Comments on Seduction Central: Are Libras unfaithful?

liberty-I feel greedy,but not wrong or morally cor...

2008-07-22T17:54:00.000-04:00

liberty-

I feel greedy,but not wrong or morally corrupt.I was in love with a scorp,met a gemini,and spent a little time with an aquarian(till i realised hes even more chaotic than I am emotionally..) and between them they satisfy different areas..I need to make up my mind,as I know it is unfair(cant deal with injustice)I need to make a decision..ha! and any libran will know how painful THAT is!I believe in marriage and monogamy,but Im never happy with one person for long..i start finding fault,thus givin me the excuse to satisfy myself elsewhere not just physically mind you.I dont like being like this anymore.I want a clear cut re;lationship!!

I see nothing wrong with being polyamorous -- but ...

2008-07-17T09:31:00.000-04:00

I see nothing wrong with being polyamorous -- but ethical polyamory, imo, means being honest with all your partners.

I am a Libra woman. Here what I don't understand....

2008-07-17T04:50:00.000-04:00

I am a Libra woman. Here what I don't understand. Whats so wierd about being polyamorous? Everyone wants to say it is some kind of personality defect or we do it for the ego boost. Honestly, I just love the way men smell. I can't resist them. Being in a monogamous relationship is like going to the cheescake factory while you're on a diet. Sure, you'll feel proud of yourself if you abstain, but oh sweet decadence. If only there was some kind of cheating eliptical machine and you could just work off the infidelity calorie by sinful calorie.

I'm a Libra male; I don't know all the sub info bu...

2008-07-15T04:58:00.000-04:00

I'm a Libra male; I don't know all the sub info but Oct 2, 1974 2am if that helps.

I've been in two 8 year plus marriages / relationships, and dated a number of women before, between, and after. I'm very picky and not interested in casual sex, but I've had sex with around a dozen women; usually more than once per woman (I hate one night stands). With only a couple of exceptions which proved the rule, I've always entered into such relationships with the best intentions, not just to get laid.

I have never once cheated on any woman I've been with; I never start a new relationship until the previous one is well over. I have no interest in cheating, I am not tempted to cheat, and yes I've had numerous opportunities to do so.

Part of the reason is I'm very idealistic and romantic and can't countenance how much pain it would cause a partner for them to feel betrayed. Part of the reason is I tend to put the object of my affection up on a pedestal and have eyes only for them.

I am social with women, which I don't consider to be flirty; its just natural conversation. I never (intend) to lead women on, but I've found that some women assume that if a guy has a conversation with them it must mean they want to have sex with them and that even perfectly casual conversations can be misinterpreted.

On the downside, both of my ex-wives assumed that I was cheating, despite having no proof or evidence and even when I demonstrably could not have done so when they thought I had. Just the fact that other women were paying attention to me and that I typically have about as man female friends as male was somehow proof that I was having an affair, no matter how ridiculous or impossible a particular pairing might be.

However, I am strongly monogamous, greatly prefer to be in a long term stable relationship with one woman who I adore and connect with mentally, physically, and emotionally, and even still I am clear up front with women I date that if we ever get physical I consider that to be taking things to the exclusive level and isn't something I enter into lightly.

Some Librans may cheat, but not all do; and guess what? People of other signs cheat too; pining it on the sign is pretty weak -- some people are cheaters and some aren't.

My Libra man, has reconnected with me..We have not...

2008-06-03T10:23:00.000-04:00

My Libra man, has reconnected with me..We have not seen each other because he feels its not a good idea, he said I was very atrractive and doesn't trust himself with me..I Aquarius and his wife is Capricorn..From what I understand he said they fight all the time, she doesn't clean or cook for him, she also has a spending problem..He was living with her for 5 years then they decided to get married..He said things were going on in his life and he gave up and ended up with her..They only have one child...When we converse with each other its like we never left each other before..I will always have love for him and he for me..We will stay away from each other because we know that it will end up in an affair..who needs that anyway..we would hurt too many people cause of it..But we can not stand not speaking to each other..We email and talk over the phone its like a drug for me..I have to hear his voice..I think people who cheat have not found their soulmate..and their is a void in their hearts..

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2008-05-27T14:08:00.000-04:00

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If anyone out there knows what or how to work out ...

2008-05-27T02:07:00.000-04:00

If anyone out there knows what or how to work out my planets Id be interested to know?
12th October 1982. No idea what time I was born?

I am a libran female. Born 12th October 1982. Im n...

2008-05-27T01:41:00.000-04:00

I am a libran female. Born 12th October 1982. Im not sure of my planets or Moon sign etc. However on reading about Librans being unfaithful, I am. I totally believe it to be true that I always have two people who I adore and love just as much but it comes down to the fact that I just CANT seem to be able to make a decision.
I guess Im walking proof for any of those who are wanting to know "are librans faithful?"

As a libra I understand that we are flirtatious bu...

2008-05-24T00:39:00.000-04:00

As a libra I understand that we are flirtatious but that's in our nature we can't change who we are either hate or love us. We love the attention and most people sometimes see us as a threat. but it's not like that in a relationship we love to be on top be spoil be the center of attention and if a man can treat us a queen we are we seem to look the other way.

Not all libras are cheaters we just loving people as they said WE LOVE TO LOVE and one thing libra dont like when they space being evades they love to have their freedom and we happen to be friendly and don't under estimate them for that because once you pissed them off they will beat your ass does people forgive but never forget.

AS you know we very picky we love to dress to impress we always smell good and love to look good and if you want to get a female libra attention you should start by charming by invitating her to diner, movie better yet a walk in the beach at night.

Im a libra and am extremely FAITHFUL. Almost to a ...

2008-05-19T17:43:00.000-04:00

Im a libra and am extremely FAITHFUL. Almost to a point of obsession. I dont send text messages to other men without telling my boyfriend or making sure its strictly friendship. I dont feel comfortable with any guy flirting with me, because I dont want anything to do with being unfaithful, mostly because its so unfair when your in a committed relationship...and only has really bad consequences.

Then again this only came about when i entered a commited relationship. Before that, I never cheated, but I was very flirtatious and had no honest loyalty to those partners I was with. Because they probably provided me no real security and I didnt trust them anyway. I think a libra is more loyal when they know the other person is too, and are completely secure.

First of all you libras that have been with capric...

2008-05-14T17:36:00.000-04:00

First of all you libras that have been with capricorns, Pisces, Scorpios, and Virgos should know that Libras are not compatible with those signs at all. If you have had a bad experience with these signs then that is most likely the reason why things have not worked out for you (both ways) because you are not compatible.

Yes they may make good friends and all but as far as a relationship goes its a NO GO. We are most compatible with Aquarius, Gemini, Sagittarius, and Leo. Im a Libra female and my mate is a Gemini. We are very compatible and similar in alot of ways. I enjoy being with my Gemini because he keeps me interested. I will say that sometimes I do ? myself about certain things like, when I get around another man that catches my eye will I cheat?

Well the truth is everyone has had either the erg or thought to cheat on there mates. Whether u go through with it or not is a totally different story. But if you sit up here and say "oh well I have never felt that way b4" then you are just lying to yourself. Everyone is human and God gave us eyes to see meaning (we are not blind to others). There is nothing wrong with having some kind of "thought" about another human being just as long as you dont over-step your boundaries.

Now if u really wanna know about how libra works let me start by saying about 70% of whats been said from the others is true. The other 30% is complete garbage and just plain harsh. Now just so u know Im only talking about Libra women NOT MEN because we act a little different when it comes to the men. First off ALL Libras are not liers. U do have some that will go out of there way to lie because they have nothing else better to do but that could be any sign. Libras are just the ones being put on the spot at the moment. Now a real libra women will "sometimes" naturally lie to keep conversation, keep your interest or to keep u from knowing the truth about something they dont really want you to know because 9 times of 10 someone always has something to say that may dissapoint, irritate, or confuse the Libra.

We are very charming, loving, and giving but can be as mean as we want to be by nature. If you ever wanted to know if your Libra is cheating on you u may ask, but there is really no point simply because if they have they most likely will not tell you. Simply because they are trying to spare your feelings. In this case, most time the other mate has done something to the Libra to make her drift off. If u have your Libra locked down tight you should have nothing to worry about. All that being said Libras really are gd ppl to be with and they're great marriage material. They will go out of there way for you as long as u are able to bend to there needs. They have a wonderful get up and go attitude and are great communicators. They are also easy to up and leave a mate if they feel attraction or attention is no longer strong like it once was.

You do have some that will make you aware of how they are feeling b4 they decide to quit your ass and, hope things change up for the better. And as far as "having more then one mate goes"!!! As u saw not all libra have to have more then one. Only ppl that are greedy need to be that way. It has nothing to do with signs and planets. Its all about the person.

This is because in actuality they are not ready to be serious and they tend to not really trust themselves around others because they may cheat, so in that case YES some need more then one. But agian that can be any sign, Libras are just the ones on the spot right now.

It all just really boils down to working things out with your partner and know that nothing comes easy. And just a last minute FYI no relationship is PERFECT. There is "ALWAYS" gonna be something you dont like, its up to you whether you wanna deal with it or move to the next problemed relationship.

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I'm a female libra and i have never cheated while ...

2008-05-09T14:25:00.000-04:00

I'm a female libra and i have never cheated while in a relationship but when i am single its all fair game I talk to whoever I want but its hard because when i do get in a commited relationship and I tell all my guys that i flirt with that I'm commited they dont care and still want see me I guess it's a libra thing because we are all so charming you can't be mad that we have everyone eating out of the palm of our hands sorry lol

I have a libra married male who wants to see me fo...

2008-04-28T19:02:00.000-04:00

I have a libra married male who wants to see me for lunch once a week...we knew each other 23 years ago.He has no respect for his wife at all..I told him no,that it was not a good idea. He said that he still has feelings for me and that he loves his wife but its not the same love that he had for me..We remain friends over email and phone..thats it.

Maybe not to you, but he's the complete opposite o...

2008-04-21T20:11:00.000-04:00

Maybe not to you, but he's the complete opposite of a flirt.

I dunno though maybe he just hides his true feelings (or lack thereof) really well.

With a combo like that, it wouldn't exactly be sur...

2008-04-21T15:34:00.000-04:00

With a combo like that, it wouldn't exactly be surprising if he did.

My brother's got Sun and Moon in Libra, but he's a...

2008-04-21T10:17:00.000-04:00

My brother's got Sun and Moon in Libra, but he's also got Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. If he ever cheated on his girlfriend I think I'd have a heart attack.

I completely agree. My ex was a libra, and he swor...

2008-04-06T02:45:00.000-04:00

I completely agree. My ex was a libra, and he swore on his life that he thought cheating was the worst thing you could do in a relationship. I had one of my friends (that he didn't know I was friends with ;-) ) hit on him to test him. Sure enough, he gave her his number. She asked if he had a girlfriend, and he said nope! And they went on several dates and I "caught" him.

I just couldn't figure out how he managed to not feel guilty. He still told me I was beautiful and that he loved me. Ridiculous!!

On top of that, my step-father is a Libra and he has cheated on my mother several times! (She's a capricorn, and she forgave him). Both men have cheated and yet still get jealous as heck if they even THINK you're looking at a man!

Libra woman. Never cheated. However I will LEAVE...

2008-04-06T00:16:00.000-04:00

Libra woman. Never cheated. However I will LEAVE you for someone that pays more attention to me :)

I am a libra woman, was maried to a Tauras man for...

2008-03-29T10:11:00.000-04:00

I am a libra woman, was maried to a Tauras man for 11 years. I had several affairs during that time. One affair is still strong today after my divorce. I seem to always have one relatonship, with one on the side. I am also able to balance both relationships, neither ever know about the other.

OK, Ive always wondered what was wrong with me. Im...

2008-03-27T16:59:00.000-04:00

OK, Ive always wondered what was wrong with me. Im female and Libra with Uranus,Born in 1968.Im 40 years old and I have never had a totally faithful realtionship or marriage. Dont get me wrong Ive had periods of faithfulness ,the longest being 10 years. But, eventually the bliss comes to an end. And Ironically Ive always had a nack for staying friends with x's. I can say it takes a lot for a mate to keep my attention. And you know the sad part is I am A Christian. Ive always thought maybe I had a sex demon following me around or something, lol !

i am a libra woman and we are very similar to arie...

2008-03-25T21:55:00.000-04:00

i am a libra woman and we are very similar to aries women, but we are very discreet, subtle, sort of like an iron fist in a velvet glove. cheating comes natural to librans, whether it's emotional, mental (phone sex with strangers at a dateline phone service 805-8888) or physical because the fact is, we are in love with love and theres probably no human that could complete us,(maybe the fire signs could, my first love was an aries but he smoked and drank too much, therefore, i had to let him go and trust me i tried to change him, typical trait of a woman) sure it would hurt me if my lover cheated on me, but being a cardinal sign is a plus because most librans that i know off, including myself suddenly gets the "i don't a give a f*ck," attitude. sometimes i'm amazed at myself, one minute, i'm sweet and vulnerable then next, i'm cold as ice.

as a libra girl i have to say that what libras do ...

2008-03-20T12:34:00.000-04:00

as a libra girl i have to say that what libras do is not cheating !

well i can explain it in two different ways ...

1- libras love to have a lot of friends specially with the oppisite sex , others may think it's more than just friend ship because libra's friendship looks too close !
as a libra girl i admitt that i prefer male friends than female friends plus+ that i have a lot of gay friends and they like me so !

2- libras need love and action in the same time , i need to laugh one day and cry the other by my lover , or else i will get bored and he will be just one of my regular friends !
and we like to be bossy sometimes and slaves in the other ..
i think that libras who's got two relations at a time need one to love and the other to be loved , if i love my partner while he loves me then the problem solved !

what do you think now ?

:)

AMG, perhaps not so much heartless as having their...

2008-03-05T15:20:00.000-05:00

AMG, perhaps not so much heartless as having their heart in too many places.

I was in a lesbian relationship for 2 1/2 years wi...

2008-03-05T13:07:00.000-05:00

I was in a lesbian relationship for 2 1/2 years with a Libra who wasn't comfortable with being gay and she left me recently after she started acting distant. She has started living with her boss and is completely having an emotional affair, I don't think it's physical at this time due to her discomfort with being gay. I can't believe all these posts about Libras. I'm a virgo too and she said I constricted her which to me is total BS considering the things I actually did do for her. Are they really this heartless? I love her and we are still living together even though she stays at her bosses house but I am pretty well shocked at her fantasy land behavior.

To whom it may concern:I am NOT Victoria Bazeley!

2008-01-06T02:17:00.000-05:00

To whom it may concern:

I am NOT Victoria Bazeley!