Comments on Seduction Central: Capricorn men are cold

I can't speak about the Capricorn man, but for me ...

2008-08-30T17:51:00.000-04:00

I can't speak about the Capricorn man, but for me as a Virgo woman dealing with a Capricorn woman. I had to just "figure out" that she cared about me--using deductive logic.

She definitely lacked the ability to express tenderness verbally. Though she had no problem expressing sexually. She always gave the most thoughtful gifts (the kind that let you know that someone's paying attention). And she always waited for me to show up (to any party, event, and even the bus).

She was a very proud person--but she exposed some "weakness" making in making it obvious that she needed me. I knew that was a big deal.

I knew that she loved me, because she risked losing her "respectability" by carrying on in a gay relationship that she felt was forbidden.

In my experience with Caps, love is inferred, not expressed. It's not for everyone. But that expression has a certain kind of beauty--a kind that is never capricious.

As a Capricorn Man, I would suggest patience as th...

2008-08-25T18:13:00.000-04:00

As a Capricorn Man, I would suggest patience as the one true key. When most signs play as children we are the "little adults" often thinking of suicide. So just understand that he is slowly working towards his dream and nothing, and I mean nothing will be right in his life until he succeeds (Financially). Will caps run stray??? - we're men, but there is a sense of loyalty to the ones we feel closest to...we usually are "clearseers" in the sense of dreaming the future before it happens. If a cap man pauses it is cuz he is waiting to see that something greater (usually some sort of providential sign) that says u r the one he was meant to find. Aries should not be with us outside of a unique chart or cuspid situation, it is our pleasure to be with a Taurus/Lucifer/North Star...they are our dream girls (and our daughters), Geminis are our lifelong friends cuz they descend from angels and they still have contact with Capricorn/Saturn/Satan and in some versions of the creation story, they/Geminis are thought to be the true workhorses behind Genisis...Geminis become Sags with age and Caps become Cancers...most cap and geminis should remain friends but as we progress into the Age of Aquarius...the twin and the goat seem to make a better pair then they used to...something about the ever-changing loss of gender identity coming of a new third mid race (they will look like more asiatic versions of hispanics)and all the other signs of the Aqrn age (indie music and movies fk crprtions as the independence of the other saturn child/aqrn makes it's way through...most geminis like that caps will do things with them cuz angels get bored easily...basically the cap takes the place that a Libra should hold...and the angel ppl cheer us up cuz they r sporadic...if a gemini wants to make it work just consider the above, Cancers are our wives and we had the signs Taurus, Virgo, Libra, and Pisces... years ago....she is the original little sister of RA/Leo. She is the lif giver that mixes with our/caps/chronos'/deaths' grim outlook on life... and if anyone ever is curious... Leo/God married our younger brother, Aquarius again life and death mixing... aquarius and leo r both men, caps and cancers are lesbians 4 each other...Leo and Aquarius gave birth to the great I am/Aries, Sag, Scorpio...Gemini was adopted as it was once told to me that when the universe was done being created...Gemini asked to never be bored again as a gift for making the universe, and hence the universe granted him the ability to be born in sentient form. Leos (and Cancers) usually have big or just plain nicely shaped boobs and we like that caps usually like that...we're breast guys cuz that's the part of the body that our sexual opposite cancer rules...the I don't want to make desicions for myself and the I get to sleep with a hottie type of Capricorn usually ends up with a Leo... it is not good or bad it is simply an exchange resposibility for a nice pair of tits to snuggle in. Virgos are great for a cap with a good temperment cuz if not their anal retentive natures and need to argue...piss us OFF!!!! Libras, this is usually a mistake, but if u 2 can make it work... ur better ppl than I am I've tried and failed this particular experiment 3 times, what can I say I like thier well endowed behinds and I find the neutral thinking to be pleasant at first the libra is better suited for the other saturn Aqrius, and we are better suited for the other "venus child" Libra is thought to really belong to Planet-X....I miss all of my Libras...Scorpios are better business partners...they can be too much for us...the women are much more pleasant than Scorpio men...I enjoy female Scorpio company though...their perversity is funny to me....innuendos up the ass...Sag is caps best friend...something about Amalthea (the goat mother) nursing Sag when he was a baby so when Sag was of age and Jupiter gave him our univers as a present he made cap an Astrology Sign...Sag named us after Capriel...the star of loneliness....we fear being alone and that fear controls most of our dickesh behaviour...the fear of failure/not being loved/being used/too much self martyrdom/ adn if being broke are also present in us....these two should remain friends only... but hey sex, love and marriage happen, a lot of first marriages are caps and sags...8 years latter my sag and I are still going together....god it is a lot of work....sags are very supportive (they treat u like there with u for better or for worse/ never cross a sag woman for her man cuz shes in it for the long run and she is not afraid to fight) lovers...I love this in her...she spends too much money for my taste...Caps and Caps we like each other and the women are loaded with male-like linear sense while being feminine and beautiful...either get bored with each other and have ameaningless just for show relationship, or work ur ass off at keeping the relationship fun and whimsical...cap in aqrs....don't let sex rule you....spend time together pursuing refined things...museums, concerts, artwork, fine china and fuck the Aqrus standing up so she can wrap her legs around you and u dont have to take off all of her clothes....she cant wait that long....Pisces, this usually works better for the late december caps as the sag side of them kicks in this also works for controlling caps who find the ditzy qualities of Pisces to be amusing and uplifting...Caps will buy you a mansion, but love making is something that is only understood at the end of our lives and by the way we like older women when we are young because they are not stupid an child like....the female race is Pisces (this is y women like "sparkly" things/ like fishing lures to a fish) and so with age women become Virgos and thereby old women/virgos like cap men at any age, but it is only when caps are old and have become Cancers that the Young Women and their Pisces energy are attracted to us...Ben Franklin was yelled at for all of his misdealing with young girls as the intermediary between us and France. So if he is good he will be faithfull with age, but G-ddamn while most party in youth, we work 2 jobs so if we are bad right befor we die....give us a break...this is the only lust we will ever truly know... Post Script if ur another cap and ur reading this ....know ur not alone...others know ur pain....just sing it away litterally just like Elvis, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, Joan Baez, Zach De La Rocha, Jonathan Davis, Robert Cummings/Rob Zombie, Zack Wilde etc...

sometimes cappies are so "confusing" it makes my h...

2008-07-30T13:23:00.000-04:00

sometimes cappies are so "confusing" it makes my head hurt. Let it be known if u do or u don't want something let a female know so she can stop "wasting" her time on a "cold fish" when she could be enjoying a "hot steak" with mash potatoes and gravy. And I mean that in the NICEST WAY possible..... :)$$$

wow my cap man i'm into himI do understand him ver...

2008-07-30T11:37:00.000-04:00

wow my cap man i'm into him
I do understand him very well and he needs special care and treatment
I just love him and accept him as he's never try to change him , until i got his heart easily ....
wow ... he's amazing in romance and showing feelings if only the woman is honest and serious ....
he need from his woman to encourage him how to express and teach him and he loves that , he's the boss but also loves the strong woman
strong in the same time soft woman who understands him very well
best wishes ............

I agree. I could tell very much that my cap is di...

2008-05-03T08:29:00.000-04:00

I agree. I could tell very much that my cap is difinitelly trying to control his feelings. But I have saw him have tears in his eyes when I did not show him love. I will tell him next time I see him that you are so amazing to have a strong will to be able to control yourself and be organized but feelings are not to be controlled but to be felt and that he should accept that and to express it. I realize that we are different than I have imagined. I am the type that cannot hide my feelings. In fact I never try to because I just believe that not saying your feelings is like lieing. As a gemini I say my feelings every minute. But it is hard to do so when I am with him. He does not show his feelings so it makes me hard to show my feelings and then we end up being dry. He is very expressive in bed is which is becomming stressful for me because it makes me think that all he wants is just sex. And so I don't show any love and then he has tears in his eyes. Geez when it comes to love seems like I have to be his mother or something lol. But over all in this relationship he has control he is stronger and wiser and responsible and it's very attractive to me that I feel like I am in a cage. I feel caged because I love freedom and because I am trying to be more acceptable for him meaning being more responsible and mature and organized and timely and I feel like I am a bird in cage. I feel like I need more air all the time. But it is what I have chose. They say that Geminis and Capricorns are very hard to accomplish a long term relationship but when it works it is worth all the effort. This is why I am trying so hard. I believe that happiness comes from hard work. And maybe true love does too. Now I always feel like I always said the wrong response. And another thing I am worried about is he is very attractive and he could and probablly has many woman more attractive than me wanting him. But it seems that Capricorn people choose a partner that are less attractive than them because they want to feel secure and to have the initiative and when they break up they could do it very cold and calculative. They try not to hurt them but. I wonder how capricorn people dump people. They seem to like losers too. Which makes me wonder.. Also they say that Capricorn men date older woman first then when they are rich they will go for younger girls. I don't want to be dumped when I get old... And another thing their calculative mind is sometimes so obvious that its kind of annoying. Geminis are calculative yes but they seem so much more innocent than capricorns. Sometimes I doubt about this relationship, I think I will always have doubts and this makes me think that if I ever be truelly his for long, I will never completely lose myself. I will have another part of me to succeed. And I think a Gemini is capable. ... I hope..

I'm telling you the truth that if you meet a capri...

2008-04-29T22:13:00.000-04:00

I'm telling you the truth that if you meet a capricorn man/boy and can't realize he's just too pussy to feel because feelings is something he can't control and he always wants to be in control of his life, career, and in LOVE its so unpredictable and irrational and its so foreign to this boy/man but tell him to just let himself feel it, cause the more he tries to control it the more it controls him, feelings are meant to be felt not owned or pushed aside, a true evolved capricorn can feel with his mind and think with his heart,

a capricorn man and boy

I'm a gemini and dating a capricorn as well. As I...

2008-04-20T09:57:00.000-04:00

I'm a gemini and dating a capricorn as well. As I am a gemini I was all excited to know someone who is different with me. I went through sites about capricorn and did tons of research. I first wanted to be honest and did not try to be someone else. I was late in dates, cancled often told hes boring and did not openly share intimate thoughts to him. One thing that Geminis like is to talk about all kinds of interesting things and not so much desire in sex it self. However, my cap like all caps likes to watch tv on couch and then hit it to the bed which he seems to be the most youthful and energetic.... We are so opposite we often said. We had a fight and did not see each other for a while but started to see each other again. This time we act so much like not ourselves. I researched so much, I try to dress nicely with expensive things acting like a serious person. In fact I did change while I was not seeing him. I got really serious and mature. I know its not me but Ive learned that I have to look at things from a distance and long term. I needed it since I am like many geminis too child like in a way... And him too he is acting so differently he says that serious topics are boring which I know he is lieing.. he is not so square anymore... I like him more than last time. But now I feel like I want to be myself. I dont think its not good to be someone else. I enjoy sex with him now. He never said that he loved me but he said that sometimes he wished he could make me happy. What do you think that means? We havent gone out for a long time but I just wish that he would commit.. Im restless gemini. Its so hard to wait. I love him but I often question myself do I love him as in capricorn standards, do I really picture myself with him forever and ever? I love him for making me have a mature perspective, be responsible I guess I do. I know how lonley it is to have a man who is strictly on business they seem like half of their mind is some where else. He teaches me things like a teacher I need it . but I ask myself is it love? or is it because i want to improve myself. I dont know what I could do to give him back. perhaps to take him to my meadow with butterflies and birds singing (gemini world) but I worry, what if he wont understand.. what if he thinks thats discusting. For geminis a little flackyness and a little jokes is normal and we could do that and be serious at the same time. We live in different planets which makes me sentimental.. I have to admit noone is perfect and I choose a stable loyal father like man.. Since I dont show him my real me when I am by myself, I am back to myself. He is probably back to himself. When he is with me he is concerned about my feelings. I have to admit we have improved and impressed each other. I think this is a good start. We openly said that we are different and we try to be like the other while we are together but when we are not with each other we have our own free other time. I feel this is such a modern relationship. Please give me advise

So now he finally considers me his girlfriend, and...

2008-04-09T16:16:00.000-04:00

So now he finally considers me his girlfriend, and he admitted in just trying to fool himself that we weren't at that level yet. But heck he picks up my prescriptions and dry-cleaning...Who is he kidding? I'm just all to glad he's owned up to it.

Two days ago, he said the big three word phrase. He told me that he's been wanting to for a while now, but he just wanted to be really sure. But now, I feel like he feels awkward about letting me in more. What's up with that? I will keep on being patient, but that sure as heck threw me for a loop.

Thanks for your input Jeff! I think his "fears" a...

2008-03-20T00:40:00.000-04:00

Thanks for your input Jeff! I think his "fears" about commitment, is more because he's only ever been in long term relationships, and he was hoping on being single for a while. Then we happened, and it's not part of his plan.

@linkinrocks, Caps often show love more through do...

2008-03-19T16:28:00.000-04:00

@linkinrocks, Caps often show love more through doing than talking. As for "seriously dating with potential" -- being cautious is one attribute of this sign. You may want to carefully explore with him his fears about deepening his commitment with you.

I've heard that Capricorn men are very cold. At t...

2008-03-19T03:09:00.000-04:00

I've heard that Capricorn men are very cold. At times I agree, because my dad is a Capricorn, and he was never good at showing me affection as a child growing up, but he always provided me with everything and anything I could've possibly needed. It's still like that, occasionally, in my teenage years when I broke down and cried he would be affectionate.

I'm now dating a Capricorn man, and at times he confuses me about what he wants. (by the way I'm a Gemini: moon-Cancer and ascendant-Gemini) On the one hand he doesn't want to call me his "girlfriend", but he wants to be monogamous, and he calls it "seriously dating with potential". It's still early so I'm not forcing him to commit, but we have been friends for several years. So come on "seriously dating with potential"?? What does that mean??

Today, he tells me that I've inspired him to want to get a second job so he can save up money to go back to college. He tells me that he wants to be a better man, and step up his game for me. Of course I support his choice for education and furthering his career, I know that it's for the both of us. Even though we'll have less time to spend together in the short run. In the long run, he'll be a better person and that's all I really care about.

The question is what is the key to open thier hear...

2008-02-13T18:22:00.000-05:00

The question is what is the key to open thier heart? They are so hard to understand. I get the body language, the eye contact and all of that, but actually breaking through the wall is hard, what is the key?

Cappies may be cold as the dead of winter they wer...

2007-12-03T18:06:00.000-05:00

Cappies may be cold as the dead of winter they were born in, but remember how warm and cozy Christmas is if you can get indoors next to that crackling fire.

Yes, they do have a heart. A woman just needs to find the key to open that door and get in. Otherwise dig a hole in the nearest snowdrift 'cause she'll be sleeping there.

Yes! Capricorn men are cold.. I'm a Libra (moon-Sa...

2007-11-07T15:01:00.000-05:00

Yes! Capricorn men are cold.. I'm a Libra (moon-Sagittarius and ascendant-Libra) and I've been with a Capricorn (moon-Aquarius and ascendant-Libra) for nearly 10 years. At the beginning of our relationship I felt that he was very special for me. But soon after it started to feel like he was kind and gentle but no fun and passionless. I felt like if he didn't get excited about having sex with me and etc. And it sometimes still feels the same. I tried to talk to him about it - It looked like he found it difficult. On the other hand he's very hardworking, honest, loyal, generous and makes me feel very secure, and I still think he's very special for me. Maybe that's why I couldn't leave my Capricorn when I fell for a Gemini (moon-Leo ascendant-Gemini) a year ago. I almost did everything to not to get involved with the Gemini who also fell for me - it was like if we were soul mates and his sweet talk and passion open new channels in me. Now he's (Gemini) got a girl friend and I'm still with my Capricorn but still can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I will never... I wish I could have made my mind up then because this way it's very upsetting..

My sexy Capricorn, is married to someone else.He f...

2007-10-23T02:20:00.000-04:00

My sexy Capricorn, is married to someone else.
He found her long ago, and ruined our relationship.
Now he thinks she's the one for him, but in my heart I know he belongs to me.
He showed me several times that he wants to be with me.
His wife is on his business, so I'll need more than luck to reel in this BIG fish.

Unfortunately, he just had a son with her.
He's still giving her all my love and I'm hatin' it.

Since I'm a Scorpio of course I don't want ANYONE getting somehing I know truly belongs to me.
I'm so sad I could cry everynight.

They show love by buying you expensive gifts but t...

2007-04-14T16:28:00.000-04:00

They show love by buying you expensive gifts but they are like tokens of love, not real. Their icy armor gets annoying FAST. I found the capricorn I dated to be icy cold and passionless in and out of bed and when I asked him why he was interested in me he said it was was my chest size. It was a short relationship and I ended it.