Comments on Seduction Central: Venus in Love, Mars in Heat

How would you describe Pisces/Pisces combo... or A...

2008-07-02T22:37:00.000-04:00

How would you describe Pisces/Pisces combo... or Aries/Virgo?

Hi Anonymus,thats my problem as well! My Sun in aq...

2008-06-09T05:13:00.000-04:00

Hi Anonymus,
thats my problem as well! My Sun in aquarius, Mars in Aries, Moon in Leo and Venus in Pisces!!!

I am really unhappy about my pisces venus, I totally understand what are you talking about

And I dont know either how to handle it....

@anonymous 11:21My advice....love yourself! ;)Pisc...

2008-06-09T02:31:00.000-04:00

@anonymous 11:21

My advice....love yourself! ;)

Pisces is not the most suffocating sign at all...in fact I've dated lots of piscean men who actually gave my moon, venus and mars aqua tons of space!!

You can't change your chart and you have to realize what you have is your gift...if it makes them uncomfy then you can both work to create a safe place...if not then you need to be with someone who will appreciate it.

I dated a gem with a cancer venus....his moon was in aqua, mars in gem...that cancer was really out of place...but he's learning what he needs and it's a balancing act...thats all!!

One step at a time.

Good luck!!

A.

I am cursed with a Venus in Pisces. Wouldn't be so...

2008-06-08T23:21:00.000-04:00

I am cursed with a Venus in Pisces. Wouldn't be so bad if I were any other sign, but I am an Aquarius, and it makes things very difficult.
With my Mars In Sag and my Aquarius Sun, I go after what I want and am very detatched from anything too emotional, and the only signs that draw me in like flies are Aries, Gemini, and Libra.

They fall in love with me because of my air & fiery qualities, but once they scratch the surface and some time has gone by, that damned Venus in Pisces comes into play, and I find myself willing to walk through fire for them. It's really the most suffocating of all the Venus signs, and it drives every man I know insane (I'm happiest with air signs).

Any advice?

Mars in GeminiVenus in Virgocouldn't be more accur...

2008-05-16T08:38:00.000-04:00

Mars in Gemini
Venus in Virgo

couldn't be more accurate
:S

somehow,i really dont like the fact that i am Venus in Virgo though.

gahhh!

Hi,I'm a Leo gal with Venus in Virgo (7th house cu...

2008-02-01T10:33:00.000-05:00

Hi,

I'm a Leo gal with Venus in Virgo (7th house cusp) and Mars in Scorpio. I'm deeply attracted to a Taurus guy with Venus in Pisces and Mars in Taurus. And in fact he's taking all his time to make a move although I've always felt we were tuned to each other. Can any one tell me what they think of this match? Muchas gracias...

Hello all. Just wanted to add more food for though...

2008-01-21T00:29:00.000-05:00

Hello all. Just wanted to add more food for thought.

Have Aquarius Venus and Pisces Mars here. I can totally see how Jara's descriptions are true. The way I think mine plays out for me is that I tend to look for the more sophisticated and mature woman, who isn't a teeny bopper. If I had to choose between hot-just-out-of-high-school-and-now-legal cheerleader and sexy 30ish businesswoman, there isn't without a doubt I go for the latter. There's nothing to talk about with the cheerleader, and not enough life experience to connect with.
I feel like I am chronically attracted to women older (or more accurately, more mature) than me. But I'm a little immature myself so it doesn't make it a huge step :P
As to how I try to convince the beauties....Pisces Mars is true.

mars in libra: "indirectly pursues object of affec...

2008-01-08T00:43:00.000-05:00

mars in libra: "indirectly pursues object of affection using a classy approach"
Venus in Scorpio: "believes love should be passionate, intense, and life-altering...dresses provocatively but is a virgin...flirts through seduction"

I'm shaking my head in amazement, If I didn't know better, I would assume that you know me personally. I also admire the advice you gave to anon being that I've had somewhat very similar experiences. Thank you.

Would you care to inform me a little about a guy with cancer venus and aquarius mars? How would they show their interest/what attracts them?

Wow this is one helpful blog, I've bookmarked it f...

2007-12-27T05:28:00.000-05:00

Wow this is one helpful blog, I've bookmarked it for handy reference. Mars in Leo / Venus in Virgo is a contradictory combo as I come on strong giving off lusty vibes (flaming hot Mars) but am very passive, submissive and procedure-oriented (serviceable Virgo) in the bedroom. Which puzzles the men who expect something different--and used to puzzle me, until I stumbled upon astrology and devoured my natal chart for dinner every night. Now I devour others' charts and the insights are epiphanies of sorts, clears up a lot of confusion. Thank you.

Oh, I forgot to add that I'm also Scorp sun, with ...

2007-12-02T03:21:00.000-05:00

Oh, I forgot to add that I'm also Scorp sun, with a Capricorn moon which doesn't seem to help me open up emotionally. I have Pisces rising, which makes for a fun "mask" though!

I have Venus in Libra, and Mars in Virgo too! Bot...

2007-12-02T03:13:00.000-05:00

I have Venus in Libra, and Mars in Virgo too! Both of them are also in my 7th house, but I don't really understand what this means in terms of what kind of guy/relationship would be good for me. Any advice?

Kate, to answer a few of your questions: Venus tak...

2007-11-14T12:11:00.000-05:00

Kate, to answer a few of your questions: Venus takes 224.7 days to orbit the Sun, whereas Mars takes 687 days, so they don't "hook up" in the same sign as frequently as, say, Mercury and Venus might.

Re: your Scorpio Sun and Taurus Asc, we are all complex individuals and different parts of ourselves are expressed at different times, depending on environment, transits and so on. This article is about seduction style, but of course the Sun and Asc also relate alot to how we express ourselves.

Wow, this blog has got quite a lot of comments, so...

2007-11-14T10:32:00.000-05:00

Wow, this blog has got quite a lot of comments, so now I want some questions answered too :)

1. I have Venus and Mars in Virgo. Why do few people have Venus AND Mars in the same sign ? Does this make me an exception to the general rule ?

2. What about my combination ? Because I don't feel as if I'm the person described here... except maybe the "get to know him COMPLETELY before making the first move", but I always thought that was because of my Sun, or my Ascendant... I have Sun in Scorpio and Taurus Ascendant, I feel more like myself when I'm reading THOSE descriptions. Some explanation would really help me a lot... ??

3. I'm attracted to two guys; one with Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aquarius, the other with Venus in Aries, Mars in Taurus. Is at least ONE of those two "things" going anywhere ? ( Don't really know that much about aspects and stuff.... YET ! )

If someone could help me, I wouldn't be left wondering.

I forgot to add how he is in the bedroom:Any and e...

2007-10-20T17:44:00.000-04:00

I forgot to add how he is in the bedroom:

Any and everything goes! The stranger, the better. He'll want to try different stuff in the bedroom and wants to know that his partner is up for anything. If he successfully blends the energies of his Venus and Mars, he'll be able to experiment with some downright freaky stuff while still making his partner feel special.

Lastly, this guy is probably more prone to wanting "open relationships" than the average guy. Neither Aquarius, nor Pisces are signs most noted for their ability to be monogamous, if you know what I mean.

A man with Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Pisces?[N...

2007-10-20T17:35:00.000-04:00

A man with Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Pisces?

[Note: I'm gonna assume he's heterosexual in my pronoun usage.]

He thinks friendship is an essential part of a relationship, so he may be attracted to women he views as buddies or mental soulmates. It could take him FOREVER to make a move on a woman he's interested in (for various reasons)...unless she's already taken. In that case, he might flirt a LOT because he knows nothing may ever come of it. :)

In dating, he prides himself on being different and will work hard at shattering any preconceived notions you have of him. He might have a few rigid dating rules that make no sense to anyone but him - for example, refusing to kiss on the first or second date, but sex on the third date is OK. But he will view himself in relationships as open-minded and low-maintenance.

He will try to impress a woman by becoming her ideal man and being very attentive, but he requires a lot of space in relationships. As a result, this guy has the potential to give off mixed signals, leaving a trail of heartbroken women who are confused as to how a man can be so caring, yet so distant at the same time. He's the boyfriend/husband who would be OK with his girlfriend/wife having male friends. You'll know he loves you when he introduces you to all of his friends. Show him you love him by planning a group activity for his and your friends.

He'll have very certain opinions about relationships and marriage, but the explanations for his opinions will be vague. The right woman for him is the woman who appreciates his strangeness and enjoys experimenting with the rules of "normal" relationships.

at about a man Venus in Aquarius and mars in Pisce...

2007-10-20T16:32:00.000-04:00

at about a man Venus in Aquarius and mars in Pisces combination?
please tell me what you think

Hm, the ones who are close to my age - it depends....

2007-08-10T19:44:00.000-04:00

Hm, the ones who are close to my age - it depends. When it comes to the ones who are significantly older, I think they're mostly looking for reassurance that they can still be appealing to young females.
I'm nothing but a tool then, especially because I look gullible and innocent just enough.

If they're only trying to be charming, I can deal with it.

However somehow I also get into situations like when I was going by train around 7 am, after sleepless and quite unpleasant night, and I got into short quarrel about gender roles with that around two decades older stranger. I quickly ended it, apologizing that I was simply too tired to continue, so he started insisting firmly that I should take a nap, with my head on his lap (necessarily!).
Such generous and helpful citizens are foundation of our society, honestly.

You think the guys that are attracted to you have ...

2007-08-10T11:50:00.000-04:00

You think the guys that are attracted to you have Daddy complexes?

One guy described me as a person who is unable to ...

2007-08-10T07:59:00.000-04:00

One guy described me as a person who is unable to harm anyone, even in self-defense. I'm not proud of that, but I got violent with HIM once, and that was a very calculated move on my part - I was trying to prevent few people from getting hurt. Nothing else was working :(

I really like being Cancer rising, but sometimes it can be quite taxing. At least I think that's what makes guys who are twice my age and more becoming attracted to me. Really awkward situations, but at least my friends get a good laugh when they hear about my so very unwanted "adventures".

Very often I had "who are you talking about?" mome...

2007-08-09T00:25:00.000-04:00

Very often I had "who are you talking about?" moments. <-- Ok, this comment literally had me LOL. I've been through this before, too. When I don't recognize the description that someone is putting on me, I know it won't be long before I come tumbling down from the pedestal they put me on. One guy described me as a very forgiving person and I'm sorry, but no. He found out the hard way.

Your Cancer ascendant must've had the Leo trying to come to your rescue. Just because Cancers enjoy "poor me" bitch sessions doesn't mean we can't take care of ourselves. ;)

Jara, actually both cases scared me a bit. After a...

2007-08-08T08:08:00.000-04:00

Jara, actually both cases scared me a bit.

After all both Venus in Leo and in Pisces are prone to idealizing the object of their affection.
Very often I had "who are you talking about?" moments.
Well.. Leo is a valiant knight in a shining armor and one of favorite activities of such person is rescuing delicate and sensitive damsels from distress. I think that was the case.
There's also the problem of my Ascendant but we're talking about Venus/Mars here.

Fiametta, I meant to tell you that I find it inter...

2007-08-07T16:40:00.000-04:00

Fiametta, I meant to tell you that I find it interesting that the guy whose Venus in Leo conjuncts your natal Venus found you to be "sensitive and delicate." I never would've described Venus in Leo like that. I guess sensitivity and delicacy is in the eye of the (Venus in Leo) beholder. ;) Do you see yourself the same way that he does?

In one word: YES! Stick with guys who have Moon o...

2007-08-07T16:35:00.000-04:00

In one word: YES! Stick with guys who have Moon or Venus in Aries. You will be his dreamgirl, with your explosive self. Both of you can laugh once the fireworks calm down...and then create new ones by having some good makeup sex (you know, the kind you love). ;)

Venus in Aries, Mars in Gemini.I KNOW I am fun. I ...

2007-08-06T09:15:00.000-04:00

Venus in Aries, Mars in Gemini.

I KNOW I am fun. I know that I do things in a spur of the moment, I know I explode, I know I say things humorous effect, I know I make my partner WORK to get with me, and I know I want a strong MAN that DOES NOT PUT OUT.

I mean, sometimes I am afraid to express my venus (it squares saturn), and sometimes I hide my venus qualities (it squares neptune), but I feel alive when those energy are expressed.

My last partner, my venus squares his sun, he did not like me exploding all over the place at all.
The partner before that... he LOVED it. His venus was also in Aries... and when he, for example, was late, I yelled and yelled, and he responded, "... that's kind of sexy."

So is it possible for a man to love a woman who's explosive? That's my next quest.

- may

Jeff, it makes sense that you fall back on your Ve...

2007-08-05T12:02:00.000-04:00

Jeff, it makes sense that you fall back on your Venus to attract people. In addition to the heavy presence of Saturn sitting on your Mars, when Venus is in the same sign as the Sun, the traits of that sign are reinforced. Not only do you admire (Venus) Pisces traits, but you ARE (Sun) those traits. Therefore, you end up being "in love" with that part of yourself and display those qualities easily and willingly (unless there are 0verriding challenging aspects elsewhere in the chart).