tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post351237273005404095..comments2008-07-18T09:37:47.710-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger66125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-36256060527094109132008-07-18T09:37:00.000-04:002008-07-18T09:37:00.000-04:00That sounds horrible. I hope you don't get burned again like that.Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-84066293503513830762008-07-18T06:39:00.000-04:002008-07-18T06:39:00.000-04:00to the cappy who wanted the pisceas female. I am a picseas female. i am bi though I had this relationship with a capricorn female. It would have other wise worked except for the fact that she proposed to me twice gave a ring to me twice and by the end of both prposal days left snuck out and left me high and dry. I decide dthat I would never give her a third chance the first two was toomuch the second time resulted in me eating a bottle of sleeping pills and washing them down witha bottle of whine . luckily enough a guardian angel wa swatching me because i puked up a tiolet bowl full of pills. She called and called and cried and I let her know she didn' thave a right to speak to me after everything she had done to me. Your answer is this if you want her. First of all be true to your self know for sure its whta you want. what I loved about my cappy . was her sense of humor her good looks . they way we joke. We had a sense of saftey between us and she dosed the affectin on me . It came naturally . I missed the days we were apart . What ends it for me with this was that she had given me somthing I had never had befor . She gave me sanctuary and love. I had never had that and that was theesscence of us , saftey comfort laughter and love. When she did what she did she split it down the middle . i could never trust her again. That is when I knew our relationship could not be revived and was permanantly in the grave.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-69256225416499507952008-07-18T06:38:00.000-04:002008-07-18T06:38:00.000-04:00to the cappy who wanted the pisceas female. I am a picseas female. i am bi though I had this relationship with a capricorn female. It would have other wise worked except for the fact that she proposed to me twice gave a ring to me twice and by the end of both prposal days left snuck out and left me high and dry. I decide dthat I would never give her a third chance the first two was toomuch the second time resulted in me eating a bottle of sleeping pills and washing them down witha bottle of whine . luckily enough a guardian angel wa swatching me because i puked up a tiolet bowl full of pills. She called and called and cried and I let her know she didn' thave a right to speak to me after everything she had done to me. Your answer is this if you want her. First of all be true to your self know for sure its whta you want. what I loved about my cappy . was her sense of humor her good looks . they way we joke. We had a sense of saftey between us and she dosed the affectin on me . It came naturally . I missed the days we were apart . What ends it for me with this was that she had given me somthing I had never had befor . She gave me sanctuary and love. I had never had that and that was theesscence of us , saftey comfort laughter and love. When she did what she did she split it down the middle . i could never trust her again. That is when I knew our relationship could not be revived and was permanantly in the grave.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-77478647311520311462008-07-18T00:05:00.000-04:002008-07-18T00:05:00.000-04:00I am a Capricorn female who has been involved with a Leo male (what a job that's been) for one year. It is true in saying that we Capricorns try extremely hard to make a relationship work. We give it 200% plus because we want to make sure when we analzye that it is time to end the relationship we have no regrets. I agree we do give our mates warnings; we try and communicate with them to work with us. However, when we Capricorns have exhausted all of our efforts and see that the relationship is not progressing then we slowly process that individual out of our lives. Capricorns are very perspective; we are highly intuitive and see through bullshit. Also, when we are done, we are done! It takes Capricorns a long time to recover from a broken heart but once we heal there is no way in hell we will put ourselves in harms way to be made out of a fool again. I love being a Capricorn because we are unique beings that genuinely love from the heart. We must have someone who is consistent, open minded, romantic, hard working, affectionate, humorous, kind and loving. A person who doesn't play cat and mouse games with our feelings. P.S. Capricorn females are not to be forgotten; that is why our ex's always seek us out again because we are truly one of a kind.Lynnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00102313396789406776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-87281134873798342412008-07-15T13:34:00.000-04:002008-07-15T13:34:00.000-04:00I swear to the heavens above that she is NEVER soming back. Let's just hope she doesn't hate you to boot.Saturn's Little Plutonianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10929910572001059984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-65674206541843182572008-07-14T16:04:00.000-04:002008-07-14T16:04:00.000-04:00Is this spam?Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-36085161783798622812008-07-14T14:03:00.000-04:002008-07-14T14:03:00.000-04:00If you are looking for compatibility articles on any two star signs, just go to google and type in both signs like this:<BR/>CAPRICORN MALE PISCES FEMALE<BR/>You will have more articles than you can imagine!<BR/><BR/>Here is one to start:<BR/><BR/>http://www.dressking.com/horoscope/Pisces-Capricorn.htm<BR/><BR/>Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-54960146917601768532008-07-14T13:57:00.000-04:002008-07-14T13:57:00.000-04:00*Advice* for a CAPRICORN MAN in love with a PISCES FEMALE:<BR/><BR/>-share your feelings with her (she needs to hear them to feel reassured)<BR/>-try your best to make her feel special - your words are just as important as your actions<BR/>-tell her you love her, but only if you really do<BR/>-listen to your heart and not always think with your head<BR/><BR/>There are so many things a Pisces woman loves and admires about a Capricorn man, but only when she feels adored and cherished will she feel completely satisfied. <BR/><BR/>Pisces need time and space to think. They retreat to collect their thoughts and are often overwhelmed by emotion. Pisces women have very idealistic (think fairy tale) ideals of how romance should be. It is hard for them to stick with one romance for a long time if it isn't fulfilling her emotional needs. And what she needs is ROMANCE, ROMANCE, ROMANCE!<BR/><BR/>I hope this helps!<BR/><BR/>I'm a Pisces female :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-38024098758504390762008-06-22T19:35:00.000-04:002008-06-22T19:35:00.000-04:00I am a cappy,<BR/>and Ive been in love on/off with a pisces female for roughly 5 years.<BR/>I can be very choosy bout which women I like and date, but she's managed to be on my top list of what or who i most desired pretty consistently.<BR/>I can be pretty rigid and by-the-book on how i approach romance,<BR/>and sometimes scare her away.<BR/>Mind you, (through words only)-as us Caps can be pretty big jerks when we feel hurt.<BR/>The problem tends to be she can be quite the handful, and not very honest at times-and us CAPS are perseptive-SO i see right through-and this causes srious friction.Further compunded by the pisces method of resolving conflict-running away.<BR/>I cannot find many stories on a Cap-Pisces relationship, but I feel it(and her) to be the MOST rewarding times TAKING place in my life.Can anyone(perhaps even female pisces)-TELL ME what I SHOULD know appealing to a pisces? what does it take to SHOW them you mean business-and have meant business for 5 years?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-23229291771070283552008-06-21T14:14:00.000-04:002008-06-21T14:14:00.000-04:00@eves-<BR/><BR/>Your right, the guy seems quite weak willed...that's tough for an Aquarius to handle.<BR/><BR/>I am a double cap with the rest of my 3 personal planets in Aqua....I cannot stand a man who cannot stand on his own...I'd let him go.<BR/><BR/>A.angelineelisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479918211218928173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-56209005394776022792008-06-21T14:03:00.000-04:002008-06-21T14:03:00.000-04:00@ anonymous 4:56<BR/><BR/>My advice is to leave everything through your lawyers. Any man, Capricorn or no, should not be abusive to you...physically, mentally or both in your case.<BR/><BR/>He lied to you, he cheated you and he hurt you way past what I think is repairable.<BR/><BR/>He needs to be alone...your right in feeling bad he needs someone else because he is going to hurt her too and anyone else close to him.<BR/><BR/>My advice is to stay away!!<BR/><BR/>-A. (Double Cappy)angelineelisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479918211218928173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-25773591773763419132008-06-21T04:56:00.000-04:002008-06-21T04:56:00.000-04:00I was with my Capricorn for 26 years and it was a roller coaster ride. After a couple of years he was drinking heavily and became physically abusive. I left him and he wouldn't let it go, he just kept coming back in tears.<BR/>I took him back and he started the same carry on again. His male friends always came first and he was the biggest liar that ever walked the earth. The deceit and lies were unbeleivable. If you told him you loved him there was always consequences, he would always do something to hurt you. It got to the stage where I just stopped telling him for fear of what would happen. He was very sneaky and a thief. Believe it or not we ended up married and would have been married 19 yrs come September. We had been together 26 years in total. His work was his total identity. He was good in bed and it was electric between us. I just found out around Christmas he had someone else....something he told me he would never do to me. He had been working away and I've a sneaking suspicion she's not the first one. He used to go through something like mental breakdowns every now and again and looked as if he went through a Mid life crisis etc. He suddenly went out and got a tattoo started wearing very young guys aftershave mad clothes etc at 46yrs of age. He became very aggressive and was making things up that weren't happening. he knocked me down with his van in the end. took our car and has his girlfriend driving it now. he made love to me very tenderly a few times in January and slept with me on and off up until March....then left to live with his girlfriend. He won't talk to me to sort out house etc. I haven't tried to contact him either for months now so everything done through lawyers. I still feel he will come back for some reason though I'm probably kidding myself. I'm an Aquarian. He lied about having someone else even after she called me twice on my mobile. He said he didn't know what I was talking about. He's with her now and I know she has it all to come. Poor woman. I feel he's still confused but getting on with it anyway because he needs a woman there. Any insight?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-64799225356775505412008-06-06T01:44:00.000-04:002008-06-06T01:44:00.000-04:00I am an aquarius and I have been dumped after some amasing days full of love and sugar with the lame excuse that 1 month is enough for him...His friends thought that I kept him away from them but it was his choice that he wanted to see me instead of them.He is quite weak-willed.Pls an opinion because I want him to come back...Eveshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12753382833728372185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-13699632061192665382008-06-03T00:08:00.000-04:002008-06-03T00:08:00.000-04:00>I told him I'll wait for him for a couple years, he says that if he tries to make this family work one last time and it doesn't it would only be months.<BR/><BR/>So let me get this straight...he's trying to "make this family work one last time" and you'll "wait for him for a couple years"? <BR/><BR/>Sorry, but if my Cappy (or anyone) told me that, I'D be gone. I wouldn't wait around while he's off trying to make it work with someone else. Sorry to say, but this guy doesn't want to be alone. <BR/>He's stringing you along, hoping you'll 'hang in there' til he makes a decision either way. <BR/><BR/>I'd walk away. If it doesn't work out and he truly loves you, he'll be back. If not, he wasn't worth your time, effort or energy.jjinlanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-1743068956997074552008-05-30T15:19:00.000-04:002008-05-30T15:19:00.000-04:00Anonymous 12:06 again...<BR/><BR/>The other thing is him trying to get shared custody of his son with his ex, who is also a Capricorn. I've been reading through all of these, and it actually gave me more hope. Why? Because he has not cut off any ties with me. We're pretty much the same, except calling it a "relationship". I cry all the time, because it's not fair that nothing in our relationship went wrong and we just have soo many exterior forces at work right now. I only hope that one day when things settle down we can be back to that happy place. In the relationship, I've been the one patient, and understanding with everything. Even he has said it himself, that I did everything perfectly, and it's just not the right time for us, but one day it will be. I told him I'll wait for him for a couple years, he says that if he tries to make this family work one last time and it doesn't it would only be months. So, we still see each other daily, we're still in love with each other, and we still have sex. Each and every time we're intimate, he tells me that he loves me. This is a different situation then most break ups, since neither of us broke each other's hearts. Opinions?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-85792261653011033292008-05-29T19:17:00.000-04:002008-05-29T19:17:00.000-04:00It depends on the 'other things'. My Cappie said he still loved me but he loved his religion more. I wasn't willing to join his religion and that was a deal-breaker for him.jjinlanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-27594525261853542422008-05-29T12:06:00.000-04:002008-05-29T12:06:00.000-04:00My Cap and I just split mutually. Not because we want to, because of other things affecting our relationship right now. He says though that he would really like to get back together one day and continue from that good place we have. I believe him, and besides that I'm still in love with him. Am I just foolish for believing that my Cap man will come back to me?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-24509181228755353402008-05-10T18:02:00.000-04:002008-05-10T18:02:00.000-04:00I'm a libra woman in a relationship with a younger Cap man. He's not a typical Cap- he said 'i love you' first. He's very mushy- sends love letters, and always tells me how amazing I am and how much he loves me. I do the same with him, I'm a libra afterall. <BR/>We've been doing a long distance relationship for almost a year- thankfully we are together for 6 mo, apart for a few months, etc. So it's not like we're always apart. <BR/>He is super loyal- freakishly so. Has a better history than me in that department. So I don't worry about him cheating. I worry about doing and saying things that irritate him on an emotional/planning for the future level.<BR/>He's a musician and not sure of anything about his life in the next 6 mo. He says all he knows is that he wants us to find a way to make it work. But I need balance, human connection, and intimacy. We talk every day, but it's not the same as being together. I don't know how long I can wait to be together with no more separation. He's the best person I've ever known, love of my life- yet I'm afraid I'll chuck it out the window b/c it's hard.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-71243950745363136142008-04-04T05:46:00.000-04:002008-04-04T05:46:00.000-04:00i do hope cappies do coem back because right now for me-the indifferent- sound of silence is awful.ive personally not done anything for 2 weeks and have heard nothing.am starting to get very angry that he has ignroed my letter from 2 weeks ago-not said anything towards it-not really bothered to explain or accept ym apology...or even apologise for his behaviour.<BR/>the least id liek to know is where i stand...but maybe thats just it-mayeb the blankign and not replying to my 'pouring my heart out' letter & my text from 2 weeks ago is his way fo saying 'i dont want to talk to you-dont want to say anything to anything-get lost'<BR/>what a mess.<BR/>cant help that i care so much....i just dont like not understanding they whys and whats happening!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-17978251560370686612008-04-02T16:09:00.000-04:002008-04-02T16:09:00.000-04:00I got backtracked to this post...<BR/><BR/>To person who said the following (some no-name person)::<BR/><BR/><I>He probably warned you several times that you were heading in the wrong direction with him and you probably asked why are do you keep repeating the same thing over and over to me....well that was done so when he finally had enough of you not taking him serious and when he decided that he had enough, that he could just go on and when you even thought about asking what went wrong, you would be able to remember the times he kept warning you! I hate to tell you this but he is done!</I><BR/><BR/>It didn't go that way. We were perfect and for some idiotic course of events he had to leave me. I'm not into explaining details, but there were no warnings and there was certainly no lack of respect or commitment in that relationship.ex.bluenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-9470105476153256692008-04-02T15:24:00.000-04:002008-04-02T15:24:00.000-04:00Like I said before Capricorns always come back, thats why there is never a grand exit...they need to leave the door open to come back even if it's a year later. They shut down and ignore because they think they are punishing the one they were with. Reaching out to them is a waste of time, because when they want someone nothing stops them, they will stalk until they are ready to pounce. They leave to see if anything else out there is lucrative for them or to see if there is better. As far as their emotional feelings no they can't handle it if they are so takin with you that they can't walk right. And if they are in law enforcement it's worse!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-19838860132347551812008-04-02T07:04:00.000-04:002008-04-02T07:04:00.000-04:00thanks for that.Taking it out on me is an understatement...any opportunity to cut me down he did, after he put his cards on the table that is (and didnt get the answer he wanted).he always mentioned he hated the fact that i had emotional control over him & hated feeling like he wasnt in control & can't read me etc etc i didnt open up the way i wanted to and should have and then when i did he didnt want to know.the convo we had that evening he pretty much asked me to coem away with him and i wanted to talk it out-but the cancer in me stopped myself -too sacred of the risk but wanted to take it.just didnt communicate it that way.after that he emotionally and physically shut me out and spent the rest of the days snappign, havign a go, everytime i said anything he took offence and cut me down, even innocent and sweet gestures were misread by him as me putting him down and making him feel worthless.im so confused now because after i spent ages sending him a lertter bout how i feel and everything else-ghe just didnt bother.its actually like he hates me.i am not exxagerating when i say he spent the entire time givign em that impression-he cldnt ne near m,e-pushed me away endlessly (we were stuck together for 3 days after that so you can imagine it was awful!)...adn finally when we were away from each other physically/in distance-he completely cut me off.i spent 1 week feeling rubbish for hurting him and trying to talk to him.when i eventually did he was cold abrasive and told me i never hurt him.its been 4 weeks and well nothing. The problem with me is-i just need to understand and have pproper closure so i can move on.and i like to talk things otu properly-both sides and then leave it or make a go of it.he on the other hand refuses to talk/take rtesponsibility/hear me out...i just dont get it.its liek he doesnt care at all.<BR/>i made mistakes-didnt open up when i shld-my cold exterior and playful banter obviously agve him mixed signals that messed him up...he misunderstood all my mixed signals for a sign of nto carign and thinking he wasnt good enough.or well eh thought i thought that when the oppsoite was true.all i was was just too guarded-scared of gettign hurt because i did liek him a lot.fine, i messed up there....but the rest?need some insight.is this what cappys are like when they feel out of control/too vulnerable?im so fed up now but upset and confused too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-52218872095472369292008-04-01T22:10:00.000-04:002008-04-01T22:10:00.000-04:00I was with my Cappy (I'm also Cancer) for 2 years. I knew it was for a limited time because he wanted to rejoin his religion, while I was happy with my spiritual (but non-religious) life.<BR/><BR/>The reason I let go was because he was VERY moody and always put it on me. In other words, when he was mad (not necessarily AT me), he took it out ON me. <BR/><BR/>Sounds (kinda) like what this guy is doing. You're not ready to fall at his feet and it's (in his mind) your fault. He also might be bummed that he's moving, and, instead of 'talking' it out, he's 'taking' it out on you. <BR/><BR/>Just my .02 centsjjinlanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-57257025647164527722008-04-01T17:41:00.000-04:002008-04-01T17:41:00.000-04:00As a Cancer girl-am going through this right now and it's horrid.was seeing a cappy and it was progressing very nicely but beign guarded i kept the defences up (sit is complicated-hes moving to another country shortly & im afraid of gettign attached as it is without that complication)-but still going good until the moment he started emotionally feeling things...and had no clue what on earth i was feeling (i kept it all hidden like a true crab scared of vulnerability)...anyway he said i made him feel like rubbish and was the only girl to ever make him feel not good enough-(he was clearly used to girls chasing and making feelings be known & im hard to get) and then he laid all his cards on the table...and i didnt quite respond as i should (being scared)...needless to say he snapped at me endlessly over the reminign few days together, then blanked my calls till i forcefull got him to spk to me over the phone where he denied beign upset at all by me.he got really defensive...eventually hung up.and now we're just not talking.sent him a long letter telling him my feelings and trying to communicate what i think/feel and why & asking him to talk when hes ready the following day after that convo but nothing other than a simple message sayign thanks for the email and that was that.now have no clue what to do-have resorted to doing nothing in fact-it appears hes cut me off without even explainign why-not even apologising for beign rude to me after the 'emotional conversation'now im angry and upset and he clearly doesnt care at all. what you think?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-17858079467920166602008-03-31T19:22:00.000-04:002008-03-31T19:22:00.000-04:00Are you KIDDING me? My dad (an Aries) is one of the MOST selfish/self-centered people I know. I also have an Aries sister-in-law who I can't STAND!!! lol!<BR/><BR/>I know there is more to a person than a sun sign (rising and moon, etc.) but 'these' 2 people have soured me on the sign.JJinLAnoreply@blogger.com