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Hey Cookie,its brokenheart3 , i hope that everythi...

2008-09-22T22:22:00.000-04:00

Hey Cookie,
its brokenheart3 , i hope that everything works out for you....so, let me tell you the latest, lol, so i am at the same school as that sag, and i know that he wants me back, but as a sag/cap cusp, i want nothing to do with him even tho i still care about him...this past saturday i went out with my buddy, and i met all his friends...there was one, and he's a leo, tried to make the moves on me, but i refused to be caught :) he was surprised that i was "different" and seemed to want me even more, i thought he was nice but he was kinda an ego into himself guy...but i can't stop thinking about him....he's very attractive, and i want to see him again, just to rub it in his face that he ***CANT catch me...did i mention there was intense flirting going on? damn that leo...so hot...i want him to want me even more, any suggestions? i am impressioned by him....

Cookie, just get yourself busy, that's what I am d...

2008-09-22T22:17:00.000-04:00

Cookie, just get yourself busy, that's what I am doing, and i am hitting the gym everyday, i've lost 30lbs so far, and getting attention, trust me, the gym or a sport helps, i also signed up for soccer, just go out there and meet people, and try to laugh at least once a day......I want to hear how you're doing! Head up, and be positive!

Hey Cookie,its brokenheart3 , i hope that everythi...

2008-09-22T22:14:00.000-04:00

Hey Cookie,
its brokenheart3 , i hope that everything works out for you....so, let me tell you the latest, lol, so i am at the same school as that sag, and i know that he wants me back, but as a sag/cap cusp, i want nothing to do with him even tho i still care about him...this past saturday i went out with my buddy, and i met all his friends...there was one, and he's a leo, tried to make the moves on me, but i refused to be caught :) he was surprised that i was "different" and seemed to want me even more, i thought he was nice but he was kinda an ego into himself guy...but i can't stop thinking about him....he's very attractive, and i want to see him again, just to rub it in his face that he can catch me...did i mention there was intense flirting going on? damn that leo...so hot...i want him to want me even more, any suggestions? i am impressioned by him....

I too am a Sagi with Venus in Scorpio but I am far...

2008-09-12T14:26:00.000-04:00

I too am a Sagi with Venus in Scorpio but I am far from the type to get revenge...I just say to hell with them and keep it moving...but that darn Venus does make me a little on the emotional side when I find a man I like. They are just too few and far between...

Men who hurt me just get deleted...forever. I am definitely the Sag who thinks it is the other person's fault. It may not be right but it is real...does anything else matter?

Im a sag with venus in capricorn, mars in aquarius...

2008-09-04T19:37:00.000-04:00

Im a sag with venus in capricorn, mars in aquarius. I find i fall in love as quick as i can fall out of love! I've had 3 serious relationships (Pretty much back to back) and the last one whre my ex husband hurt me, left and never went back. :) Im the happiest girl now because i found a greatt awesome guy. I moved on pretty quickly, ex found out I had a new bf, first thing he said "You moved on pretty quick huh?" I told him, "Yeah it happens, im a pretty awesome chik, what can I say?" lol, First month was pretty hard, but my sag optimistic quality kept me from thinking about it too much. He's not the only fish in the sea, theres many out there ... Once I get hurt, I dont turn back ever again, their loss, I just move on!

"The person I loved didn't exist and is therefore ...

2008-08-25T12:30:00.000-04:00

"The person I loved didn't exist and is therefore dead RIP". That is EXACTLY how I view my ex (libra).

I am a Sag plus - I have Sun, Moon an Merc in Sag and Venus in Aqua and Mars in Cap and Virgo Asc. In love, I am very much an all or nothing person like all the other great Sag ladies here. I thank my Aqua venus for the ability to detach fairly quickly once a r/ship is over. I definitely hurt easily but nothing can get us down for long..
I am chatting to a wonderful Leo guy who seems like my soulmate (Leo sun, Pisces moon, Leo Merc, Gem in Venus and Mars) his Leo Merc and my venus aqua and my sag merc and his venus gem seem to confer the gift of total complementarity; we understand each other and hit it off like you wouldn't believe; we are parallel in so many ways; same skewed sense of humour, same logic, same love of the truth. BUT and I suspect it may become a big but, his Pisces Moon - I read that this may indicate a tendency to self-deception and therein LYING - the ultimate no-brainer for all Sags. I am continuously shocked by the casual and routine lying that goes on between people; I feel like I cannot trust anyone and that includes members of my own family. People do not understand that the Sag love of truth isn't some pedantic policy choice; it is like oxygen to us; integral to our mental health and well being; we cannot survive in r/ships without it. I have discovered that my leo is still visiting a dating site; unless he has a very credible reason, it will be make or break for him...

Sagittarius here.With Scorpio rising, and Leo Moon...

2008-08-07T01:13:00.000-04:00

Sagittarius here.

With Scorpio rising, and Leo Moon.

I honestly can relate the best with brokenhearted3

I currently have the same feelings as you. I met a Sagittarius man 2 years ago, and everything was perfect.
He moved away, way far, but my complete love for him was whole.

Now, he barely speaks to me, and I'm heartbroken because of it.
Seeing as I gave him my heart, and now I am completely unwilling to let anyone else back into my life.

I'm tired of hurting.
I don't think I can go through all that again.

what about sag & virgo??

2008-07-18T17:17:00.000-04:00

what about sag & virgo??

"a threat to her need for space is worse than an i...

2008-07-18T03:19:00.000-04:00

"a threat to her need for space is worse than an insult to her cooking"
With my Venus in Sagittarius that is sooo true!!

That's a pretty potent combination! I'm sure your ...

2008-07-15T15:26:00.000-04:00

That's a pretty potent combination! I'm sure your Moon has kept from doing a life sentence ;)

The ONLY thing that keeps me from burning down the...

2008-07-15T14:39:00.000-04:00

The ONLY thing that keeps me from burning down the house of every person that has EVER hurt me in anyway is my Sagittarius Moon. GOD BLESS IT!

Sun Capricorn w/Pluto Square
Moon Sag
Venus Scorpio
Mars Trine Pluto

and well,,, i met someone that has gotten me excit...

2008-06-14T16:11:00.000-04:00

and well,,, i met someone that has gotten me excited, but still keeping my distance...but,,,he is a taurus...may 6,,,,he says he likes me, etc etc, that's fine, but that he needs more time (2months just out of a relationship),,,,i am usually one to be friends with someone first and keep doing that, and well,,,that's what we both want at the moment, what does "im still unsure i could live up to your expectations" and "your a nice girl,i just hope i dont act stupid and do something i would regret" mean? and then he went on to say that he likes me, etc, and that he had a rough day, etc.....i'm scared...

Hi, i'm a cusp sign, sag and cap, dec 20. anyways,...

2008-06-14T16:02:00.000-04:00

Hi, i'm a cusp sign, sag and cap, dec 20. anyways, i also have been hurt, and unfortunately still hurting.it has been 7 months that i totally completely broke it off with him (he broke up with me, but still thought we were friends, talking as if nothing happened, and then i told him some painfully blunt truthful words :S ) he is a sag. now the thing is, i am a happy person, but when i come back home, i try not to think of him, but, i cry everynite. i can't help but still love him. but i am afraid now of relationships :( i do keep busy...guys have come up to me, but i just turn them away...trust in humanity is gone, it is quite sad.

hi sag24, there are many scorpio experts on the fo...

2008-06-10T16:00:00.000-04:00

hi sag24, there are many scorpio experts on the forum. Also if you go to the Resources tab there you'll learn how to get a copy of your chart and you'll find out what sign your Venus is in.

I'm a sag i dont really understand like having ven...

2008-06-10T12:24:00.000-04:00

I'm a sag i dont really understand like having venus in scorpio but i get hurt easily and i forgive rather easily as well i'm 24 and my last bf was a scorpio and i think i'm still inlove with him but he wont talk to me. anyone has any advice on what i should do

hi

2008-06-10T12:20:00.000-04:00

I'm a Sag girl with Capricorn in Venus and Moon in...

2008-06-01T14:44:00.000-04:00

I'm a Sag girl with Capricorn in Venus and Moon in Aquarius...heaven help me. I can relate very closely to the posting by Anonymous#1. I have hurt for a very long time after break-ups of all descriptions and hate the injustice I see around me. But, slowly I come round to all the wonderful things in life (even in the absence of someone close, now some 5 years have passed). Shame is I'm still wary of men but I'm happy to be a Sag ....we are creative, inventive survivors and voyagers without the wit to knowingly hurt anyone else!

I'm a New Yorker!

2008-05-14T17:11:00.000-04:00

I'm a New Yorker!

Great site/sight... Are any of you also fellow New...

2008-05-14T14:19:00.000-04:00

Great site/sight... Are any of you also fellow New Yorkers?

- Sag with Taurus Rising & Moon, Venus & Mars in Scorpio

I don't know about all the planets in various cons...

2008-04-21T22:40:00.000-04:00

I don't know about all the planets in various constellations, but I'm Sag with Leo rising. I have a ripe talent for walking away even when emotionally involved. I've been hurt a few times but take the attitude that my guy IS out there. These other dudes have just been speed bumps! I'm 34 and still optimistic. Even bad girlfriends have just been speed bumps. I have neither the time nor desire to exact revenge. I have a life to live! Besides, good things come to those who wait, and those who do bad? They get theirs. I'm just not going to hang around waiting to see it happen - I have my own dreams to follow!

>To us, LOYALTY in love comes with >the PACKAGE. I...

2008-04-15T18:26:00.000-04:00

>To us, LOYALTY in love comes with >the PACKAGE. INterestingly enough->- the men out there fail >MISERABLY in the LOYALTY >department.Because we ask of >REALLY, REALLY true loyalty! And >NO MAN is capable of that!

That is true. However I have had better luck with loyalty with unconventional types. I'm not sure about the birth time it could be 45 minutes off so my ascendant could either be Pisces or Aquarius but I have noticed that I am attracted to unconventional men. The more cerebral mental and mercurial the better the more eccentric the better. Now with men who are mercurial and mental I have discovered more loyalty than your typical male. I try NEVER to associate myself with typical males they are dull beyond belief with no mind of their own and values from the 50's. I have no time for those bores who believe in double standards. I am loyal and LOYALTY is more important that is why I bother to associate myself with men. I have only been betrayed by one fling but believe me if I ever discover infidelity and anything like that I will promptly pack my bags and leave no dialogue necessary. That is absolutely disrespectful. If someone was going to dothat they can at least give you a heads up this is why typical men don't interest me. Most of the time either I fall in love with someone's mind or love the fact that they are dependable and always available to me otherwise I give myself no reason to hope of anything and wouldn't get involved at all.

We are also the most philosophical, idealistic, ro...

2008-04-15T18:14:00.000-04:00

We are also the most philosophical, idealistic, romantic, ambitious, sky high goal driven, the most graceful, world winning charming, most optimistic, fun loving and the most kind people

This is true. I must agree with you and although I have met signs that I could be compatible with, they were not as honest as I. And I know people think Sagittarians play fast and loose, sleep around etc but that isn't necessarily so. Sagittarians love deeply they have substance but after they discovered that the person they love isn't who they thought he was well there is nothing to love see.This has happened to me over and over and what I do is tell myself it was just mistaken identify. The person I loved didn't exist and is therefore dead RIP.
And the person who misrepresented himself well how can I care for him when I see the truth? If someone is honest it is easier to forgive then someone who misrepresented themselves to get your affections.
The biggest problem I have with the opposite sex is the way they misrepresent themselves. I will probably be single I am in a fringe relationship now with an Aquarius who initially had given me hope but the embers shall probably die.. But I wonder if only a fellow Sagittarian can really understand? Relationships are losing their appeal. The most hurtful one I had was where I was treated with coldness by a libran. Again deceit...if you say that I am magic and a wonderful friend why do you do contradictory things. Perhaps I suffered for my innocence but no more. Jekyl and Hyde...
At least I am honest about my moodyness artistic temperament after all I don't have the need to decieve people but I find that I tell them less and less because I expect them to be gone tomorrow. There is no need to expend energy. And no loss because I will be there tomorrow and as long as I don't lose myself I am sure that I can handle anything. I can handle anything I think people are wolves in sheep's clothing.
Pisces acendant
Sun in sag Moon in capricorn
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Virgo
Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Virgo
Uranus in Scorpio
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra

> cursing the heavens and >threatening revenge - I...

2008-04-15T17:54:00.000-04:00

> cursing the heavens and >threatening revenge - I then let >it go, cursing his head and >swearing Fate would take care of >him.

>The Next time I heard anything of >him - about 10 years later - all >I heard was about "Poor A------. >such a shame about that car >accident."

I've had the same experience. And when someone hurts me I cry out to the heavens in deep grief like crying for over an hour.
And I get bad news too, one guy got in a car accident, bit by a recluse spider got robbed by his roommate, other guy almost got his houses flooded and he contacted me telling me about his misfortune. Mind you I was expressing my grief and seeking to be avenged by the Fates and Karma which I completely believe in. And they have avenged me every time.
There are some men who are fragile that I don't speak out against because I don't want something worse to happen to them. That is more like an act of love b/c I know they already are psychologically damaged in irreparable ways. I try to be fair above all and I am willing to sacrifice and compromise for love but a doormat I'm not.
But being a Sagittarius who truely respects others free will loves them wholeheartedly with no thought of return I do get very upset if people take advantage of me and try to pull their psychological bs to entrap me. I do seem unfriendly because I don't want people to get close to me. I have a very low opinion of people because I hear stories everyday about their power trips and their scorn for the underdog. Attack the weak just because you can. I am not weak but that principle bothers me.
Also I have never bullied or exploited anyone just because I could. So it isn't like I am a hypocrite at all.
My dream is to be a reclusive wild woman eternal student of all that is metaphysical and mysterious someone who aims for the stars and is never without music. People are disappointing and not worth the trouble I find at the same time I don't hold onto grudges and am not bitter. I just have other worthwhile ways to spend the time. How vast the world is how much there is still to learn and explore. That is a happy thought

>Sagittarius, being a fire sign as >well, may make...

2008-04-15T17:12:00.000-04:00

>Sagittarius, being a fire sign as >well, may make a big display of >her emotions, but she won't hold >on to her hurt for very long.

Ha speak for yourself. I'm a Scorpio Sagitarius cusp and I never forget a slight or a hurt. OH yes I plot my revenge no matter how long it takes. I never hurt people unprovoked so I don't accept that they would hurt me. And if it is any act of betrayal I will never speak to the person again or ever take them back. I despise liars and/or traitors. They will be dead to me. One thing I hate about all is people who use your affections against you. I tell you it won't fly.

One of my best friends is a Saggittarius, known he...

2008-04-15T04:10:00.000-04:00

One of my best friends is a Saggittarius, known her for over 10 years. So how does a girl sag handle a let down from life? She usually tries to stay busy, very busy, like haning with friends, going out, having fun, doing anything to keep her happy-go-lucky nature in tack. Usually she will take one day to nurse her heart and then she is back out there having the time of her life like what ever it was never happened.