationship with me.

at the moment..i realy realy like him and i already fallin for him.but i realy confused,should i keep trying and waiting and be patience with him,or just move on?

Im so jealous with Kia Mari...lucky u u got ur virgo guy.i wish i can have my virgo guy.

and after i read that virgo guy can have sex without have feeling or love...worries me.coz im worry if he only want have fun after all.

And what i want to know now...his act..is that meant he likes me or he just want have fun?and if virgo guy lies and be a jerk once...can he keep his promise after he said sorry??

I am not quite sure what happened....he just shut ...

2008-04-18T21:58:00.000-04:00

I am not quite sure what happened....he just shut down and that was it...no calls, no texts, nothing. I just let it go and suddenly he was back. Now he is trying to win me back in his own way. No grand gestures, just little things...I am scared that he will do this to me again with no warning. I told him that I need to take this slow

I am a virgo female, and I must say that Virgo's a...

2008-04-03T13:59:00.000-04:00

I am a virgo female, and I must say that Virgo's are VERY loyal people, and that unlike what many of you may believe it really was something that you said or did that turned your virgo partner off and that is why they have left you cold and in the dark, we are not usually mean or cruel people but people tend to see us as aloof, when in actuality we are VERY caring and emotional, however we learn early that it is better to sit back quietly and observe our partners, before we activate emotions. We give you enough rope to hang yourself. I have many exs that ask what happened with us, it suprises me how others can be clueless at times. As far as cheating goes.... We ARE notorious cheaters and are awesome at juggling lovers. And yes I am a virgo female and can say honestly that I can do the do w/o having any feelings for the person.....I am with a CRAZY scorpio and he has been able to tame me, although Im sure its b/c he is so unpredictable that it keeps me guessing. If you want to catch a Virgo's attention you must STAND OUT, we also like a person that is confident in themselves, clean,sociable, intelligent (read the news alot),and assertive. You should approach us, thats a HUGE turn on.

Everything was going great, He seemed so happy, at...

2008-03-20T15:50:00.000-04:00

Everything was going great, He seemed so happy, attentive, I met all of his friends and family so quickly and seemed to get on great with them. Suddenly I didn't hear from him, and when asked if anything was wrong, he said, don't be silly, I've just been busy, two days passed and then I got the call, telling me that his feelings were confused, pretty much making silly excuses, and leaving me wondering why the 360 turn around? when everything seemed great? It took me a couple of weeks to realise that it was his loss, and I didn't deserve to be treated like that? Does put me off Virgo's tho?

Do you think so, really? That a Virgo woman can h...

2008-02-29T19:28:00.000-05:00

Do you think so, really? That a Virgo woman can have sex without having feelings for the man? I have to disagree. I maintain my firm stance that unless a woman is doing it for money or revenge, she doesn't go to bed with a man unless she has feelings for him.

With men, of course, it is a different story. I suspect, Anonymous, that you are a male.

If he keeps coming back you are doing something ri...

2008-02-29T17:54:00.000-05:00

If he keeps coming back you are doing something right. He may not want a relationship but that doesn't mean he doesn't want you. Trust, compatibility, warmth, easy going, kind, genuine people with clean bodies, teeth, hands, feet and cloths will attract and keep this Virgo. But one thing I can tell you is a Virgo man and woman can defiantly have sex without having feelings of love or loyalty to that person.

thanks for your comment how can you tell if a virg...

2008-02-29T17:02:00.000-05:00

thanks for your comment how can you tell if a virgo man is in love with you. mine keep coming back sex is awesome he seem more passionate than ever. dont know what came over him. but he is not looking for a serious relaionship yet. married 20 yrs. divoreced for 2. so what can i say. we are very attracted to each other.

I'm a Virgo girl...and I can add a little bit of i...

2008-02-29T16:39:00.000-05:00

I'm a Virgo girl...and I can add a little bit of insight for you. Virgo's men and women are very selective and sometime this is an unfortunate downfall for the ones we are attracted to and to ourselves as well. I can tell you that a potential mate can say or do just one thing that turns a Virgo off and once that switch is off it is off. Virgo's defiantly don't like games played with their feeling or their mind however, that doesn't mean they will not play them on you sadly enough. Virgo's are secretive and very good at juggling many relationships at once. If they can't find everything they are looking for in one person they will find it in another and another until they get that area satisfied. It is very hard for a Virgo to trust others let alone love others. Unfortunately, what most of you have noticed is how easily a Virgo can and will walk away…I know I can. If someone is negative, sloppy, foul mouth, poor hygiene, mean or curl to others…I will walk away without a word or a good-bye. Never seems worth it to bother. A lot of us feel we shouldn’t have tell others they should already know this and with that in mind a Virgo vanishes without a trace. I hope some of this helps.

YOU KNOW WHAT ANONYMOUS YOU HAVE PATIENCE OF A SAI...

2008-02-17T23:41:00.000-05:00

YOU KNOW WHAT ANONYMOUS YOU HAVE PATIENCE OF A SAINT. I DO NOT HAVE THE TOLERANCE FOR FOOLISHNESS. VIRGO MEN .. SOME ARE VERY IMMATURE AND CHILD LIKE.

YOU KNOW I AM GOING TO POSST A COMMENT ABOUT THIS....

2008-02-17T23:32:00.000-05:00

YOU KNOW I AM GOING TO POSST A COMMENT ABOUT THIS... MY VIRGO FRIEND WHO IS JUST WELL WE BEEN MADE LOVE SEVERAL TIMES. I ASKED HIM WHAT ARE WE.. JUST F--CK BUDDIES , THEN HE STOPPED ME IN MIDSTREAM AND SAID THERE IS NO WE.. I JUST GOT DIVORCED ITS BEEN TWO YEARS HES IS 57. BUT HIS ACTIONS SAYS SOMETHING ELSE. YES HES PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO ME AND i HIM . BUT I DON'T THINK ITS GOING TO LAST.

im a scorpio girl..im dating a virgo male..he woul...

2008-02-06T18:11:00.000-05:00

im a scorpio girl..im dating a virgo male..he would never use the excuse that he isnt gud enuf 4 me as he is very cocky, but in a charasmatic way, and also, he would never ask someone to change, but he has told me i talk 2 much in work..we work together, yes...in some ways he fits the virgo profile, but i think he has th attributes of an aries..could someone give me a hand?..well, he is competitive, stuborn and to the point, but he does it so it comes across as charming..is this actual charm, or does any one think he does this purposley? write bak asap..*third decan scorpio*

hey female leo anonymous.. how i wish my virgo ex ...

2008-02-02T10:37:00.000-05:00

hey female leo anonymous.. how i wish my virgo ex would realized how much i love him and how much he meant to me.. we broke off twice.. kind of like the same situation as yours.. and i do hope he realized one day and we can be together again happily working out our differences... though i'm kinda sceptical on trying the 3rd time.. sigh.. good luck to you!

Im a 36 yr old gemini woman who was recently dumpe...

2008-02-01T14:29:00.000-05:00

Im a 36 yr old gemini woman who was recently dumped by a virgo man. We communicated very well, had so much in common, I met his kids, he was very considerate. And after having a wonderful weekend (so I thought). His excuse for breaking off the relationship (Im too bougie for him). My feelings are extremely hurt becuase he was too much of a coward to tell me it is someone else.