Comments on Seduction Central: How to make a Libra man feel guilty

Hannah I found your post really interesting! Im al...

2008-07-18T14:30:00.000-04:00

Hannah I found your post really interesting! Im also a libra and have a moon in scorpio. I have trouble being fair all the time myself, because I tend to become very selfish when I feel emotionally vunerable/offended. I guess your husband has a better grasp on his feelings than me!

I asked my double Libra husband and he agreed with...

2008-04-29T13:43:00.000-04:00

I asked my double Libra husband and he agreed with the 'not being fair' thing, and not being able to keep a promise bothers him very much.

I asked him if the Scorpio stuff in his chart bothered his Libra sensibilities (he has Scorpio moon and mercury). He said he doesn't entertain most of the Scorpio stuff.

He said "I use the Scorpio stuff to get a better idea of whether I'm being fair. Instead of being subversive I get all the info (investigation) to gather information."

Me: What about if you lie or manipulate information?

Him: (laughs) strangely no (doesn't make him feel guilty). For the same reason, because I'm trying to get information. I only do it when I think I need to. I don't do it very often. I feel guilty if I didn't do something and want to cover it up (Scorpio) or I also feel bad about telling the truth and getting in trouble. I'd rather have the internal guilt than the external guilt of punishment(Scorpio's fear of exposure). I'd rather keep the peace.

Note: Jeremy has a sociology degree and is naturally very investigative and analytical. He also has a 12th house Sun and Mars (both in Libra) which I think contribute to his isolation/fear of exposure thing, but also his desire to help.

p.s. he gave me permission to post this. I think he'd kill me if I 'exposed' him without permission. Hehehee...

Thanks Uncle Hannah!

2008-04-29T10:25:00.000-04:00

Thanks Uncle Hannah!

Ok, well I said I was not going to comment on blog...

2008-04-29T08:54:00.000-04:00

Ok, well I said I was not going to comment on blogs for a while but I'm married to a double Libra, so how can I resist?!

Anyway...being an Aries sun married to a Libra sun, rising and Mars is quite interesting. It's an educational experience for both of us. I guess being married to a double anything is interesting.

Ok, I will try not to ramble. Actually I feel really lucky to have such a Libran husband.

When we first were married I was often frustrated because of the obvious and apparent differences between us. I was more impulsive, obviously, with Aries, and he always hung back and deliberated on everything.

In fact I think we had a tendency to really polarize and almost go to the extremes of that dynamic, but over time we started to even each other out. It's almost like we both needed to develop various parts of our personalities and become more well-rounded. Or bring out certain qualities of ourselves that hadn't been expressed before.

Ok, well anyway. Back to the topic at hand! What makes a Libra man feel guilty? Well from my observation anyway, he seems to feel the most guilty if he's done something too impulsive (it feels unnatural to him) and he isn't sure he made the right decision, and obviously if he feels something is unfair. I'm sure there are many, many other possibilities of course. I'll definitely have to ask him about it when I see him.

Happy Tuesday...

No, I think that the Planets show your inclination...

2008-04-29T02:59:00.000-04:00

No, I think that the Planets show your inclinations. You still have free will. I'm never unfair. (Not that I know of, my family vouches for me:) But I must confess that I can't take credit for that. Once when I was about 9 or 10 I was upset with my brother for taking my underwear out of my drawer to wear. (He was an Aries, he wanted it, he took it) I was mad about it and I talked to God about how selfish my brother was and my family in general. Then I heard a voice (literally in my spirit) I could hear it, very quiet, very peaceful yet authoritative. It said that I was the selfish one. I thought that was a mistake, and questioned how that could be true. He said, "You wouldn't notice them trying to have their way if you weren't trying to have yours." I still use this as my yardstick.
I've only had this said to me by my daughter when she was little and my ex-wife (don't remember what it was about).

I'm curious, lunarlibra, when you catch yourself n...

2008-04-28T17:24:00.000-04:00

I'm curious, lunarlibra, when you catch yourself not being fair, what's your motivation for not being fair? Do you associate it with one of your other planets?

In response to the question, What would a Libra fe...

2008-04-28T14:48:00.000-04:00

In response to the question, What would a Libra feel guilty about? I'm not a Libra but I have a Libra Moon and the ruler of my Sag first house is in Libra. The think that stops me in my tracks and makes me start weighing things (again) is someone saying "You're not being fair", or "That's not fair." Even if it's a child. Not being fair makes Libras feel guilty. However, once I'm sure I'm being fair to everyone, I just assume that the person that said it is being selfish.

I was dating an Libra man with Saturn in Aries, I'...

2008-04-23T23:27:00.000-04:00

I was dating an Libra man with Saturn in Aries, I'm a Gemini women with Saturn in Leo. He was too vain and perfect to make mistakes. His Moon was in Gemini and my moon is in Leo. We got into very BAD and emotional Fights.