tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post4910229644344613211..comments2008-07-14T11:19:59.150-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-40769960821673794382008-07-14T11:19:00.000-04:002008-07-14T11:19:00.000-04:00as you can see by the last post he ended up texting back not to long ago!cluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-19718019180686533782008-07-14T11:18:00.000-04:002008-07-14T11:18:00.000-04:00hey guys... thank you so much for these cool reponses. I actually haven't spoke to him in days now... my birthday wa sthis past Friday and he text me saying, "Happy Birthday Champ" Then he text me the next day asking if I was going to be home later on that night and if so can we hang out... I wrote back, "I am going out for a little but when I get home I'm just trying chill alone". I text him this morning "are we not talking anymore" he wrote back "It's just been really crazy with work and the hours. Also, traveling back and forth w/ maybe a day or a couple of hours in between getting back on the road again. Pls don't take it personal. We still cool"<BR/>I mean it's whatever... I'm pulling back... if he wants me that way, he is going to have to come and get me and I better be convinced, I don't do well with a sense of false security. I'm tired of wondering it's frustrating and I'm done!cluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-13280943025559082432008-07-14T10:05:00.000-04:002008-07-14T10:05:00.000-04:00hey guys... thank you so much for these cool reponses. I actually haven't spoke to him in days now... my birthday wa sthis past Friday and he text me saying, "Happy Birthday Champ" Then he text me the next day asking if I was going to be home later on that night and if so can we hang out... I wrote back, "I am going out for a little but when I get home I'm just trying chill alone". Ever since then he has not text or called me after I called him once yesterday and text him "are we not talking anymore" this morning . Needless to say although I wish it wasn't so... my question was answered he doesn't want mecluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-68957337064280306702008-07-14T10:04:00.000-04:002008-07-14T10:04:00.000-04:00hey guys... thank you so much for these cool reponses. I actually haven't spoke to him in days now... my birthday was this past Friday and he text me saying, "Happy Birthday Champ" Then he text me the next day asking if I was going to be home later on that night and if so can we hang out... I wrote back, "I am going out for a little but when I get home I'm just trying chill alone". Ever since then he has not text or called me after I called him once yesterday and text him "are we not talking anymore" this morning . Needless to say although I wish it wasn't so... my question was answered he doesn't want mecluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-78014158785087262942008-07-13T17:02:00.000-04:002008-07-13T17:02:00.000-04:00Hey Cluelesscancer711,<BR/>I definitely had to be more blunt...well, subtly. <BR/>When I showed his pic to my mom, she said "He's Really Handsome and gentleman looking but- if seems to have a history of fooling around if he's not in love". So that really worried me and I just had to know where him and I stood. So I sent him a photo text of my nice sexy body he loves so much. HAHA and he said "How did I get so lucky" and I said "who said it was yours?" and he immediately called me saying "why are you still dating other guys?" and I just told him that of course I am, since he & I never clarified whether or not we were exclusive and he got a little agitated and said well he was under the impression that we were solely going to pursue one another and I said well, I can't read your mind your mind but it's good to know where your heart is. And so we discussed some other things and realized at the end of the conversation that we didn't want anyone else...not in this particular moment anyway.<BR/>Of course I wasn't dating anyone else, I had my eyes fixed on him so...I read somewhere that if they really like you they're possessive so I just played his own game *reverse psychology* and got him to spill the beans.<BR/>Hope this helps.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-10050404687276107002008-07-10T23:17:00.000-04:002008-07-10T23:17:00.000-04:00how did you realize where you stand?? was he more outspoken or were you more blunt??cluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-62821898938010731112008-07-10T22:14:00.000-04:002008-07-10T22:14:00.000-04:00oh my cluelesscancer...your guy is born on the same day mine is. On the cusp as well. Mine is Jan. 20th as well!<BR/><BR/>So following up on my post (met guy through my online Ad), now I know where we stand. We're seeing one another and going to pursue a relationship. <BR/><BR/>Everything feels perfect. hehe...so far.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-59272101241275726892008-07-10T17:53:00.000-04:002008-07-10T17:53:00.000-04:00Your right... his Venus is in Aquarius... your also right about me possibly wanting to be married tommorrow(LOL) we had a formal date once in the beginning after that we have been meeting up casually... sometimes it's even implied. He does tell me that he "feels me" but his actions SOMETIMES do not match up. anyways, that was great advise. I guess I do have to be blunt, I'm just scared of the possible rejection part. I don't not know his birth time but he was born in Tidewater area in Virginia. Myself Killen, Texas... Thanks!cluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-28812148554030905182008-07-10T17:26:00.000-04:002008-07-10T17:26:00.000-04:00and place of birth? Sorry...meant to put that in the last one. :(angelineelisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479918211218928173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-62762453642935892942008-07-10T17:25:00.000-04:002008-07-10T17:25:00.000-04:00IT!? This dude reeks of Aquarius! lol!<BR/><BR/>Do you know his birth time?angelineelisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479918211218928173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-83755896501876431352008-07-10T17:20:00.001-04:002008-07-10T17:20:00.001-04:00no we don't he works IT crazy hours... and I'm a counselorcluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-83565182788907439282008-07-10T17:20:00.000-04:002008-07-10T17:20:00.000-04:00@cluelesscancer....<BR/><BR/>Your dude was born 5 days after me, he may or may not be a Capricorn he was born on a cusp day.. there are definitely Aquarian forces at work here though, Caps can be distant and aloof but usually aren't afraid to define things, so if your guys a Cap, I would say he probably has a Venus Aquarius like me (my Venus is early in it he probably does have that whether he has a Cap Sun or Aqua Sun). <BR/><BR/>Here's the thing. You have to talk to him... Do you guys have formal "dates" or just casual meetings and sex? I would ask him matter of factly and just let him know that you really would like to pull back a little on the relationship if it's not moving forward. Tell him you like him, but let him know you are in control of yourself and plan to stay that way, tell him you don't want to be confused. (like I said the word here is controlled..if you come off as very controlled..it won't spook him)<BR/><BR/>See what he does...if he says that he wants to be bf/gf great then your answers there..you'll be assuaged. If not then you'll be giving yourself a mental health break away from him to figure out your next move.<BR/><BR/>Good Luck!<BR/><BR/>ps-I am calling shenanigans on you being a TYPICAL Cancer..not wanting to get married tommorrow? Is the caterer busy? lol. You prolly have a Gem Venus. :Pangelineelisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479918211218928173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-63583420655980817172008-07-10T14:59:00.000-04:002008-07-10T14:59:00.000-04:00Do you work with him?Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-2769554752862630882008-07-10T12:23:00.000-04:002008-07-10T12:23:00.000-04:00Hello everyone... I have been reading you blogs for a while now and always find them soooo interesting. I guess you can say that I am a typical Cancer(7/11/1982) and he is a Capricorn (1/20/1983). I have a bit of a dilemma and hope someone out there can put my "cancer mind" at ease! We have been "seeing" eachother for almost a month now. the reason I have that word in quotes is because I am honestly confused as to where we are as a couple or if we even are. He will ask questions like he is interegating me but at the same time he gives me this undescribable look like he is trying to see inside me or something, he compliments me when I have accomplished above and beyond at work but is also known to go a day or two without calling. The sex is out of this world but and we have a wonderful time together (we love to laugh) but I have been noticing that he does not express himself to me as much as I am used to. I can not tell if he really likes me for a potential "life-partner" or are we just "kickin' it" A part of me wants to ask him but I'm to afraid that it may make things akward. I'm not trying to be married tommorrow or anything... I just want a little more clarity! The other part of me is trying to let things flow but I do not want to waste my time if does not want things to get to another level. He even made the comment to me that if I thought having sex with him would mess up what we have then we could stop because he do have great chemistry. How do I get him to trust me and feel more comfortable to let more of him come out? How do I find out where this is going without scarying him away? Hopefully someone out there can put my overreacting cancer mind at ease. I would love to hear the side of a cappy man. Peace and love! xocluelesscancer711http://www.blogger.com/profile/05455410403512277293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-44947766290348548782008-07-08T05:53:00.000-04:002008-07-08T05:53:00.000-04:00OMG, this Wall is driving me wild. It's so fascinating how Astrology works. <BR/>So I met my Cap. guy through an online Ad I posted back in late April & my guy replied exactly on May 3rd. So we exchanged emails, he was always very detailed in I guess trying to let me know all about himself & he was browsing through to connect w/ppl in LA b/c he was coming here. But he said when he saw my Ad, he just had to reply b/c I sounded and looked perfect.<BR/>Anyway, we always exchange long emails but never talk long on the phone. But he always texted throughout the day and always said goodnight gorgeous. Then he finally got to L.A, we didn't see 1 another for 3 wks and last wk exactly we met. Unfortunately I was on crutches from foot surgery and though I felt insecure, he charmed his way into making me say yes.<BR/>So the 1st 2hrs were awkward meeting in person..we were on opposite ends of the couch at my place. Angelina's Original Sin was on, so we watched while ate Sushi. <BR/>Next thing you know we're all over one another. (OMG!) It was so crazy. And I'm the exact Cancer who put guys through sh*t because I just don't trust them and their motives. But with him and his sexy self...so0mething came over me. <BR/>We ended up having sex that same day. I swear to everything I believe in it was the the best I've ever had, well, I've only had sex with a Cancer and a Scorpio before that. This Cap. just felt so perfect in everything. I never felt more sexually complete.<BR/><BR/>After that we've only spoken on the phone twice...once for 23 mins and another (a record) hr and 19 mins. After that chat he actually texted, "I really enjoyed this convo". I sent him a happy face in reply and said goodnight.<BR/><BR/>So I'm not sure what we are b/c it was never really discussed, but I feel like there's definitely a big connection especially sexually but I want to know if anything more. <BR/><BR/>I'm a Cancer btw (July 7th, am 22 yrs old today) & he 28 yrs old Cap.<BR/><BR/>He's usually really busy dancing, and such and doing rehearsals for shows but he's coming over Weds. and staying the night. <BR/><BR/>I guess I'm just confused and want to know if it was the right move.<BR/>And how do I know what my rising sign or his is? I just know the basics in Astrology.<BR/><BR/>PLEASE HELP!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-65965335232898437312008-06-26T23:31:00.000-04:002008-06-26T23:31:00.000-04:00And you know what, Angel??? I believe in what you said whole-heartedly. This Cancerian is more than willing to work if my Capricorn prince is willing to do the same -- AND BE CONSISTENT. Consistency is EASY for me. I don't know him well enough, yet, to know if he is strong enough to be the same. I don't want him to be all gong-ho about this thing, and then fold one day because he can't handle the distance.<BR/><BR/>I've already "jumped out the window" (as we say here) on this thing with him. I hope he's bold enough to jump too!!! LOLOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-55338905083324409742008-06-26T13:49:00.000-04:002008-06-26T13:49:00.000-04:00@anonymous 11:15...Caps are ruled by Saturn, which believes in hard work and that anything good has to be earned!!<BR/><BR/>If he is really into you, he will not let a challenge dissuade him, it would rather excite him...give him something to work towards. Just make sure there are goals to see each other, do things together, and go farther in the relationship.<BR/><BR/>Cap's are a long term love interest!!angelineelisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479918211218928173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-28915385545036126332008-06-26T11:15:00.000-04:002008-06-26T11:15:00.000-04:00I am a Cancer woman [Aries Moon, Virgo Rising] dating an absolutely adorable Capricorn man [with a Capricorn Moon]. I was sooo annoyed by him the first couple months because he was entirely TOO shy and TOO quiet. It was becoming too much work for me to get to know him. THEN we made love for the first time this past weekend {the sex was BEASTIE, by the way. VERY nice} and my Capricorn man is a DIFFERENT PERSON. I LOVE this "new guy"! He's laughing, he's TALKING, he's sharing, he's joking! I can EASILY see myself falling head first into him, and I will give him ROME if he keeps this up! <BR/><BR/>But there's one problem....... We have TWO STATES in between us, and I am deathly afriad it could take the life out of how WONDERFULLY things are developing.<BR/><BR/>Someone help! I'm afraid that I will talk MYSELF out of this potentially fabulous thing with him because I don't want HIM to get discouraged over the distance. And you know how WE CANCERS DO IT... We will RETREAT in a HEARTBEAT.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-87980906722510872242008-05-30T12:06:00.000-04:002008-05-30T12:06:00.000-04:00I am a capricorn sun scorpio moon, pisces rising, and I am smitten by a cancer/cancer man. We went out on a date a week ago and he has emailed me twice, but no phone time. I think he is shy, (in pictures he is always loosely clenching his fist and that is a sign of shyness)I want more but have no idea how to work him out of his shell. Should I call him? With that "he's just not that into you" book floating around, its a wonder cancer men get any gals at all. I really really like him as a person, is there anything I can do to make him step it up a notch?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-60151810741147472152008-03-05T02:29:00.000-05:002008-03-05T02:29:00.000-05:00Wow, that really sums it up. I (a Cancer female) was pursued by a Capricorn male in this fashion. <BR/><BR/>His moon’s in Cancer, so in that sense he was never up-front about his intentions, but he would still make these expensive, extravagant gestures that gave him away. <BR/><BR/>He's undoubtedly a sweet, decent guy - certainly not all about possessions, but strangely enough it was with possessions that he chose to express his feelings. Wealth and status don't do it for me, since they're both things I can obtain myself and therefore have no need to avidly seek in a partner. (I hope that didn't sound conceited?)<BR/>I really only have eyes for one man, and I'm just sorry to say it isn't him.<BR/>I hope he finds someone who can make him happy, because he deserves it.Shaktinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-62515518042947158692007-10-27T18:52:00.000-04:002007-10-27T18:52:00.000-04:00I'm a Cancer, with cancer moon. I dated a Capricorn a few times. Then he just backed off. Do all Capricorns go moody when they don't get their own way?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-30124635146902564832007-05-30T10:35:00.000-04:002007-05-30T10:35:00.000-04:00Rebeca: What kind of professional relationship? Bc in some instances, things could work out very badly for both of you and in others, it could be fine.Eme Kahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12216097041902446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-26669026440885735242007-05-29T23:23:00.000-04:002007-05-29T23:23:00.000-04:00Well, I'm a cancer (aquarius moon/aquarius rising) waiting for this cap to freaking call me!!!! We've had a professional relationship for six years or so... he being my client... and the other day out of nowhere he kissed me!!!! Steam was coming out of my ears.... Thing is since then.. i'm trying to give him the impression that I'm a good girl and keep things as professional as possible.. .but all i want to do is jump his bones!!! so i sit here...waiting...patiently..... i've had a crush on him for the longest time.... think he has too... i'm moving in 2 months.... Wish he had an aries rising or something.....Rebecahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10235990171424820197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-46358136145297478522007-05-29T23:16:00.000-04:002007-05-29T23:16:00.000-04:00I haven'te been seduced by a capricorn!!! That's the problem... I don't want to give him the impression that I'm easy but I just want him to ask me out allready!!!!!!!!!!!! We've had a work relationship for six years.... where he is my client... so... it is my duty to keep things professional... but how can i let him know i'm interested without seeming desperate? Should I just bide my time?Rebecahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10235990171424820197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-60792287838178237662007-04-21T02:56:00.000-04:002007-04-21T02:56:00.000-04:00Cap dying to be seduced by hot Cancer--he is already seducing you, LOLproserpinenoreply@blogger.com