Comments on Seduction Central: Aquarius Pisces mismatch

Here's one for you - I am Sun in Pi, Leo moon, ven...

2008-07-08T12:31:00.000-04:00

Here's one for you - I am Sun in Pi, Leo moon, venus in Pi with an Ascendent in Cap. Go figure, and ambitious Pisces woman... my man is 9 days older than me - Aqu Sun, moon in Aq, Venus in Pi and Asc in Libra... The perfection comes from the way we perfectly compliment one another's inner tendencies... he's a brainiac, and although I am smart and ambitious I don't have the overwhelming emotional dramatics... He's in love with my whackyness, my off-beat sense of humor, and believe it or not he has a lot of respect for my inner strength... I'm not a wishy-washy Pisces... The thing I love about my Aq man is how emotionally intelligent he is, which stems from his insatiable need for knowledge... yes... he's a brainiac... I struggle to keep up with him mentally, but sometimes I can totally baffle him with one of my other-world philosohies or points of view... He just shakes his head and says "WHAT? Where did you come up with THAT?" and then he smiles amusingly and kisses my forehead - and tells me he adores me... It's my weirdness that brings out his protective, nurturing side... he's a father and now that they're growing up he's turning that need to nurture a fragile creature on me... AND I LOVE IT!!!! If I REALLY want to find out how he feels, I get him drunk... he's open up happily to analyze the world of our relationship... we do it covertly though... by talking about our "friend's relationships"... when secretly we BOTH know it always relates back to us... Mysterious, and covert... that's what this relationship seems to be all about... and we are phenominal in bed... VERY intense... I love the fact that he travels ALOT for work... while he's away I go off and do my own thing with my friends, or with my projects... when he returns it's like a honeymoon all over again... A key moment in our relationship was when he was sick and throwing up. I simply put my hand on his back to let him know I was there. It blew him away. When he finished he wanted to know why I came in there, and I simply said that I didn't want him to be alone, and I wanted to make sure he was okay... suddenly, he's letting me in - closer than ever before... With the Aqua man... the key is to give him the most pleasant and memorable times when he's with you... when he moves away you will still be there. They fall in love in absence... and when they come back you need to be the same sweet, accepting Pisces that he's been fantasizing about while gone. To do this you must be a strong, mature Pisces... with a life of your own... remain aloof and mysterious and distant yourself... but very happy to see him when he's with you... and he will NOT be able to resist you...

Ivette, I have to say that I am blown away by your...

2008-06-18T12:54:00.000-04:00

Ivette, I have to say that I am blown away by your artfully written thoughts. I am an aquarius woman married to a pisces man also, and your description is phenomenal, so true that it is scary. I have to say I have been reading up on pisces/aquiarius relationships because I have been struggling with my own rebellious nature for some time. Some days I feel trapped, some days I feel vulnerable, other days I get annoyed. I have been wondering if I should give it all up and find something easier. Your post has taken my breath and heart away, and has rekindled hope in me that it will work out. I must realize that getting to the aquarian heart is a difficult task, and should not be given up for fickle fantasies, no matter how easy that is for us water bearers. I just want to say thanks for helping me find balance and beauty in the spiritual bond we have, even though it is not easy. It is funny how you said that he is strong enough to say no, and that is something we need as strong-willed aquarius women, stability, insight, guidance, heart and depth. Pisces, although a rollercoaster ride of self-loathing, depression and confusion, is sometimes just what the doctor ordered. p.s we both have our venus in aries. yet our moon signs and rising signs clash aries/pisces, and libra/scorpio....

I am aquarius born feb 4 69 an he is pisces born m...

2008-05-19T22:43:00.001-04:00

I am aquarius born feb 4 69 an he is pisces born march 8 61, All I can say is that I feel calm, peaceful serenity from him. I see awareness and clarity, when I see him, meaning it comes from him. I also see an amazing ability to be very honest and truthful, introspective and very intuitive! He sees in me, the rule breaker, high energy, a doer, kind, giving and generous, maybe more. Astrology has something to do with whether or not a relationship is going to work, but so does e_perience and culture. For e_ample, as an aquarius, I am not suppose to like to be kept close, but I am from a culture where that is part of the relationship...to nurture with warmth and security and more. I am a latin woman, and although I am not subservient like my mom, I see the importance in taking care of my man, in the same way many woman, older woman of my culture do. I also see in my partner, this trait (wanting me by him all the time and doing things with me all the time) in the older men of my culture. I find it very cool! The other thing is I am suppose to grow and obtain all kinds of goals and objectives with stability. My pisces man offers me a world of stability. I am independent and strong willed. My pisces man is strong enough to say no, which is what I need! I have never ever been romanced like this ever! or have ever had the words taken out of my mouth, ever! So I welcome the intuitive read that my partner has on me. He knows me better than I know myself and knows what it is I need, even when i don't. He pulls me out of focused and concentrated work binges...he is able to do this. The energy I feel, even when I don't touch him is amazing!! The intimacy and passion is amazing!!! In my thirteen years of marriage to another aquarius there was always detachment and never ever any real truth. I am creative on multiple levels, so is my pisces man. I admire him for his patience and tenacity and way with children and animals. I enjoy what he enjoys, naturally. We don't have to talk to fill in air space....we flow naturally together. There is no ego, on my part or his. I would like to think of myself as a spiritual Aquarian. I recognize that I can be more compassionate, where as before I wasn't. I was brute, and blunt without giving a crap about everyone elses feelings. I am not like this anymore. I am accepting, non judgemental and non critical. Much of my spiritual journey has alot to do with the connection I have with my partner. It is beautiful and amazing! so...you see astrology is good for somethings, yes....but where you are at in life and what you want and where you have been will say alot about whether or not your relationship is going to flourish or die. I don't think this one is going to die-as long as the respect is always there, we don't take each other for granted,live life in an appreciative manner and take care of each others true being-it will be worth the journey.

I am aquarius born feb 4 69 an he is pisces born m...

2008-05-19T22:43:00.000-04:00

I am an Aquarian girl married to a Pisces guy. I...

2008-04-20T18:50:00.000-04:00

I am an Aquarian girl married to a Pisces guy. I have to say that I always hear that I am not affectionate. I tell him I love him all the time but I am definately not touchy feely. I am very analytical and I thought the agent smith comment was hilarious.

I sadly must say that although I have been in my relationship for 4 years and married for 2 is has been a very volatile relationship. We either get a long great or can fight over the stupidest things.

Also Pices lie for no reason whatsoever and that does not make sense to me. they never say what they mean. Honesty and trust don't seem to be high on their list. Of course this might be just my man.

Oh yeah, and for the record, I really do find the ...

2008-04-15T15:00:00.000-04:00

Oh yeah, and for the record, I really do find the smell of humans revolting.

Just the smell tho, all the other stuff about them is so adorable! With the little cars and the little iPods and the status and the vegans. Awwww

>My first love was a pisces it was a very loving P...

2008-04-15T14:58:00.000-04:00

>My first love was a pisces it was a very loving PASSIONATE relationship. Sex was COSMIC. He's the only lover I've spent 10 hours in bed with.

I think my ONLY love was a pisces. And I'll never do it again.

I met her my second week of college and by saophomore year we were, as you said, a famous "unit" as a couple. The emotions were the most intense feelings I'd ever known, the sex was mindblowing and theraputic... We would sometimes stare into each other's eyes, the sparks of our mingling auras and bursting hearts bringing us to actual tears. We hardly needed words.

And that's why it f*king sucked! Somewhere in the third year I started to realize that I was her entire life and that was way too much responsibility. I started being drawn more to going out, mingling and pushing her to have her own life. She always wanted to stay in, burn one down and have a night of sex and conversation.

We were drawn in different directions. I don't need to tell you how it all ended, but I lost a best friend in the process too.

I won't say it's impossible, my fellow aquas. But unless you two are EXCEPTIONALLY well matched, in ways that go beyond mere love, I'd be incredibly careful.

*laughsi dont know if i like the neo/agent smith a...

2008-03-13T21:30:00.000-04:00

*laughs

i dont know if i like the neo/agent smith anology, but i have so say...

well i'm a pisces with a moon in gemini. and i love an aquarius. it was effortless in the beginning because we were basically curious of each other. so everything was pretty much innocent. i blew him away with my otherwordly sensibilty and he made me felt safe and understood. a very humorous man indeed...and as careful as i was and i really thought i was the only one feeling the love till out of the blue he told me 'i love you' and this apparently must be a big deal because from what im finding out it isnt easy for an aquarius to admit such things? a lot has happened since then, but he dissapeared to only reappear to proclaim leaving me was a big mistake and he felt like he coulndt continie without me.
i love dearly, but i dont know what to think of him time to time. he can be detached and withdrawn and then intimately open up to me about his inner most secrets, his hot then cold attitude would drive me mad, but then i find myself wanting him badly...ugh im very emotional.

he is a cusp i believe a aquarius/pisces

...im not sure how our relationship would unfold but i feel he could change his mind out of the blue and i wont even know what hes up to.

I'm an aquarius girl, and I'm currently dating a p...

2008-03-03T07:28:00.000-05:00

I'm an aquarius girl, and I'm currently dating a pisces, i agree with people who say aquarians dont fall inlove "head over heels".but in my case i dont know how its different. i've loved my this person for 7 whole years and in those years he didnt seem to notice me which, broke my heart eventually and made me believe that i am worth nothing and ugly.but last year we met and he fell inlove with me. i never thought that after 7 years of delusion and heart break i'd be willingly happy to love him again, we are different becouse i love freedom and he is really childish.

and even though he is naggy and so damn sensitive at any thing i say and do, always digging for inner meanings and complaints, i still am attracted to him, and love him madly, but i am afraid that one day i will get fed up of the sensless fighting over little things such as "why did u get out of the house without telling me" or "you dont love me as much as i do".

its been almost a year we are together and he wants me to be with him forever, as a typical pisces always looking for an ever lasting soul-mate. but i'm scared that my aquarius attitude soon will ask for the exit and escape from this web of complex, intence and passionate, relationship.

the happiest day was when he told me he loved me, even though i loved him since i was 11, and he only loved me this year I'm OVERWHELMED by this relationship, he was my first true love and i wouldnt give him up for anything.

any advice for a detached intellectual, who loves an obsessed romantic pisces?

I am a pisces woman in a relationship with an aqua...

2008-02-20T01:08:00.000-05:00

I am a pisces woman in a relationship with an aquarius guy and I'm grappling with his detachment and my need for affection. (we are 3/7/79 3:41pm and 2/7/79 if that makes a difference?). While he is good at "showing" affection, after a year it drives me up the wall that he cannot say he loves me. Furthermore, anytime I try to vocalize (and unfortunately, start to cry) my issues and ask for any words of encouragement/feedback from him he LITERALLY IS SPEECHLESS. I get NOTHING. He cares, and is patient enough and will sit with me until I come up with a solution (once I told him he should ask me to not give up on him yet, and he complied - and to my amazement, cried a bit) but I wonder how long this can go on. I love him, we have fun, the sex is great, and we are otherwise compatible...we just can't talk serious stuff. It may help us that I'm a scientist (and as such, don't quite understand why I want to believe in astrology!), but I need my emotional connection too. Any insight? Thanks

I am a Pisces Woman, and I dont know what it is ab...

2008-01-25T06:14:00.000-05:00

I am a Pisces Woman, and I dont know what it is about Aquarious Men that attracts me everytime. Tho it really bothers me how they are easily annoyed, and want to be to themselves. Aquarian make the best Bed buddies I have ever encounterd. Only encountering 2 in my 26 yr old life, I find myself always remembering those great times I shared with them. If I could merge Aqaurious Sex with a Taurus I would be in love! lol!

am a Piscean having a relationship with an Aquaria...

2008-01-24T01:57:00.000-05:00

am a Piscean having a relationship with an Aquarian man, and I have to laugh my tummy out for the sarcastic definition towards Aquarian there; I experienced most of it.

I agreed too with the extremes you can get from an Aquarian. When he's 'nice' you feel like he's the best guy for you and the relationship is so perfect and great. But when he's in the 'not-nice' mood, you feel like you're trapped with the worst man in the world and wondering why you stay with this man.

This is especially hard for me, a Piscean who is sensitive and value this relationship so much. I feel being taken for granted because most of the time it is me who initiated the meeting and others (I don't ask too much I think; only a once a week meeting and if the situation permits, conversation over messenger/phone/SMS at night after office hour). I think I give him enough freedom, and I don't think it's too much to ask a special favor from him once in a very while -- which turned out to be a disappointment, oh yeah...

I still love him and I think he still has the good characters for this relationship. But I really a need an insight on how can I, a Piscean, work out this relationship with this typical Aquarian man? Appreciate any help.

Don't thank me, thank Sailor Neptune! She's got a...

2008-01-21T14:14:00.000-05:00

Don't thank me, thank Sailor Neptune! She's got a good one for every sign in the grand zodiac and she doesn't spare any punches at Pisces either (even though she's a native). Boy there's some real talent on these sites, like who needs to pay a therapist when you can just come on here for a dose of whatever-it-is-you-need-to-get-over-it ;)

haha, that seemed a bit harsh, but I did actually ...

2008-01-21T04:57:00.000-05:00

haha, that seemed a bit harsh, but I did actually agree with some of that. I constantly experienced the empty promises thing first hand. Thanks for tryin to cheer me up, it worked for the time being

BTW, the gifted blogger who wrote this enlightenin...

2008-01-20T23:06:00.000-05:00

BTW, the gifted blogger who wrote this enlightening essay happens to be a Pisces.

OK, well here's what one blogger had to say about ...

2008-01-20T23:03:00.000-05:00

OK, well here's what one blogger had to say about Aquarius for what it's worth . . . very cute actually, and I can relate, not being fond of Aquarians myself ;) They are rather cool customers if you ask me, and too easily annoyed.

"Aquarius - The Water-Bearer"

"Intractable, contrary, perverse, unpredictable, unemotional, detached. If you tell a Aquarius the sky is blue, he will swear it's yellow and try to back it up with a bunch of intellectual mumbo-jumbo.

Over-Bearers like to imagine they are smarter than they really are when in fact, they are just weird. They have some of the strangest habits and you never know what to expect from them. They are first-class know-it-all's and if they happen to have the facts mixed up (like they always do) they will argue how right they are and you'll agree just to get them to shut up.

They love the past and the thought of the future and tend to miss out on things because they are thinking and it's usually about nothing. Famous for making empty promises, do not take the word of an Aquarius if you don't have to. They don't do it purposely. They just have so much going on in their minds, that they forget.

They are also perverts and quite deviant and some say it's because of how smart they are but that's crap. They are just perverted. Don't expect any type of emotion or shows of affection from them because you won't get it. You'd be better off fishing with a fork.

When you know one, expect them to tell you lots of useless information and if you allow it, they will drone on. If you end up feeling like you could take that fishing fork and putting it in your eye, you're not alone.

If you want to really aggravate an Aquarius or make them go away, cry buckets or back up your statements with undeniable, proved facts. They aren't built to handle that."

I hope this humours you out of your current state of sadness. There's plenty more fish in the sea . . .

nope, my rising is cancer and I've never been with...

2008-01-20T16:26:00.000-05:00

nope, my rising is cancer and I've never been with a scorpio

Are you the same Pisces with the Leo rising who is...

2008-01-20T07:42:00.000-05:00

Are you the same Pisces with the Leo rising who is the expert on f'ing over Scorpios?

I'm a pisces with the moon in gemini and venus in ...

2008-01-19T21:04:00.000-05:00

I'm a pisces with the moon in gemini and venus in pisces. I just came out of a relationship with an aquarius sun, aquarius moon, venus in capricorn.

Our relationship was wonderful, we were always remarking to eachother about how we were on the same page, and he told me on many occasions that he felt I was the only person that actually understood him and where he was coming from. I felt he understood me pretty well too, or at least really tried. He was always very patient and understanding. We also had great conversations, as he was extremely intelligent and out there, and I was open to possibility and always curious about what he had to say. He was extremely affectionate and quite open to me about his feelings and such, contrary to so many things I've heard about aquarians. Our relationship just ended because I found out he cheated on me, and the only thing I ever asked of him was to not do that. It wasn't the cheating so much as it was he knew I really hated that and he couldn't respect what I cared about enough to not do it. I fear I'll never find somebody I adored as much as him.

I am an Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, with Venus i...

2007-12-25T05:44:00.000-05:00

I am an Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, with Venus in Pisces. As an aquarius I can say that our intellectual framework is very important to us in that we spend our whole lives consciously working on it, and even look to it for guidance in matters of the heart. We don't so much "adapt" to people and situations like the watery pisces, but calibrate ourselves to them (sometimes awkwardly at first) using our collection of experiences and built-up stores of knowledge, which gives us the capacity to surprise you. By the way, we don't feel affection for people so much as engineer it's outward signs in order to lubricate that social exchange. Affection is still a very real thing for us, but it's more of a figurative bond than a tangible inner warmth that most people seem to experience. At least for me. Sorry, just being honest =) At times I think my lover is the only one who truly understands me! Yes, sex with Pisces can make one forget about the passage of time.

Perhaps you have a strong aspect to Neptune.

2007-10-12T16:29:00.000-04:00

Perhaps you have a strong aspect to Neptune.

lol, the chiches! but they are always based on tru...

2007-10-12T16:24:00.000-04:00

lol, the chiches! but they are always based on truth, i think. lol, i am a lady of an aquarian sun, libra moon, rising virgo? them apples? they are... they are. lol, but what was i going to even say? this was it; i was not born emotionally detached, i had to learn to be that way, and i clung to it. raised by a leo, i was called a vrybaby, a punk, and plenty of thigs that you simply do not call a child. i mean, other kids would call me crybaby, but a mother? well, i refused to cry, it tok me years. i was the most emotional, sensitive person imaginable. if i ever said an unking word, it would stick with me like hot super glue; i still remember things i did as a very, very small child, that, objectively, are things that are no big deal, and tey are also few, such as three. simple things like, when someone would ask for 'a chip' and i would give one; early selfishness, i suppose. it makes me feel horrible. stupid things.

but you see, i was a very sensitive person, who would cry over others' misfortunes, just as well as my own. i am still more concerned with others' well-being than my own. but perhaps i lacked the streinght to *feel* anymore when i was abused for it for so long? surely, i can be blamed, but i will put it to my youth.

Pisces is hardly followable. Maybe you've got some...

2007-10-12T16:03:00.000-04:00

Pisces is hardly followable. Maybe you've got some in you ;)

This is very interesting, indeed. =]lol, i really ...

2007-10-12T15:56:00.000-04:00

This is very interesting, indeed. =]
lol, i really must object your unfair analogies with my sign! agent smith? heaven above! (or everywhere) lol, this is pretty cool, i'm sure: but what of those aquarians who lie with pices and aquarians alike? what if i think reality is bendable, and has only to do with what one will and wont believe, which is to see? or maybe i simply confuse and that's okay, too. in any case, is what you say the way it is, or opposite (or is anything the way it is? or is it or it is what?) for the age of pices is supposedly before that of aquarius, and so what would make since to come first? or are they, in actuality, merged after all? if pisces merges so, why not? an f aquarius detaches, why not from limitations, or doubt, or something less thouchable, and merge after all? or perhaps i will read this over and judge that this is hardly followable. but then again, i might not.

I am an aquarian and my boyfriend pisces. we are d...

2007-09-28T17:19:00.000-04:00

I am an aquarian and my boyfriend pisces. we are different but yet so alike its mind blowing - its like we re one - whenever i think of him hes there - either he calls or messages me - the same with me - its something incredible- there is something innately in us that transcends oneness. our souls are one and we feel that way.

Xari