Comments on Seduction Central: How to know if an Aries man is rejecting you

I am a scorpio woman with an aries male (he is my ...

2008-07-18T07:29:00.000-04:00

I am a scorpio woman with an aries male (he is my lover, we are both sorta 'attached' to someone else) and he is very hard to read. I can tell by his actions more than words that he wants me, but still I wish he would SAY more! The most he says is that he misses me, is thinking of me, it's gone on for 10 months...now what!?

I'm a Pieces girl and I'm with and Aries guy, we w...

2008-07-09T03:26:00.000-04:00

I'm a Pieces girl and I'm with and Aries guy, we were very good friends for a few years before getting together.

Well now he has become dippressed and has been telling me that,

"I'm afraid I might brake up with you..."

My life hasen't been to peachy latly, so I woulden't be supprised if he did... Just how my luck has been.

I really don't know how I should take his comment. I want to do whatever I can to cheer him up and forget his comment, but I can't forget.

my heart bleeds for anyone who has genuine affecti...

2008-06-07T13:11:00.000-04:00

my heart bleeds for anyone who has genuine affection for an Arien...

you need to appreciate that you are at their disposal...

they will come to you when they need you... but, they will never voice that they need you...

if you seek nurturing, don't go here...

if all you need is excitement, and can return it, they're your ticket...

as far as keeping up, they're clever... they don't necessarily offer to share their intellect... you have to wrestle for their thoughts... and cope with the likelyhood that they'll be annoyed 'cause it's as though they lost an opportunity to display their full genius before they were ready to receive their accollades...

you've been rejected if they no longer initiate or control the direction of the relationship...

if they think that they can do better, they will exercise that option

Aquarius and AriesThis is amazing, all these quali...

2008-06-03T04:35:00.000-04:00

Aquarius and Aries

This is amazing, all these qualities seem to fit my aries pretty well...Im (aquarius) a communicator and the aries guy that im talking to isnt too good with keeping up with me intellectually. No phone calls, text, nothing..unless I initiate it. When we're together its great..he expresses that he like me dearly, but doesnt communicate like that if we're not face to face!!! And also told me one day that he does not want to get attached, because he's the type to go head first and give his all!! we're 500 miles apart so conversation is all I really have to salvage with this aries, and he just doesnt give that to me. If he doesnt want to get attached, why feed me with words of interest when we do get to speak? Is this a good match? I know that aries is a sign of "action"...and telling it like it is, but Ive been told so much, and promised so much from this aries and nothing has been fulfilled..EVER!! and he comes back to me with a logical..or what seems logical to me..excuse!! What does it mean when an aries man never calls?

I need advice! I'm a 21 year old Taurus... and rec...

2008-05-20T08:09:00.000-04:00

I need advice! I'm a 21 year old Taurus... and recently I've come in contact with a 38 year old Aries man. He's a lot further in his career and a lot more successful than me, and we don't do the same job (just in the same field - a creative field). I admire his work a lot. I also just admire his existance a lot.

He never finished school and started for himself and became really successful. I am a "proper" college girl... and so more educated than him.

Taurus and Aries aren't exactly the mosts perfect zodiac match in the world... and adding to that I am quite independent and I have a pretty strong opinion. I'm also feminine and, well, maybe 'delicate' is the word? I'm pretty inexperienced and really careful when it comes to love, so I'm not "easy". These qualities supposedly DO match with Aries.

Nonetheless I am a Taurus and I do radiate calmth and stability beside my Gemini influences on other planets, which also makes me restless and impulsive at times.

Do I have any chance with this guy, just purely speaking in zodiac terms? I know in the end it's a matter of person to person communication and chemistry... but is this a lost cause? Since in the end, I am still a stable, independent Taurus?

Hey. I'm a scorpio female and i met an aries sever...

2008-05-10T05:14:00.000-04:00

Hey. I'm a scorpio female and i met an aries several years back. There was a mutual attraction and a genuine affinity between us. The only thing was that he didn't tell me he had a girlfriend. When I found out, he was very casual about it and started ignoring me everytime she was around. Eventually we were both ignoring each other but we would always be looking at each other even when she was there. One time he saw me with a guy friend of mine and was very upset about it. I don't see him anymore but i contacted him online recently and he wasn't interested in talking but he did stage a whole fit about the situation although it was already 3 years later and I had not even mentioned it to him. He was upset that I never spoke to him. I kept writing him after but he wouldn't reply. This aries has a lot of pisces in his chart, as well as his venus while my venus is in scorpio and i have a lot of saggitarius I think that might be why we got along. I was wondering whether him being defensive was a sign that he still cares about me or whether it just meant he was aggressively brushing me off. I really couldn't tell and I feel like I still might like him.

If an Aries Man is going through a divorce and has...

2008-04-19T16:16:00.000-04:00

If an Aries Man is going through a divorce and has a girlfriend, but flirts with you how do you know if he is just flirting and nothing else?

I won't tell you what to do. If he's cold and you ...

2008-03-03T23:01:00.000-05:00

I won't tell you what to do. If he's cold and you need warmth, you have to factor that into your decision-making process. But I don't think consulting Sun sign astrology will help you out. I doubt you can associate his coldness with being an Aries, anyway. Maybe he has Venus in Aquarius or something.

Thank for responding, but I still don't know if to...

2008-03-03T20:52:00.000-05:00

Thank for responding, but I still don't know if to continue this relationship or let it go. I am sweet and caring and his cold side gets to me. I have read so much on Aries and Virgo and I am starting to think its true, I just can't figure him out.

@Anonymous Virgo female, some Aries are just so im...

2008-03-03T20:08:00.000-05:00

@Anonymous Virgo female, some Aries are just so impulsive that their anger just comes out regardless of its impact on others. When someone says "I didn't mean it" it basically means, "That was a fleeting aggressive thought that we all have, it's just that most people are good at keeping them under wraps." Aries lets his aggression out, and then it's done and over with, and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

I am a Virgo female and have been seeing an Aries...

2008-03-03T17:42:00.000-05:00

I am a Virgo female and have been seeing an Aries man for a little over 7 months. It has been very difficult to keep up with the relationship. At firs he was so adorable, sweet, caring and then I saw his bad temper and the the ability to say the most horrible things when he is angry. Which he will later apologize and say that he did not mean it, he tells me that he loves me and nevers misses a goodnight text or a goodmorning text, but sometimes he is so cold towards me. Can I take this as a rejection or am I just reading to much into things, when we are together he is sweet and gives me all attetion possible, although our signs say that we are bad for each other. Any comment will be helptful.
Thank you

I am a Gem and I met an aries guy, about 7 months ...

2008-02-20T05:46:00.000-05:00

I am a Gem and I met an aries guy, about 7 months ago, I did not give him my number at first and he works away so when he got back 2 months later, he managed to get my number and randomly called me one morning out of the blue!
I did not really take him on and did not end up meeting up before he went away again.
2 months on and I get a message from his friend asking for my email address, whilst he was abroad. I did not give in until about 3 weeks ago. We sent a couple of emails, until he returned 2 weeks ago. I went to meet him last Tuesday, had a laugh and a really good time. One thing led to another, and I am kind of regretting it all now. Since that night I have heard nothing! I just don’t understand he persisted so long and now there is no communication. I know his leave is up next week, and he will be gone again. I cannot work out if he likes me or not? Its so strange, should I just face it he has lost interest or is this some game?

I am a cancerian woman dating an aries man. Need ...

2008-02-12T22:31:00.000-05:00

I am a cancerian woman dating an aries man. Need I say more? Basically, I have a headache and I'm really considering calling it off. I try not to over think things, but you know, that's what I do. The aries man does not have a difficult time saying what he wants (which I like that about him) he just hasn't told me what he wants from me. We see each other on a weekly basis and although he hasn't "rejected" me, I found today a myspace page of his in which he continues to market himself as single and has about 12 woman on his "friends" list ranging from trashy looking to classy looking. We've only been dating for about 6 weeks, but I'm thinking it has been 6 weeks too long. When I first met him, my first thought was, "Run! Run like hell and don't look back!" I should have listened to my gut. Now I find I really like to guy, but as I mentioned, I now have a big headache.

I need answersI recently met this Aries dude onlin...

2008-01-24T23:27:00.000-05:00

I need answers
I recently met this Aries dude online, and he knows one of my friends. I actually wanted to meet him way before when she told me about him and I was gonna get his number and everything. Except being the demure little Cancer that I am, I said no. I moved away to the US and that's when I met him. We talked for a bit and he seemed really into me. I mean REALLY into me...
But now, it's been a few months and we barely talk anymore. Everytime I message him, he's always depressed and rarely has anything to say.
IDK what to do. I know for a fact that he had a girlfriend throughout the summer and then broke up with her. He told me. Then he hooked up with a friend. He didn't tell me about that. I figured it out. There was enough picture evidence. I know, this sounds so weird and I feel like such a tard for reading into it so much but he's just so cute and I thought there could be something. Plus, I was gonna make a visit back to my country and I thought maybe we could chill but it doesn't seem as if I'll ever get a chance now.

Chip you are ever a kaleidoscope of colorful rando...

2007-12-16T15:46:00.000-05:00

Chip you are ever a kaleidoscope of colorful random thoughts, settling like stardust in the windmills of your mind . . .

I'M DIZZY BABY!

"How do you NOT know...?" - 1st, I thought this wa...

2007-12-15T01:22:00.000-05:00

"How do you NOT know...?" - 1st, I thought this was a double negative... then, I figured it was paradoxical... a young Aries woman would always say to me, "it's clear! it's simple!"

Critdal who "...smiled at him hoping it would give it away ...he looked blankly" - Aries assumes everyone likes them ...most won't pick up a queue if you poke 'em in between their horns ...let alone if you use subtlety... it's elementary

"he wouldn't tell you" - if you ask a child to explain why they behaved a certain way, they don't know why, or how to word it... for 30 years I've dealt with an Arien father, he couldn't articulate his vulnerabilities, his feelings, or that you punctured his bubble... he'd die rather than admit you hurt him... they're like dormant volcanoes... bottle it all up (even if they trust you)... it's to be expected...

the aforementioned Arien girl gave me one rule, "I will talk about anything, but me..."

To Anon. Libra Femme, "they're evil" - if an Arien lets you into their flock, they will lavish upon you, and dutifully focus their energy towards pleasing you... and they gladly do it... if they don't care about you, they won't care...

To Anon. Aries who "rejects sum1 in the nicest possible way" - does this situation count? By nice, do you mean you'd give me a tender steak to nurse my black eye? :-)

To blahblah - if Aries thinks they've WON, they'll lose interest...

To snow white - what is it with women who chase men who are spoken for?

To Anon. Libra woman - the silent treatment is one of their ploys... they know it generates friction...
it's in their nature to avert confrontation with a person they care about...

To Indi - you don't get Aries, they get you... if Aries doesn't want it, it won't happen...

To Anon. Pisces female - your story is eerily similar to mine... Pisces guy who'd shared time with Aries gal on the cusp... In chemistry, you're looking to mix perfume... Aries is looking for an explosive reaction... "there a chance?" Always... I hope you have shark's skin... and his planet's fall in your sign...

To Anon. Gem Woman - they forget their "cruel words" 5 min. later... sometimes they don't even realize those words rolled from their lips.... if "he get's lost", afford him that freedom... my mom, Libra/Moon Aries, learned an Aries man does not want mental exercise from a balanced mind... or a quick-witted one like yours... their stimulation comes from their own initiatives...

I am Gemini Women dating an Aries man. I have been...

2007-10-18T13:16:00.000-04:00

I am Gemini Women dating an Aries man. I have been seeing him for about ten months now. I still don't see any signs of him wanting something more exclusive. I met his family and he has met mine but still nothing. I like every thing about him from his cockyness to his big heart, but he can be sometimes cruel with words. One thing i hate is the he will get lost for a few days, especially after we had a great weekend together. It's like his world is all about him and he doesn't even consider my feelings. I want to tell him how I feel but I know how Aries men can be and I don't want to push him away with my mushy feelings. Any advice please?

I know that it has been months since this topic wa...

2007-09-16T18:42:00.000-04:00

I know that it has been months since this topic was originally discussed. I have a question tho about compatibility between pisces female and aries male. We have been friends for many years..I divorced first, he was my shoulder, and now him. There has always been alot of chemistry..and we are now going to go on our second "date". First one, we got physical but did not go all the way, Neither of us wanted that especially him. He is very emotional and sentimental for an Aries, his birthday is actually right on the cusp of Pisces. I am a TRUE Pisces woman, with sun, moon, and ascending in Pisces. I have not been able to find out his birth time to do his chart...is there a chance?? We seem to have a strong psychic connection as well. We talk every couple months, I let him contact me..we seem to keep connecting. PLEASE HELP anyone!!! :)

In stong like of an Aries man, I am a Sag women.We...

2007-09-07T01:44:00.000-04:00

In stong like of an Aries man, I am a Sag women.We've known eachother for 8 months no sex, talk for hours, went on a road trip I know his mom was there, but we could have done it in the car. Slept in the bed together for 7 days I turned my back on him the first time we slept in the same bed he made small passes,he always gives me compliments and says I am his type why haven't we gone there to a more passionate place even relationship

I am a Libra woman and I was dating an Aries man. ...

2007-08-13T12:00:00.000-04:00

I am a Libra woman and I was dating an Aries man. Until last week I didn't see the quick tempered hot headed stubborn egotistical side of him. We got into a little tiff. I said something that apparently hurt his feelings (ego) and now he wont speak to me. This has happened between us before and a week later when it passed we got back together. This time its been almost 2 weeks and he's still avoiding me. Time is of the essence. We live in the same neighbourhood. I know he cares about me alot but if i continue on with his lead and be as stubborn as he then I fear I'll never see or hear from him again. Does anyone have any suggestions of how I might go about initiating another chase, or how I can win him back subtly? I now realize that I might have to be the one doing the pride swallowing, and I'm ok with that as long as he doesn't know what I'm up to.

Im a Gem Female..My Aries comes and goes ....I gue...

2007-08-04T21:41:00.000-04:00

Im a Gem Female..My Aries comes and goes ....I guess the fact that I dont chase keeps him coming back all the time . He keeps me on my toes never know when hes coming or going....so I can never forget him...which is why He always gets a warm welcome form me...and the cycle continues! We can both run hot or cold at any given time so this arrangement works for us... Did I mention how exciting and great it is... We are in love strange as it may seem but free at the same time...mmmmmmm... We are also great friends....could it get any better. I think not! Happy happy joy joy.

exblue, it doesn't matter WHAT they're winning, as...

2007-07-30T21:53:00.000-04:00

exblue, it doesn't matter WHAT they're winning, as long as they think/know they're winning. :)

ms. gemini-inside-a-cancer's-body,
yea, he probably likes you. aries guys don't bother with people they don't like (even if the liking is just temporary).

snow white saysI like an aries man, we are the sam...

2007-07-30T13:48:00.000-04:00

snow white says
I like an aries man, we are the same age we like the same music, although my sign is cancer I am more like a gemini, infact I would say I am a gemini, I told this man I liked him but no big deal because sex is sex, he was really nice about it, he cuddled me held my hand and waited for me, for some reason, I walked with him to the club where his new girlfriend works, we cuddled, I wish I had snogged him, but worried that he would get in trouble with his girlfriend, I like him alot, but its not love, does anyone think hes interested.

Ya, I know, lol.But in love matters... what's the ...

2007-07-24T09:20:00.000-04:00

Ya, I know, lol.

But in love matters... what's the discipline they're winning in?

LOL @ exclusion.blue "If you really counted... you...

2007-07-24T06:52:00.000-04:00

LOL @ exclusion.blue "If you really counted... you are a true Aries..."

You know Aries has to keep score. Otherwise, how does she know who's winning/won? ;)