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I am an Aquarius woman(Aquarius rising/Libra moon/...

2008-07-18T21:05:00.000-04:00

I am an Aquarius woman(Aquarius rising/Libra moon/Capricorn venus/Taurus mars) and about some time in May reconnected with a
Taurus man from H.S school days thanks to Facebook. We began writing each other everyday, our emails were long, deep and we both confessed we had a thing for each other and he admitted that now we were writing again, those fond feelings he had are actually still there. by June he was visiting family in new york where i live and we spent the day together with his son (he's a divorced dad - I'm married to a Sag guy) my taurus friend was a true gentleman and respected that I was married so we didn't flirt or nothing more than a hello/goodbye hug - but now i'm completly confused now that its July. we kept in touch by phone and email until recently i feel he's completed dug his heels in and has not written to me or phoned me and i'm stunned that he's not returned my emails/calls. finally i got a brief email and he sounded completed depressed with his life (he admits to having bouts of depression) but twice in the email started out with "Please don't think that I am ignoring you or that my recent lack of correspondence has anything to do with how I think or feel about you" and closed with "But please don't fret. Please don't be concerned. Please don't worry that I have forgotten you. I haven't. I couldn't"

what can i do? even tho' we admitted being fond of each other I thought we were insync that a friendship was important to the both of us and him tell me so many times that our paths crossed again for a good reason, a reason he was (then) all too happy to embrace, now I've got the cold shoulder and can't understand what I may have said or did that sent him to shut down. should i try calling him again? i adore him he's always been a postive influence in my life even tho' we haven't spoken since h.s. but now that we've reconnected, is he pulling away from me because he taken with me or afraid to be? he's now wrote on his facebook header "i'm so very confused" -he's not the only one now!

MadPoe

OK I HAVE A QUESTION I REALLY LIKE THIS TAURUS MAN...

2008-07-11T17:04:00.000-04:00

OK I HAVE A QUESTION I REALLY LIKE THIS TAURUS MAN I MET HIM THUR MY JOB WHERE HE IS A DELIVERY MAN AND OMG HE IS SO HANDSOME I THINK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME WE FINALLY EXCHANGED NUMBERS AFTER 1 YEAR OF HIM DOING DELIVERIES HERE AND WE HAD PLAN TO MET A FEW TIME I CANT REMEMBER WHAT HAPPEND THE FIRST COUPLE OF TIMES BUT, SO TIMES I WOULD CALL HIM ON MY LUNCH BREAK TO SEE IF HE WAS IN THE AREA HE WOULD ASK IF I WOULD STOP TO GRAB HIM A BIT AS THE LEO I AM THAT WAS NOT A PROBLEM I'LL FEED ANYONE I DID THIS A FEW TIMES HE CALLED ME ONE SUNDAY AN ASKED ME IF I WANTED TO GO TO A MOVIE THEN FOR ICE CREAM I TOLD HIM TO LET ME FIND SOMETHING TO WEAR AND I'LL CALL HIM BACK I CALLED BACK LIKE 2 HOURS LATER ONCE I GOT DRESSED AND EVERYTHING I GOT NO ANSWER I LEFT HIM A TEXT AND A VOICE MAIL LETTING HIM KNOW I JUST KNEW HE WOULD STAND ME UP AND HE CALLED BACK WIT SOME EXCUSE LIKE HIS PHONE DYING AND HIM BEING SLEEP HE WAS SUPPOSE TO CALL ME BACK BUT NEVER DID HE HAS STOOD ME UP SEVERAL TIMES BUT I REALLY LIKE HIM SO I FIGURED I'LL WAIT FOR HIM TO CALL ME AFTER LIKE 2 WEEKS HE CALLED ME AND LEFT A MESSAGE STATING WE WERE SUPPOSE TO HOOK UP I CALLED HIM BACK TALKED TO HIM ALL OF 3 MINS AND HE AGAIN SAID HE WAS GOING TO CALL ME BACK/ WELL HE DIDNT MY THOUGHT WAS WHY IS THIS GUY WASTTING MY TIME ??? I CALLED HIM AGAIN LATER THAT EVENING AND TOLD HIM I WANTED TO SEE HIM BUT HE DONT WANT TO SEE ME. HE KEPT SAYING WHY ARE U SAYING I DONT WANT TO SEE U I'M LIKE ITS QUITE CLEAR BY U NEVER RETURNING MY CALLS AND ETC I TOLD HIM I WANT TO C HIM 2 DAY AND I WOULD CALL HIM LATER AND LET HIM KNOW WHATS UP ....... WELL I DIDNT CALL HIM BACK YESTERDAY AS BAD AS I WANT TO CALL HIM RIGHT NOW I WONT ..... I REALLY WANT HIM TO WANT ME BUT I'M A LEO AND I NEED TO KNOW HOW HE REALLY FEELS SHOULD I JUST GIVE UP AND MOVE ON ????????

@preview27, I don't think this is typical Taurus b...

2008-07-06T11:08:00.000-04:00

@preview27, I don't think this is typical Taurus behavior. Perhaps she has Venus, her love planet, in Gemini, which tends to be fickle in love. Remember that Gemini is the sign of the Twins -- her affections can quickly turn on and off.

Im a virgo man and i'm in love with a Taurus girl....

2008-07-06T10:08:00.000-04:00

Im a virgo man and i'm in love with a Taurus girl. Im shy and she made the first move. I wanted to take it slow but before we knew it we were head over heels in love. Then she tried to break it off with me and I was hurt but told her i didnt understand but respected her choices. Five days later with no contact she comes on stronger than ever! So I give her my heart fully. Everything was good for a couple months. Then the same thing she wants out so I give her all the room she needs. Again she comes back stronger than ever. Now slowly she stops telling me important stuff and I feel it coming on again. Are all Taurus' like this? She is driving me crazy!!

I'm a cancer woman, 13 years older than my taurus ...

2008-07-05T02:41:00.000-04:00

I'm a cancer woman, 13 years older than my taurus lover. I'm also married. He knows both, but still pounced on me - it was mutual. We wanted to pounced each other. It was great intimacy. We had enough attraction to each other to have sex, I guess. We're classmates (art class at night) and that's how we met. After our first, he tried to ignore me for the following two weeks. I thought it was just his style telling me to back off. Since, I have wisdom and kind of amused by his behavior, I played along with it. Until one night, he didn't what the class had to do, and he would really looked stupid if no one helped him. The nurturing and caring side of cancer kicked in, and helped him through the process. Then, I helped him edit his final paper for his other class. I guess, he appreciated both help. I also guess that my steady, caring, and nurturing ways allowed us to have another wonderful intimacy. But reality sets in: I'm married, and I know I can not leave my marriage. I also have two pretty grown up kids (12 and 20 yrs of age) -one still lives with us. This taurus man sure has lots of women around him, it seems, and quite enjoying their company. From the art class we both took, he probably score 3 to 4 women there including me - of course I didn't know this when I got involved with him. It's really not a mess, and I don't regret that it happened. I could call him now, and he'd answer, but what for? A third intimacy? And then what? Fourth? Fifth? It will take a toll of my marriage, I think. It's just kind of stressful, but sweet.

Well, I`m still in love with my ex who was a tipic...

2008-06-21T20:32:00.000-04:00

Well, I`m still in love with my ex who was a tipical Taurus.
He always said I was the one and I was the one whom he wanted to spend his life and we kept a long distance relationship for 9 months ( I had to move somewhere else to work) He broke up twice saying he can`t do long distance, then he came back saying he can`t live without me.
I`m a Leo and always thought we were perfect together in a lot of things. I always knew how to comfort him and he was always good at giving me his devotion and attention and all that.
He broke up with me one last time 2 months ago for the things I said without listening him. I misunderstood something and overreacted. I guess as a Leo, I`m dramatic sometimes and he HATES it. He hates arguing and he hates when I overreact to something he says.
He wanted to be friends. I always thought it was the long distance that broke us apart. So I moved back to the city where he lives. And nothing has changed. He still wants to be friends. He never said one word about working things out anything. He emails or texts me every other day and talk about random stuff, but that`s it.
I`m still in love very much and I want him back, but I don`t know how. Seeing him or talking to him as friends hurts so bad, but I love him so much that I can`t live without hearing from him.
I tried to bring something up from past, but he is saying telling me that me and him don`t work, because I don`t listen and I don`t make any sacrifice for him….. when he says all these, even I love him to death, I can `t put my pride down and tell him to give me another chance. Because I don`t know if begging him to get back together will work after he told me all these things.
I wish there was one single key to open his doors to me again.

I have been married to Taurus for 15yrs. He thinks...

2008-06-06T14:04:00.000-04:00

I have been married to Taurus for 15yrs. He thinks I may have done something to Betray him but actually it was my daughter. He is living away from the home (farm) which we own and we will lose it and everything if we get Divorced. He has dismissed the Divorce case for a year but refuses to come back home. Is there a chance he will change his mind a decide to reconcile. Should I continue to contact him or give him the silent treatment.

Hey, I just had a quick question. For the record -...

2008-05-20T23:16:00.000-04:00

Hey, I just had a quick question. For the record -- I'm a Cancer woman.

I'm a junior in highschool, by the way and yes I know I am very young but, I was just wondering about something. I had gotten to know this Taurus man who had become one of my good friends because we're so alike. Sometimes it's as if there's this strange connection between the two of us.. I really don't know how to explain it, but it's there. Anyway, Prom was a couple of months away and while I was going on dates with him, he kissed me. And yes, I did see "sparks" and all that jazz, and it felt as if THAT kiss was my first kiss because of the way it made me feel. So yeah, this was the good part.

But soon Prom was right around the corner, and I had thought that this Taurus man was going to ask me to go with him. It turns out that he was asked to go to Prom by this other girl wayy before he and I started seeing each other. But then I heard that he was the one who asked her, and.. ugh.. It was just a big mess.

To put a long story short, he did end up going with her to Prom but had to leave early because he had a game that saturday. I never did go to that Prom because it wouldn't have been as special if I wasn't with him. But, ever since we had this little fight about him not telling me that he made this "commitment" [because apparently to the girl, Prom meant that no other girl could talk to him or whatever. ] to this other girl, he's been ignoring me and I have no idea why. I mean, he used to give attention to me all the time, texting me.. asking me to do things.. but now it's just nothing at all. And I really miss talking to him, but I have no idea what to do now, and I'm very confused at this point.

He does have a issue with trust, by the way. His last relationship [of at least 4 years] left him in a huge low.

He does stare at me a lot, whenever I'm around him or when someone mentions my name he seems to always pay attention. Or he'll strike up a conversation with someone just to get my attention.

I guess my question is, What in the world is going on? And how am I supposed to react? You must know this, I have never met anyone like him before and even if I can't have a "relationship" with him, I at least want my friend back.

Thanks and I hope you can help me.

Thats such a hard question. I was saving the whole...

2008-05-19T14:03:00.000-04:00

Thats such a hard question.

I was saving the whole chasing game part of dating with my taurus man, because I was involved with someone else when he came along. Slowly but surely we became closer, but I honestly showed no interest and resisted him for a long time. Somehow I intrigued him and he started chasing me...until I thought he lost interest and tried to be with someone more available. I finally came to my senses about the guy I was with, broke off with him almost hours later, called the taurus up and told him to meet me. I was blunt, simple, and to the point with my emotions and intentions and how I felt about him. He sort of smiled and two weeks later we were living together.

I think it has a lot to do with someone's moon, rising, and other important factors in thier charts. But earth doesnt change. Although you can certainly find some factors that help you move mountains if you have to. I wouldnt rush him.

i also had a stint with a Taurus man. we worked in...

2008-05-13T22:42:00.000-04:00

i also had a stint with a Taurus man. we worked in an office together and i guess in some way i caught his eye, and we began to talk to each other. i made the first move after a week or so and i gave him my phone number and exchanged email addresses.we went on a date after a month or so and we had a great time but then the next day he tells me he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend. Did he like me in the first place or did he just use me to try and get over her. also he stayed over my place and it seems he had a good time but when i told him i couldn't make it to his place because of work he completely stopped contacting me. Finally i asked him if he was avoiding me and he said no (i didn't believe him and accused him of dating someone else) and he cut me off completely. I apologized for my crazy behavior but no response. is this forgivable to a Taurus man? I'm so hurt by him and it hurts that he doesn't understand. Any word of advice? from Jeffery or lw9.

as a taurus femaleif a guy i like backs off, i don...

2008-05-05T22:45:00.000-04:00

as a taurus female

if a guy i like backs off, i dont think of them as wanting to be chased ( that could be their intention) but i automatically will stop trying to talk to them coz it makes me think they arent interested and im not gonna chase a guy and get rejected

:)

so to answer your question. we will still want you but not want you more we assume that u are not interested in us

I had a couple of fights with my Taurus boyfriend....

2008-04-30T06:02:00.000-04:00

I had a couple of fights with my Taurus boyfriend..
And I got so angry because I found pictures of him with his ex, even though I look back now, and I did know that they are friends.
I was ust so jealous.. Pluys, he is overseas.. We 've always done everything together, but a death in his family has brought him back home, and while i was there with him at first, I have since had to return here for work..
I got so mad that i said we should break up.
He didnt want to, but told me the nxt day he was so hurt, he loves me less, and maybe we shold take that break.
he's got a lot on his plate no.. loking after his paretns, as well as studying for an avaiation course..

How do I win him back?

We've been in contact. he's said that a loittle part of him still loves me and cares for me, and the other day, when i told him i miss him, he said he missed me too.

I just regret evth that I said.. plus, my stupid, rashness-I'd actually said break up once beofre. although I did not mean it.. I was just upset..

please help me.

Hello again this is the virgo woman in love with t...

2008-04-11T19:56:00.000-04:00

Hello again this is the virgo woman in love with the married Taurus. Thank you Blazing for your suggestion and I will definately try it... Yesterday I saw him and I was going to walk away from him and he stopped me just to talk. He seemed happy to see me as we hardly saw each other anymore. As far as our affairs together our intimacy was limited ( alot of hugs, kisses, some touching but no sex). When he finished speaking, I would start to walk away and then he comes over and gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek (we were in public). I proceeded to walk away and then he puts his stuff away comes and touches me on the shoulder and smiles at me. At this point I become weak at the knees but I didn't show it. He stood there and when I saw him again later on the afternoon, he'd look at me and smile while I sat on the steps on that warm afternoon. I was with a female friend at the time. I knew that if I was alone, he would have sat down right next to me as he had done other times before.When I told him I loved him, I felt that I wanted to, to let him know what I was feeling. He has a child with her and before she became pregnant he contemplated on leaving her because they were still having problems(which he told me confidentely 2 years before). He said he wouldn't leave because of his child. He said if things were different we would have been together. In the back of my mind, I secretly thought to myself,would he have cheated on me eventually?

Oh I will definately try your suggestion, blazing scorpio. It's gonna be really hard to get over this guy, but I need to do it for me.. btw, your suggestion is not stupid.
Thanks again

I have a few things to say...of course, normally m...

2008-04-06T16:17:00.000-04:00

I have a few things to say...of course, normally my few things end up being LONG!

To HELP answer your question...

1. Our thoughts & what we desire, focus, and meditate on will manifest themselves. The universe responds to our thoughts. Thus the taraus man now in your life.

2. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE ANYONE BUT YOURSELF. I believe your current situation my change if you start with SELF FIRST...then trying the "what I appreciate most about him is" everyday for 30 days.

3. Why do we have a 6th sense? Why second guess what our minds have created for us?

4. STOP! THINK! & LISTEN. Why are you telling yourself consciously or unconsciously that you aren't WORTHY to be happy?

5. WHY TURN RED LIGHTS into GREEN to FIT what we kinda sorta think is right?

6. YOU DESERVE to be HAPPY! YOU deserve LOVE, and its your RIGHT to have it. Demand the universe to give it up to you!

7. Then when the opportunity opens. Carpe Diem.

Your choice, your life, your wishes. The universe will respond. Turn negative into POSITIVE vibes...

Empress Renee

All of the above speaks to me so much...I hope som...

2008-04-06T09:59:00.000-04:00

All of the above speaks to me so much...I hope somebody can help with my own situation as it's driving me insane & making me so sad in the process... I'm a Capricorn (Moon in Sag, Venus in Scorpio) who's been in a relationship with a Gemini for three years. I've looked through the Cap/Gemini pages, and it's all so so true...things were so great & fun at first, but for at least the last year I have totally felt like the parent while he's the big kid. I do EVERYTHING at home while he's always heading out or involved in some new short-lived project or whatever... I still love & care about him very much but am not in love with him anymore & our sex life stopped last summer. Then I began a new job two months ago & fell head over heels in love with a Taurus colleague at first sight. It completely knocked me off my feet & he felt the same. We were both new to the job, so decided to go for a drink as 'newbies' onour own together & as we were also intrigued by the strength of sudden feelings we had for each other. All I can say is, everything felt so right. We both agreed that it felt as if we'd known each other forever & the electricity was incredible. He emailed me the next day saying he'd fallen for me very quickly & it had never happened to him before, but because of our respective situations (he's also in a relationship with someone he lives with which has unofficially ended but no-one's done anything about it) we should take time out to sort our issues out at home before seeing where we both stand in a few months time. I agreed, as it seemed like the obvious & sensible thing to do...but I'm now driving myself insane by wondering..is it really? He's all I can think about...we've broken our 'rule' a handful of times since then & met for coffee/drinks, but each time it ends with me wanting to throw caution to the wind & just spend time with him to see if we're as fantastic as we think we are (thinking long-term) and him as Mr Hugely Stubborn Taurus saying his feelings haven't changed for me but we can have our fun in future, once we've sorted our current situations out & can be together. I still see him at work every day & I know he's probably right, but I'm so scared...what if I tie things up with my own current relationship only to find my Taurus man isn't ready? Maybe the answer to happiness lies in trying to sort out the issues with my Gemini & we should just be working harder at 'us'? I can't deny that the feelings between myself & Mr Taurus are real because we both know that they are. And he's probably not going to budge until he's absolutely ready & sure about me. But it might be six months/a year or maybe even more before we're both in a position to get together properly. And I'm so scared that I've finally found true love & am about to lose it in the meantime. What do people think?

Virgo woman. I feel that you are very passionate ...

2008-04-06T06:16:00.000-04:00

Virgo woman. I feel that you are very passionate about this man! And where ever your passion is....thats where your own "universe" will lead and draw you. For me...the fact that he will NEVER leave his wife would be enough for me...because I dont care for playing second. If you dont have him FULLY and separate from...then you dont have him. Most often than not...from what I have learned and understand...men need that affirmation, understanding, and appreciation. What you are giving him, he apparently lacks in his marriage...which in turn he is seeking it from you. The fact that you TOLD him you love him...reassures him he can continue to get what he lacks from you.

My suggestion? How MUCH do you WANT TO move on, and find someone who wants you? AND JUST YOU? When you move your focus, direction, and FULL attention to finding someone else...meaning framing your WORLD...the universe then shapes, forms, & delivers to you what you want & desire..therefore almost effortless you will attract love. And not his love.

MY SUGGESTION: IF AND ONLY IF YOU WANT TO MOVE ON...is this.

First? Do you write? Or can you draw basically?

1. Write what you want in a man.
2. So that you can have a VARIETY of men to choose from...and then begin to date again HEALTHY...get pictures of men in a group...OR draw pictures of men in a group...prehaps get a magazine with a soccer team or football team or a magazine or clip from a sales add...in the area where the advertise men things. That may sound STUPID, however you are telling your universe what you want. And as a result it will come.

3. BE GENUINLEY HAPPY. What part of you make you SETTLE for being second? Stop focusing on negative things..LOVE YOURSELF. Enjoy being with yourself. The more love you have for yourself, it will some over take you, and that love with some to flow out of you in POSITIVE ENGERY that will not only put a DEMAND on your universe to deliver what you desire...you will see things start to turn around!

4. Be appreciative for the HEALTHLY relationships you do have. If you dont have this...then everyday for 30 days, write down 1 thing positive about someone in your life. Like a mom, dad, child, sister, brother, grandparents. Find the good, dont focus on the bad. The MORE energy and focus you have on the bad, the more the UNIVERSE shapes to deliver what you are focusing on.

5. Get pictures of couples and post them on a "VISION BOARD" happy couples, couples holding hands, kissing, couples showing genuine love & intimacy towards each other. Post this at your desk, ANYWHERE when you can sit, focus & stare at everyday.

6. Whatever POSITIVE vibe, energy, & focus you dwell on, your universe HAS GOT TO shape and deliver.

If you think this is stupid, then dont do it. If you are ready for a change, and want to move on. Give it a try....the more consistant, & persistant you are with it. The more is going to MANIFEST and become real.

Once you start doing this and other positive things...geared towards your desires for a mate/soulmate...(or anything thing you want for this matter)...it will happen. And trust me, you will come back to this board, and tell of your successes! I promise you!

Empress Renee bka Blazing Scorpio

I'm a Virgo woman in love with a married Taurus ma...

2008-04-03T20:47:00.000-04:00

I'm a Virgo woman in love with a married Taurus man. I know he will never leave his wife even though they have marital problems. He even admitted that he may have made the wrong choice. When we first met, we became fast friends and then over a period of 3 years we grew very fond of each other. Last year I realized that I've fallen completely for him. At first, I said to myself "Oh no..",but even then I had to admit it. I even told him I love him and even though he didn't feel the same way, he didn't run away. So we had affairs off and on...he shows me still that he cares about me. He's still shy and quiet at times..but I've learned not to rock the boat so much..The thing is now I have to get over him. I have to. He's never leaving his wife. I tried to see other men, but he's still in my thoughts.. I got to get over him. I pray I can meet another taurus who has those same qualities,but who is very single and available only for me.
How do I get over this one and only lifetime love ? How do I move on?

LS9AWD I am SO happy for you, yes your advice was...

2008-03-31T22:50:00.000-04:00

LS9AWD I am SO happy for you, yes your advice was darn near perfect if not perfect! Its like we are tasting heaven each and everytime we talk or when we are together...I mean for Jeff's sake, (LOL) I will not go into detail because I tend to get long winded...but its like, I am LOVING the courtship. Its so nice to feel beautiful, loved and appreciated. I cant begin to tell you how he makes me feel. And it gives me GREAT pleasure to do things for him such as the care package! I didnt even tell you what I got him for Christmas! But I'd LOVE 100% to give you advice on how to keep your scorpio woman happy! I am sure you being who you are is more than enough...but I can help prehaps by telling you what works for me. But anytime just let me know..we can help each other? Deal? :) I am glad you are happy!!!!! I wish you NOTHING but the absolute best in your relationship! Gosh, just thinking about my tauras man, sends me right over the top! I am LOVING IT! Hmmmmmmmmm...

Hugs,
Empress Renee

LovelyLibra(Scorpio Rising, yeah go figure!) here ...

2008-03-30T23:35:00.000-04:00

LovelyLibra(Scorpio Rising, yeah go figure!) here and needing some advice! Recently I had the opportunity to spend an intimate weekend with a wonderful Taurus guy that I had been knowing about six months. At first, I must admit I didn't take his advances seriously because he lives in another state and I was a little apprehensive about long distance relationships and he had told me he had just gotten out of a relationship about a year prior to meeting me. But I finally gave in and went to visit him. We realized we had more in common than first thought. The weekend went wonderfully. You know there was a lot of romance and passion. He was a true gentleman. While I was there, we kinda touched on relationships and children in conversation and he asked me if I liked him, and you know Libras, we have to play it cool, and I said yes I liked him but I didn't really specify how much because I wasn't sure how he meant it, so I didn't elaberate. I get back home, and we talk almost everyday for about a week straight. One day, I mentioned us seeing each other again. He seemed cool with it. He asked if I wanted him to come to me or me visit him again. I told him either way. I didn't hear from him again for a few days. For some odd reason, I decided to muster up my courage and tell him how I really felt about him. I can't believe it because I'm a Libra woman that hates rejection so this type of move is unheardof on my part. I was direct but tactful in conversation, trying hard not to sound like a school girl with a crush. I told him how much I liked him and would like to be more than just friends and would like to make an exception of my dislike for long distance relationships. He said that he's glad that I said something to him and that I gave hime something to think about while he was at the gym. I didn't hear from him again until exactly 7 days, down to the minute, from when I made my confession. It was kinda creepy and what makes it worse is that our conversation that day, was in text messaging. He never said anything about my confession then either. I don't know what to do! I've send e-cards, texts, and even called and left a voicemail message letting him know that I'm thinking about him and I haven't heard a word. I'm trying to be patient but I'm not sure if it will pay off. Something keeps telling not to be hasty, but how long is too long to wait? Should I just call and say hey, whats up? Did you make up your mind yet? You know it doesn't take Libras long to make up their minds when it comes to relationships.

Well, Empress/Blazing Scorpio, what did I tell you...

2008-03-28T10:40:00.000-04:00

Well, Empress/Blazing Scorpio, what did I tell you?

Honesty is best.

As you can now see, if you're honest with those you love, it works out in the end, or at the very least, you know where you really stand with that person.

Apparently, your guy is very much into you, as I had suspected.

I'm glad to see you summoned the courage to take the steps you took.
I also applaud the way you did it - that care package was a nice touch (I know my heart melts when women do things like that for me), and like I said on my first post, earning trust with little (non-sexual, non-manipulative) favors like that is absolutely vital.

I wish you best of luck with your man, and I hope the advice I gave helped you out. As for me, I've now got a Scorpio girlfriend and she is wonderful in ways beyond measure. She's an earth-bound angel, and I go crazy just thinking about her. I've been hurt bad in the past, but I think I may very well have fallen in love again.

Anyway, Empress, it looks like now I might be the one asking for relationship advice...LOL...I gotta know how to keep my new scorpion girl happy...

I cant find my password! This is Empress,I just h...

2008-03-26T20:15:00.000-04:00

I cant find my password! This is Empress,

I just have to say it, I am freaking in LOVE, VERY VERY MUCH SO.

And to be quite honest, I believe with all in me, he loves me too.

Too many signs, and comments by him says it all, right up to the very last conversation we had this afternoon.

And I am very happy.

Empress BKA Blazing Scorpio.

@empress, I can't really tell you too much about t...

2008-03-20T09:27:00.000-04:00

@empress, I can't really tell you too much about the dating world. It sounds me to like he's just afraid of taking the step of making it "official." He's probably been hurt before.

If it tastes like butter, it IS butter. Why do you have to call it "butter"?

oh dear sounds like someone is in love big bad lov...

2008-03-20T00:55:00.000-04:00

oh dear sounds like someone is in love big bad love come blow your house down

Yes, Jeff...but its good. LOL. Okay, how about i...

2008-03-19T21:40:00.000-04:00

Yes, Jeff...but its good. LOL. Okay, how about in 300 words or less? I was upset and scared that he didnt feel the same about me, after I was told here, I should let him know I love him....I did. He didnt respond. but he let me know sometime later that he did recieve the message that I loved him. He was happy, excited but didnt let me know how he felt. This pasted sunday, we got to together is was HEAVEN ON EARTH we were vibing "made out, romantically, WITHOUT SEX" best time we ever had! He inquired about what I was thinking and feeling but I didnt tell him, later during the making out I told him that I felt wonderful...I asked him about his feelings, here again he said its a long story, but I said is that good or bad, he said well, I dont know. ANd thats basically it. The LONG response was basically to say he acts as if we are a couple we do everything as a couple but he has yet to tell me his FEELINGS and or ask me to be his girl. I am asking is it like that these days in the dating world? Do I have something to worry about or do you feel he loves me or? In limbo.

Thanks. (sorry) I am a talker.

Empress

@empress/blazing scorpio, I'd respond if I could ...

2008-03-19T16:32:00.000-04:00

@empress/blazing scorpio, I'd respond if I could bring myself to read your comment, but it is so darn long! How about a reader's digest version?