tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post2542460385309818299..comments2008-07-01T14:18:30.608-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-89562503774351063482008-07-01T14:18:00.000-04:002008-07-01T14:18:00.000-04:00I had a cancerian boyfriend and the only way to get him to propose, was when i got tired and dumped him. But it was too late i felt in love with another man (a leo one) and i`m happily engage right know.Maria Cristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00327218220330409130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-26236595957225049642008-05-23T13:11:00.000-04:002008-05-23T13:11:00.000-04:00I actually tried very hard to get my cancerian fling not to propose- I was already feeling smothered. But I got pregnant and that was all she wrote. He's definitely a family man and would not leave me alone once he found out I was carrying his child. I was seven months pregnant when I finally gave in and said yes to his marriage proposal. We've been happily married for 8 years now, despite his smothering tendencies.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-45590786434358758762008-05-17T15:17:00.000-04:002008-05-17T15:17:00.000-04:00Wow everyone had a lot to say! My 'cancer' is a taurus with his moon in cancer, and Im a libra with my moon in scorpio...and I have to admit, the whole 'possessive' thing is strong. But Im also extremely possessive, so I LOVE it. He cant get another of me, and I cant get enough of him. Its almost too intense at times, but we lived together after two weeks of dating and have been together ever since. <BR/><BR/>He definitely wants me to go with everywhere, but its nice to feel included. I know his family really well and have practically lived with them, so its understandable when there becomes problems. I think the biggest problem is they want thier relationship to be an extension of the family, and they find no problem with having them all at one moment. I am naturally jealous and dont like people who interfere. But luckily his parents are not too pushy and interfering and suprisingly his mother is an aries, and has never butted into our relationship, mostly stood by and gave help when needed. But he mother thing can be a good or bad experience...it just depends on how you look at it...because it wont change. You cant change it. <BR/><BR/>Probably the reason he isnt proposing is a trust issue first, or definitely the mother side of things. He definitely needs to know if you are going to be a good mother. Mine actually said this to me in exact words. "I dont know if you would make a good mother. Its important for me to know that you would be a good mother to any children we would have." Simple as that. Respect it! Wouldnt you think the same of him as a father? I certainly wouldnt rush into a marriage without thinking about these all important factors. Everyone wants to know thier spouse is a good mother or father. It's absolutely fair. I would give him lots of hints, but mostly be comfortable and supporting...because he NEEDS it.Sarahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-80714169493991092132008-04-30T14:20:00.000-04:002008-04-30T14:20:00.000-04:00hey Anon who posted the same question on three different Cancer posts: this is kind of spammy. Maybe you should try the forum or go to Ask Jeff a Question.Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-39911848985443219482008-04-30T11:49:00.000-04:002008-04-30T11:49:00.000-04:00HIM: <STRONG>Sun:</STRONG> Cancer ---<STRONG>Mercury:</STRONG> Cancer ---<STRONG>Venus </STRONG>Leo ---<STRONG>Mars</STRONG> Sagittarius<<BR/><BR/>ME: <STRONG>Sun</STRONG>: Scorpio ---<STRONG>Mercury</STRONG>: Libra <BR/> ---<STRONG>Venus</STRONG> Scorpio (oh Ya) ---<STRONG>Mars:</STRONG> Libra <BR/><BR/>My kids are grown, he has none. Two months in, tells me he never wants to get married again. Has not even said he cares. We see e/o every day and talk 2-3 times a day <BR/><BR/>What is up with this guy? Does he care? Why would he tell me marriage is off limits is so many words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-31539473647119575172008-04-03T22:31:00.000-04:002008-04-03T22:31:00.000-04:00to the taurus in a relationship with a cancer man for almost 3 yrs, im a aries, for almost three years,i also was in a relationship with a cancer man. all the things you described, i also went thru, beautiful at first, almost unreal, but then it turned quickly into control, the need for constant attention, jealousy, manipulation, and constant lies. he had seven children in his previous marriage and then some all over the place ,even out of town. we lived together, finally i had to ask him to leave due to all of of the above that was making my life miserable, but also, he was seeing someone else and was denying it. a month ago we broke up i couldnt handle any of it anymore.he still calls me every day and if i dont answer he tries to stop by ,but i could never go back to that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-77989926585515662502008-03-15T20:38:00.000-04:002008-03-15T20:38:00.000-04:00My boyfriend is a Cancer on the Cusp of Leo. This much I CAN say. Whatever you do, never try to keep secrets from them. It's spooky how my boyfriend knows the things he does. It's like they sense things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-1732857668267161582008-02-07T02:06:00.000-05:002008-02-07T02:06:00.000-05:00I guess so! Most guys have crummy jobs and most girls are fat.Cheeky 2Xnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-43419334430876430292008-02-07T00:42:00.000-05:002008-02-07T00:42:00.000-05:00Cheeky 2X -- doesn't that apply to us all? Hey, I'm just saying...Leg Crossing Aheadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-54433549417894352432008-02-06T21:20:00.000-05:002008-02-06T21:20:00.000-05:00Make sure he keeps his job and don't get fat.cheeky cheekynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-57322971837631560472008-02-06T15:08:00.000-05:002008-02-06T15:08:00.000-05:00I met this wonderful cancer man. He's absolutely the sweetest man I've ever met. Really all I want in a man. This is his chart.<BR/><BR/>Sun Cancer 5.03 <BR/>Moon Capricorn 22.47 <BR/>Mercury Cancer 4.17 <BR/>Venus Gemini 24.37 R <BR/>Mars Gemini 6.32 <BR/>Jupiter Taurus 17.08 <BR/>Saturn Pisces 4.56 R <BR/>Uranus Virgo 6.46 <BR/>Neptune Scorpio 15.18 R <BR/>Pluto Virgo 11.55 <BR/>Lilith Sagittarius 18.15 <BR/>Asc node Cancer 2.06 <BR/><BR/><BR/>Mine is as following:<BR/>Sun in Aries<BR/>Moon in Capricorn<BR/>Mercury in Aries<BR/>Venus in Aries<BR/>Mars in Sagittarius<BR/>Jupitur in Virgo<BR/>Saturn in Aries<BR/>Uranus in Libra<BR/>Neptune in Scorpio<BR/><BR/>We are both affectionate, sensitive, caring and communicative. He's a little bit possesive but in a cute manner. <BR/><BR/>I'm not sure if he will propose soon but my fear is will this synergy last or are there any signs if you look at our birth chart that tell you no way this is not way that's going to work in a marriage<BR/><BR/>Jeffrey what are the challenges for a future marriage?astro girlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-71513593794451626372008-01-02T16:41:00.000-05:002008-01-02T16:41:00.000-05:00My crabby wabby hunny hubby(yes, he is very much a cancerian man)proposed after a month of dating.we were having an intimate conversation and I told him I couldnt imagine life without him, and that was it...traditional for sure!! he got down on one knee and said it would make him the happiest man in the world if I would become his wife.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-8441218174973797852007-11-20T21:18:00.000-05:002007-11-20T21:18:00.000-05:00I've been with my cancerian man for about 3 years, i am a taurus..for all you girls out there i must say they are the easiest men to get attached and wanna be with you forever. it felt great at first, more than i could ever ask for in life...very intimate, would do ANYTHING for me, cant live without me for a SECOND. but if you ask me now! im sick of it...his defense is that no one would ever love me more...and i believe that...but his disadvantages are that he depends on me wayyyy tooo much..not that he asks me to do things for him, but be sure he would manipulate you to feel like he is the victim make you suffer for his miseries and slowly take you down with him if he is depressed or unhappy. and you would be left in the dilemma im left with, cant turn my back on this poor victim that i love very deerly and consider the closest thing to home and family, BUT at the same time, my life turned into hell, as if i already gave birth to the 7 children i never will have!! i cry with him, feed him, have to be sad when he is sad, not allowed to be happy if he is unhappy, jealous of my friends whether they are male or female. if im working on the laptop and its very serious and i need my space its SO OFFENSIVE to him, he'd get jealous and try to distract me in anyway. unhealthy relationship, if you women wanna be the MAN in this relationship then go ahead and go for a cencerian!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-29280583364981075932007-11-03T22:56:00.000-04:002007-11-03T22:56:00.000-04:00the mother thing is true!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-90428841170621073232007-10-07T11:42:00.000-04:002007-10-07T11:42:00.000-04:00I'm an aquarius women married to a cancer and only think I had to say was I leaving. Because, he had another girl call him out of the blue. That I knew he had a relationship with in the past. And I was pissed. Then when I was putting on my shoes. He got down on one knee,with his class ring and asked me. Oh by the way the mother thing,Not so true. He talks to her a lot and tells her everything. But his mom went off on me for no reason and he didnt talk to her for 5 months.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-548735264672713552007-09-24T11:56:00.000-04:002007-09-24T11:56:00.000-04:00hi,<BR/>My fiance is also a cancer the crab (2nd july)and he is the epitomy of a cancerian im a typical Taurus (12 may). Firstly if you want him to propose you have to have his total trust otherwise there is no way he will even go there!! they are extremely cautious and very jealous. My cancer knows instantly if i have been chatting to someone of the opposite sex its really spooky. Secondly you have to be the kind of girl he would be proud to show off to his mom his mom is his world and NEVER criticise her otherwise he will go crazy and be prepared to hear endless stories about dear old mom an dad. Thirdly just give him all your love although its never enough for them coz they are quite demanding in that department give as much as you can because the rewards from your cancerian will be rich. Ladies bag this cancer man quick if your lucky enough to find him they are so loyal and loving and you will be his queen forever :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-14631839744571159262007-05-24T02:16:00.000-04:002007-05-24T02:16:00.000-04:00I asked him to move out.Kimberlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09143661214519991144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-47717290711351620102007-05-24T02:15:00.000-04:002007-05-24T02:15:00.000-04:00threatened to leaveKimberlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09143661214519991144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-78690426229481208682007-03-18T03:33:00.000-04:002007-03-18T03:33:00.000-04:00Hi, <BR/>My fiance is a cancerian. well, were dating for some time then we got very intimate. We made love , and he wants to be the king in bed. I cooked for him.... he liked my cooking a lot...then he asked me to marry him. So, the basic ned for a cancer man is sex and food wih lots of love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com