Comments on Seduction Central: Taurus acts like he's interested, then disappears

I met a Taurus through a dating site. We spoke a f...

2008-07-23T21:13:00.000-04:00

I met a Taurus through a dating site. We spoke a few times on the phone and chatted quite a lot through messaging and text. We went out a total of three times. On the third date, we hooked up. When the deed was done, there was no cuddling and no exchange of kisses. He was almost cold. The next day I asked if would want to get something eat and responded with he was busy. To make a short story even shorter, he said he thought things were moving too quickly ( which they weren't) and quickly disappeared on me. Is it normal for a Taurus to show a good amount of interest and then none at all?

I am an Aquarius woman(Aquarius rising/Libra moon/...

2008-07-18T22:15:00.000-04:00

I am an Aquarius woman(Aquarius rising/Libra moon/Capricorn venus/Taurus mars) and about some time in May reconnected with a
Taurus man from H.S school days thanks to Facebook. We began writing each other everyday, our emails were long, deep and we both confessed we had a thing for each other and he admitted that now we were writing again, those fond feelings he had are actually still there. by June he was visiting family in new york where i live and we spent the day together with his son (he's a divorced dad - I'm married to a Sag guy) my taurus friend was a true gentleman and respected that I was married so we didn't flirt or nothing more than a hello/goodbye hug - but now i'm completly confused now that its July. we kept in touch by phone and email until recently i feel he's completed dug his heels in and has not written to me or phoned me and i'm stunned that he's not returned my emails/calls. finally i got a brief email and he sounded completed depressed with his life (he admits to having bouts of depression) but twice in the email started out with "Please don't think that I am ignoring you or that my recent lack of correspondence has anything to do with how I think or feel about you" and closed with "But please don't fret. Please don't be concerned. Please don't worry that I have forgotten you. I haven't. I couldn't"

what can i do? even tho' we admitted being fond of each other I thought we were insync that a friendship was important to the both of us and him tell me so many times that our paths crossed again for a good reason, a reason he was (then) all too happy to embrace, now I've got the cold shoulder and can't understand what I may have said or did that sent him to shut down. should i try calling him again? i adore him he's always been a postive influence in my life even tho' we haven't spoken since h.s. but now that we've reconnected, is he pulling away from me because he taken with me or afraid to be? he's now wrote on his facebook header "i'm so very confused" -he's not the only one now!

MadPoe

Do Taurus men like loud, aggressive women, or quie...

2008-06-15T15:09:00.000-04:00

Do Taurus men like loud, aggressive women, or quieter, shy ones?

I'm a Pisces female gemini rising (a quiet shy type) smitten with a Taurus man. I think we vibe well. We arent dating but I casually slipped into conversation that last year I had temporarily developed a little crush on him. He was quiet friendly about it and we still talk. I was so fearful he would shut down and avoid me. And I think he knows better..(that my crush didn't stop - haha). But there's also another Pisces female with a leo rising vying for his affections to. And staking her claim to him. she doesn't know Im interested him - but her loud displays of wanting to be center stage around him, just rattle me. Even though her approach isn't apparentlty working. LOL. I'm quieter and approach interest with subtlety, and sweet playfulness.

3 people who know us both have told me I am a better fit for him than she is. But I wonder - who do Taurus respond to better? The aggressive loud woman, or the quiet, sweet one?

Okay, so I have had my eye on a Taurus male for qu...

2008-05-25T20:43:00.000-04:00

Okay, so I have had my eye on a Taurus male for quite some time. He is very nosey when we speak. As if he is trying to figure me out. It seems like he wants to ask me out although he never gets around to it. The questioning of my life and what not has gotten pretty serious with him. I have had thoughts on asking him out but I am not sure what this man will say or if he will recoil. Do I stand a chance? I am a Capricorn woman with a Gemini moon. I am definitely a lady but I CAN hang with the guys as well. Somebody for the love of God help me out with this one.

Im in a relationship with a taurus male with a can...

2008-05-19T12:37:00.000-04:00

Im in a relationship with a taurus male with a cancer moon and leo rising. Im a libra female with a scorpio moon and saggitarius rising, and we've been together for 14 months now. We have very compatible moons so emotionally we click extremely well. Its very hard to move earth! I learned that eventually. Its all about how you play the game. If he's interested in you, you're already on the winning side. He's obviously very fixed, and when he makes up his mind about you (after checking things out thouroughly) then he's going to pursue you till the ends of the earth. Because when he has a goal, he'll work very hard to obtain it. I didnt know much about astrology when I met my guy. It happened very fast and when I first knew him, I was together with someone else. I was extremely unhappy in my relationship, but kept trying to make it work. I never really trusted that guy. But then the taurus came along and was extremely shy but tried so hard. I didnt realize I was in love with him until a long time later, and when I saw a certain gemini was closing in on him, I called him (for the first time) and told him to meet me. Then I told him very bluntly my feelings and everything, and expressed my emotions freely. Two weeks later we were living together.

I guess it all depends on the situation. He'll want to know how stable you are. Playing games just pushes him to other more available people. Security is the key. Dont play too hard to get with this one because it will bewilder him. Mine didnt really use much tactic with me, but he definitely would come and go at strange times, to 'sniff' me out. The best part of them is that when they feel secure with you, and decide to be faithful, they are.

I am currently in a relationship with a Taurus man...

2008-05-04T17:00:00.000-04:00

I am currently in a relationship with a Taurus man. We live in two separate cities about an hour away from each other. We have been together for more than a year. He has a good job where he is at. He works ridiculous amount of hours to pay for his student’s loans, and I see him about every 1-2 weeks. My concern is that during the 1-2 weeks, he’s off to his own world like if I didn’t exist. And then out of the blue he will give me a call and drop by to visit. We always have a good time when we are together, However, I find it hard to believe that he cannot pick up the phone or e-mail a little “missing you babe message”. Wouldn’t an interested man call his gf once in a while to see what she is up to? I am hoping that he will eventually decide to move here with me as we use to both live in his city. But how long does a girl wait for this kind of change from a Taurus? Where do I draw the line ?

I understand what you mean Kochic. I am a Gemini ...

2008-05-02T12:05:00.000-04:00

I understand what you mean Kochic. I am a Gemini Male dating a Taurus Female for 3 months now. And in reading your post I noticed things you mentioned about taurean women is completely accurate. Being a Gemini it is a tough road slowing down and taking slow and steady to comfort her. I have been reading up on taurean women and have learned some things but as a taurean woman what other advice can you pass on to a Gemini man who is really trying to keep his taurean woman.

Help me out. I dated a Taurus man (April 20) for t...

2008-04-09T00:16:00.000-04:00

Help me out. I dated a Taurus man (April 20) for two months - everything was great. He pursued me for a few weeks and I got comfortable. Some of the things he said to me is "now that I've caught you, I don't know what to do with you" and "I don't know what I want." OK, so he's not ready. So, why in the heck did he ask me out in the first place? We'd been 'eyeballing' each other for over a year and I thought the time was finally right. For three weeks, he called less and less. I finally saw him one more time - before we parted ways (we'd met for dinner), he asked to kiss me (wasn't the passionate kiss like before, as if he was afraid I'd draw him in and he'd cave). That was two weeks ago. I sent him a birthday card inviting him to a sporting event before I realized he wasn't going to call again. I've called one time in two weeks, left a brief message in a very chipper voice - "Just wondered if you got my card, wondered if you'd picked a date to see the game so I can order tickets..." Still no phone call. Is there a chance he'll come back? I am pretty sure he was falling for me so I'm confused and heartbroken by his inaction. From the advice I've read, I won't be calling him again but I honestly thought he was the One. How long of a wait is too long? By the way, I'm a Sag.

As a taurean woman I have to laugh at this... Becu...

2008-03-27T16:52:00.000-04:00

As a taurean woman I have to laugh at this... Becuase I have done it to many! I have dated but I can read guys pretty well of all astrological signs, and thats what impression they take you for either a girlfriend or a get it on friend, this lets get it on types I play games with.. I say okay, you dont want to take me seriously as a woman and you want to show me your goods and get to the point without wanting to get to know me first, okay lets have it, I let them have a round.. but never again, I never call back I never try to get in touch thereafter and thats when I see their calls begin to persist and text messaging, but I never ever respond, they obviously liked what I gave them a taste of but I am more about whether you want a 401K plan or just a bonus check and I cannot take any man serious again after doing away with him on such a note... But the first guy to be respectful and patient gets all of my loyalty and attention. Trick is not to play me like a damn fool, I can smell bullshit from miles away!

omg! i can relate to heaven66,exactly what happene...

2008-03-27T13:13:00.000-04:00

omg! i can relate to heaven66,exactly what happened to me n my taurus guy. he said he wants us to be slow n steady, he said it's not that he don't want me, but i need to understand that he has issues he needs to take care of..But I'm a Gemini, i also want this to work so much! thanx for such an insightful article, it helps me a lot in understanding my taurus guy better!

Well good because I know if he tastes my food it's...

2008-03-24T16:31:00.000-04:00

Well good because I know if he tastes my food it's a done deal! At this point I am running out of options and you know how Scorps have no patience. GEESH this man is like a rock!!

@scorpio beauty, I was actually thinking of that, ...

2008-03-24T16:28:00.000-04:00

@scorpio beauty, I was actually thinking of that, but held back for some reason. If you bring him food to his workplace, especially at a time when it's not near the very end of his workday, it could be experienced as "safe" because he would have to choose to split early to rip your clothes off.

I am trying to figure out the same thing. I told h...

2008-03-24T16:02:00.000-04:00

I am trying to figure out the same thing. I told him that I was going to continue professing my love for him until he believed it, embraces it and surrenders! His reply "girl you're priceless, what am I going to do with you?" But I know he loves it and is totally flattered. LOL I think he thinks he was going to take the lead the night we had our "incident" but aggressive Scorp always wins in the love making dept - Now he's probably shaking in his boots (we always joke about that night - I tell him I figured if I touched you again you'd jump out the window!!)

What should I do, I can't wait forever but I really like him and I know he's the one? I want to make him a home cooked meal but getting him over my house is going to take a lot. I was thinking of maybe cooking for his b-day but having it delivered to his job (or is that just too much, and would I seem too aggressive??)

@Scorpio Beauty, this Taurus sounds like he doesn'...

2008-03-24T15:17:00.000-04:00

@Scorpio Beauty, this Taurus sounds like he doesn't like to be vulnerable. He's scared of losing control with you. How could you plant something in his head to make him want to take the lead?

Help, I am in love with a Taurus male and I am a S...

2008-03-24T12:17:00.000-04:00

Help, I am in love with a Taurus male and I am a Scorpio female. I have known him for several years, as we used to do business together. When I met him I was married on my way to divorce. Over the years he has always kept in contact with my sporadically calling me out of the blue to find out how I am and what's going on. I have been divorced for a few years now and when he called me one day I suggested that we meet for a drink (no strings attached - we just always have great convo and lots in common). After meeting him for that drink I realized how charming he was and we started talking on a more frequent basis (for hours on end at least 2-3 times per week) he works crazy hours (owns his own business) but we enjoy talking and have lots of laughs. Ok I am IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN and I have to have him. I recently started professing my love to him, he thinks I am dillusional and doesn't really believe me (I think - he may be playing and has the need to feel desired) but he keeps referencing my ex-husband who I am SO over. We had sex once (unexpectedly) a few months ago and he kind of lost his mind right after "he started saying that I made him weak, etc" -- so I figured ok won't be getting that good stuff again any time soon) once he even said "you made me feel like a 17 year old high school boy that night" (but I'm a scorpio we can't help it) however after a week after that incident I was able to baby walk him back to our regular state (he seemed so scared after we had that initial incident) so things are back to normal now but I have to have him and yeah I know they have to slowly think everything out... but does ANYONE have any ideas on what I need to do in order to get this man because I KNOW he likes me. He's a man who works from 9am until midnight most days so if he didn't like I am sure he wouldn't waste his time always talking to me. I am a great cook, etc. I can even cook entrees from his native country (as we are both from the same country) but I got to get the man over my house again in order to feed him. His b-day is coming up do I send him something or is that too aggressive - what do I need to do? Any and all advice is welcomed!!

PLEASE HELP.I had a Taurus man. And I somehow have...

2008-03-13T03:22:00.000-04:00

PLEASE HELP.
I had a Taurus man. And I somehow have managed to lose him.
He believes I cheated on him(which I didn't). And I have been trying and trying to win him back but nothing seems to work. WHAT DO I DO???
I am an aquarian woman with a broken heart.:(

in response to "mirror of aphrodite"..."And you're...

2008-03-07T04:39:00.000-05:00

in response to "mirror of aphrodite"...

"And you're absolutely right about him risking his security. He WON'T. Even if he's unhappily married. I was with to a Taurian male (and I'm a Taurian female) for 13 years, married 8 of them. He cheated from the 3rd year of the marriage - but never left. When I spoke the "D" word, he wasn't hearing it. Just stuck around like nothing was wrong. Getting him to leave was like trying to move Mt. Rushmore. He was more than satisfied to continue the marriage, playing the field. I wasn't and now he's gone. "

i can't get over how this sounds exactly like what happened to me, only mine is a much smaller scale. my relationship with a taurus male lasted only 3 months before he cheated, and the day after i broke up with him he called me as if nothing ever happened! this went on for months afterward, making it impossible for me to get over him, yet i pushed him away as best i could.

anyway, that was annoying, but really tough. i guess i should have known this would happen with a Taurus!!

@Anonymous, tauruslover, and libraeyes88If he look...

2008-02-08T19:05:00.000-05:00

@Anonymous, tauruslover, and libraeyes88

If he looks too good to be true, he may be. My advice to you is to be very careful with Taurus men in the early stages (i.e. before you get emotionally involved). They are extremely fickle about their perceptions of security, stability, and comfort. So even though he may "like" you and sleep with you, if he doesn't feel he can hang on to you forever or he isn't sure about what he wants, you may be in store for a nice emotional roller coaster ride.

Proceed with caution if you already have doubts, Ladies...

i'm in a situation with a taurus not a bad one (so...

2008-02-08T12:01:00.000-05:00

i'm in a situation with a taurus not a bad one (so i think). you see we met during a play we were both in and at the time i was dating someone else but when i met taurus he caught my attention more than the scorpio i was dating. by the end of the last weekend of the play taurus and i began to hang out as friends like go joy riding and go out to starbucks walk around the docks near the river. i left scorpio bcuz i didn't want to be in a 2 guy situation. anyways one night we got to the point of kissing. he kissed me bcuz i bit his ear and kissed his neck just to flirt( i'm a libra). then the other time after that we hung out again and we had sex.(yea yeah i know) and i told him i liked him and he said he does like me but not like that. but what i dont get is why when we kiss or hug or anything he gives me this stare and this smile that says something but i dont know what it is and when he kisses me i feel something he holds me tightly on his lips until he wants to let go. i dont know if he does like me and just dosent want to tell me. uuug help!!!!!

i'm in a situation with a taurus not a bad one (so...

2008-02-08T11:55:00.000-05:00

@tauruslover, click on the Forum tab and then "sta...

2008-02-08T11:34:00.000-05:00

@tauruslover, click on the Forum tab and then "start a new discussion."

I've joined the forum but now how do i post direct...

2008-02-07T20:40:00.000-05:00

I've joined the forum but now how do i post directly on the forum?

BTW i'm a Leo.

2008-02-07T13:05:00.000-05:00

BTW i'm a Leo.

Need advice. I was dating a Taurus guy for three ...

2008-02-07T12:49:00.000-05:00

Need advice. I was dating a Taurus guy for three months. Our getting together was fairly consistent and felt secure. Then over the course of a few days I contacted him too much as I was worried about him after ending a conversation abruptly while traveling on ice. I didn't hear back from him for several days and knew he was interviewing for a position out of state. When he finally returned my call, he said he wanted to break up. He said if this last week was any prediction of how the future would be then it was best that we break now as opposed to six months in the future.

I felt that he really liked me and I really liked him. Then over the course of a few days i pushed him away. He also mentioned that he wasn’t ready to get married in the next two years and there is a good possibility that he may relocate out of state for a new position.

It’s been two weeks and I haven’t had any contact with him. Do I continue to not make any contact and see if he comes around?

I am confused! I met a taurian man recently and sp...

2008-02-07T11:54:00.000-05:00

I am confused! I met a taurian man recently and spent 10 lovely days with him, we dont live near each other but we both want to be together and so far we have planned to see each other on a regular basis. During this time, he confessed his undying love for me, and I feel the same and now that I am home he calls me everyday telling me how much he misses me and that he wants us to get married and have children. He has gone from saying in the near future to saying he wants to get married this summer as he doesnt want us to be apart. The only problem is that he is a VERY good looking man with a string of past flings with girls and he has been know to consider himself a playboy! but when I was with him I saw the family orientated, quiet, moody side of him that just wanted to stay home with me and cook, eat, snuggle. Infact he didnt really want to be apart from me at all. So he doesnt seem to be holding back as you state he would. Is this right are Taurian men like this when they are in love or is he acting out of sorts! P.S I am a libra women who is a couple of years older than him could this be that I offer him that security you are talking about?? any advice would be grateful!