Comments on Seduction Central: Why is my Leo man ignoring me?

Ok wow! i have been doing research for quite a whi...

2008-10-08T07:22:00.000-04:00

Ok wow! i have been doing research for quite a while now about the absolute lover Leo Boy. I was 19 and he was 20. Both of us either had ever been in a relationship. ever! we met at a lil party. i came the second night and he asked me out... we took everything slow.... then once they picked up i got excited and loved every second of every minute. long story short. I ended up moving out 300 miles away. I am a cancer. So i come off strong, but can only hold that stregnth for so long.... until my emotions take over. I swear this pain hasnt left me. we still comunicated every few months... but he'd totally do the ignoring thing. it killed me. I had no friends in this new town so im glad i didnt have a damn gun in my hand. jk.... i ended up moving back home after living there 8 months... then home to mommy. I was SO hopeful that him an i would be stirring things back up. but we saw eachother once.... had passionate loving as usual.... but as i read more an more of these comments.... im seriously feeling better and better. I actually cried, and luaghed becuase this all makes sense. Everything that has happined so far matches up.... oh yea! ill finish what i was saying.... i have not seen or heard from to Mr. Leo since last DECembEr!!! ok its october now.... thats practically a YEAR! i still called and texts my deepest thoughts. im so used to not ever gettin a single answer.... UNTIL.... YES!!! about 4 weeks ago... he text me.... like seeing his name in my phone as if it were a ghost!.... i screamed in my car as i was driving.. HAHA but then i took a deep breath and kinda chuckled back at him. like "wow, suprise suprise..." not bursting out in emotions. my world has been pretty much on pause since... ive got lil conversations the past couple nights.... he was drinkin and i was also but at seperate places... and i told him we should hang... but he said he wasnt ready yet.... i didnt make a big deal.... Just the stupid texting brightins my day right now,, But ive past the first test of not giving up on him... now hes opened the door of communication.... to reel my man in i have to have confidence in myself and not give him everything he wants. He likes alil chase. I gota let him starve a bit for me like I did for so long. with that control i will build the power to break this love spell that has been put on me! and he will mine forever and ever.... Im the Queen in his fantacy future and he is my King... I dont wana say Im playing a game, but it almost is.... ive just finally figured out the rules... LOL
wow, this site may have really saved me and givin me the awesome chance to have my fairy tale.

Thanks everyone!!

~S~

Being a Leo here I have to agree with the reasons....

2008-09-03T01:58:00.000-04:00

Being a Leo here I have to agree with the reasons.

If I feel a partner isn't giving me enough attention or praise I feel bad, Like I've done something wrong or that said partner has fallen "unlove" with me. So I quickly dettach from the partner who doesn't feel they need to show me any affection.

So naturally when someone else comes by giving me praise or attention they catch my eye and now have my full attention.

Aquaries hereIm kida starting to feel better readi...

2008-08-28T11:44:00.000-04:00

Aquaries here
Im kida starting to feel better reading all these comments. I thought all along I had did something to provoke my Leo man and the was he acts and ignors me if any one can leave me somesuggestions as to what to do please.
Well Sunday me and my Leo man had a wounderful day together time of my life. Then in the evening I made dinner started to be a great night. then I asked my leo if he would like to stay over then he said no he will talk to me on monday. Kind of wierd but ok. So he left then I gave him a call he picked up asked if he was allright. but his mood changed in just a few sec then he started with saying that I had something that I needed to tell him I then stated no and that is true I have no secrets that I have kept from him I have been 100% honest and faithful to him I love this Leo man dearly. but anyways he then said Im getting upset Ill talk to ya soon. ok finelove ya bye. then I had a sick feeling in my gut went to get my keys and guess what I left my darn keys in his car.so I called no answer fine. I called a friend to pick me up take me to get the keys. Went to his house he was not home. was going home when I passed a night club and my gut feeling was worse. ok his car was there I went in to get my keys he had a very surprised look ok went to the car to get the keys I did not say one word to him gave him a pissedoff look and left.ok he started the car and left ya right I thought. ok I went home got dressed went back to the club and guess what he was there ya I thought he was going home.Anyways I made it known for him to see me and he did. he did not say one word to me just kept passing by acting like if he was not looking but he was anyways. after an hour of me being there he left I just sat down did not evan drink I was too mad anyways I have not talked to him since sunday and I want to call but I have not tried too. He is so use to me always running to him saying im sorry when I know good and well it was not me im tried off feeling like im always doing something wrong when im not does anyone else feel like this with Leo please help...I miss him so much and dont know if I should give in got get out...

Crushed Cancer:This Scorpio girl is right with you...

2008-08-25T11:46:00.000-04:00

Crushed Cancer:

This Scorpio girl is right with you. My hot Leo told me the last time we were together that, "You let me talk, you cook me dinners... you're too nice to me." Some more naive girls may have took that as a compliment, I saw it for what it was, that he was out the door. I've talked to him once since, and he hasn't contacted me for a week. But, I wouldn't dream of calling him. I can take a hint.

I'm reminded that there are two emotions. Love and fear. If big, bad Mr. Leo is ignoring us, which emotion do YOU think he's acting from?? *wink

I met a Leo last month. For 10 glorious days, we w...

2008-08-19T19:17:00.000-04:00

I met a Leo last month. For 10 glorious days, we were inseperable. He was talking about including me in future holidays, he said it was love at first sight. Then nothing! He just stopped. I finally called him and he said things were going to fast and he does not want a relationship. It ended as quick as it began, He crushed my heart.

For the post above me...I get that. I'm a Scorpio,...

2008-08-13T15:17:00.000-04:00

For the post above me...I get that. I'm a Scorpio, he's the Leo. When we talk, it makes me high. When we are together it is fireworks galore. Then , he'll go a whole week without calling. During that week I'm running the gamut: "who the hell does he think he is?", all the way to figuring he's "just not that into me." Then, he leaves the sweetest message, and I'm soaring again. Or, I see his smiling face, and it hits me like a ton of bricks, THIS is why I'm doing this rollercoaster! He's dangerously hot, and so happy and outgoing, it makes an emotional creature like me wonder why I ever had worries to begin with. It's making my head spin. So, is this just the way Leo men are? Attentive to the point of possessive one minute, and aloof and unavailable the next? I wonder if I'll be able to handle it, but when I'm high, it's all worth it. *sigh

I've been going out with my leo guy for just over ...

2008-08-08T09:58:00.000-04:00

I've been going out with my leo guy for just over 3 months. He's usually really attentive, sending me cute msgs, even just to say goodnight or that he is thinking about me. All lovely but there are some times when i'll reply and he'll just not respond for days. but if i don't respond to HIM? well the next time we talk, i get a "you could have just replied". !! So at the moment my Leo is away but is online a lot, yet whenever i'm online at the same time and try to contact him, i'm just getting nothing back and then moments later he's logged out. But when we have chatted online, it's all gushing and great. feels like it's his way or the highway. anyone else get that? im an impatient gemini with taurus in venus - maybe that is why i get uptight about him not contacting me as much as i like?

I am a Sag woman and several months ago I began a ...

2008-08-07T16:42:00.000-04:00

I am a Sag woman and several months ago I began a passionate love affair with a Leo man. Everything was great for a couple of months. But then we had our first disagreement and now all we do is play games. I try to stop the games and be honest but he always replies with words that I know he doesnt mean and is just not being himself. How do I get us out of this rut? I know we both really want to be together but now we keep hurting eachother. help

sorry for the miss spelled words..oh his messages ...

2008-08-04T00:27:00.000-04:00

sorry for the miss spelled words..oh his messages before seeing me when he couldn't get ahold of me were call him to what did i do for you not talking to me, or why are you ignoring me..i would get 2-3 calls within a couple of hours like that..it's not like he called me often before i seen him either..

i'm a capricorn woman who went on a date with a le...

2008-08-04T00:21:00.000-04:00

i'm a capricorn woman who went on a date with a leo guy..it was so such a good time and at the end of it he wanted to know when my next day off was..when i told him in another week he said he couldn't wait that long and wondered if he could see me in the sometime in a morning before going...i said ya..after a couple of days i didn't hear from him i called didn't leave a message and waited a couple of day exspecting to leave a message on his b-day, he answers saying you don't like it either when you don't get a message.. i guess he called the same day i first called..he was joking but serious when he answered saing that..he was suppost to call me when he wasn't busy before i ledt for work..day 2 still haven't heard from him..what is he doing, does he like me or not? when i talk to him or if he can't get ahold of me he's blowing my phone up..oh he 10 years older then me

I got this leo who promised to call when he was in...

2008-07-13T13:08:00.000-04:00

I got this leo who promised to call when he was in town, he'd love to see me. Then I'm in a bar and see him and didn't know he was in the air. Then I texted him and said I thought I saw someone like him. He wrote back right away and said "that was me." But nothing else, no suggestion that we hang out or anything. Insulted, I wrote back "Oh." Days later he wants to know why I was ignoring him and was being petulant as if I was the one avoiding him. Wrap your head around that one!

this is the same person with the comment above... ...

2008-06-14T20:59:00.000-04:00

this is the same person with the comment above... just to add that when were together we have a great time have alot in common we laugh, he tells me everything which friends he dislikes,his personal things. and the sex is great. so yeah what am i soppose to do.

yeah ima mess... me and this leo have been dating ...

2008-06-14T20:35:00.000-04:00

yeah ima mess... me and this leo have been dating for almost 5 months and after the 2nd month he pulled away and now its horrible he doesnt wanna talk to me doesnt call me for late night conversations anymore non of that. im and aquarius. Im so upset i really fell for the kid the last i tried calling me he was avoiding we got into a little argument after that i havent called him back its been 2 days and im just depressed. should i not call him till he calls me or should i do something..?

Victoria,Yes, the square is very dynamic. Yet, - a...

2007-11-20T03:26:00.000-05:00

Victoria,

Yes, the square is very dynamic. Yet, - and it can definitely be due to my limited experience, - I don't come across Leo-Taurus or Scorpio-Aquarius attractions as frequently as Leo-Scorpio. I think it's also because out of these 3 Sun-square-Sun combinations Leo and Scorpio are the more fiery, intense, emotional and passionate (about everything, don't mean just sex). Scorpio is a water sign, but is still ruled also by Mars which is more fiery, so maybe there's also a bit of similarity to the Leo-Aries factor in the mix as well. Lots of sparks and flames, that's for sure :-D

My on and off Leo left the area for better opportu...

2007-11-19T21:37:00.000-05:00

My on and off Leo left the area for better opportunities...but this bull was unwilling and also unable to pack and go too when he suggested for me to come. Our last encounter was friendly and lusty, but I know that I will not hear from him unless he is visiting the area and is in heat....already knew it would have never last anyway.

oh yes! absolutelyscintillating squares between t...

2007-11-19T03:25:00.000-05:00

oh yes! absolutely

scintillating squares between the suns

definite attractions

definitive drama

and yes (as you suspected)

;)

anonymous Scorpio, LOL. For some reason I see a lo...

2007-11-18T12:20:00.000-05:00

anonymous Scorpio,

LOL. For some reason I see a lot of attraction between Leos and Scorpios. Don't ask me why.

correction, maybe notLion performances are best le...

2007-11-17T14:33:00.000-05:00

correction, maybe not

Lion performances are best left for the circus

we're living real life here

correction, a WHOLE LOT of fun!(sigh) maybe I shou...

2007-11-17T14:30:00.000-05:00

correction, a WHOLE LOT of fun!

(sigh) maybe I should've opened the door . . .

PPS--Who said we were compatible?

2007-11-17T14:15:00.000-05:00

PPS--

Who said we were compatible?

PS-- I hate to admit Leos can be a whole of fun, d...

2007-11-17T14:13:00.000-05:00

PS-- I hate to admit Leos can be a whole of fun, damn those Leos

Hey Madusa,I think that is exactly how he felt. ...

2007-11-17T14:08:00.000-05:00

Hey Madusa,

I think that is exactly how he felt. The last time the cat came back (last Monday at 1:30 am) I didn't open the door. Spared us both the drama ;)

His sun is square mine, that's all, setting off sparks, and Fire + Water makes for great steam.

Like you said, I put his fire out (telling him off = dumping a potful of boiling water on his head).

He started it. His fire had blow-dried my water sensitivity up long before that with his insatiable over-the-top come-ons (give me a break, this dude is on the roof 7 am serenading Don Giovanni style with his head in my bedroom window, flaunting muscles and flashing teeth)

Did have a nice mane, though, for running my fingers through

Could this also apply to a person with his Venus i...

2007-11-17T09:59:00.000-05:00

Could this also apply to a person with his Venus in Leo? I'm not really being ignored, but there's some kinda voodoo in the air....

I never got involved with any Leo men to speak of....

2007-11-17T03:48:00.000-05:00

I never got involved with any Leo men to speak of.
Leo women I have found get their feelings hurt, and don't call or write if they're not admired and treated a certain way.
Or, if someone else is admiring them more.

As a Leo (a woman though) I would ignore you if yo...

2007-11-16T23:14:00.000-05:00

As a Leo (a woman though) I would ignore you if you had thrown me out at 4 am, or at any other hour, but in the middle of the night it's even worse. A sense of abandonment, rejection and disrespect. Though I understand the situation and you being exhausted, but the insult might be too big to be easy to forgive or be overlooked and would have cast serious doubts in me about the compatibility with my lover had he done that.

What does it mean you "told him off"? My English isn't good enough to understand what exactly does this expression "told him off" mean. Anyway, you told him off, called after a few days and then when he came back all passionate you threw him out? To be thrown out of my lover's house at 4 AM during make-up sex after a previous fight? - that's critical! I'd most probably leave him thinking he's just not the man for me and it could never work out because he doesn't love me enough, isn't sensitive enough, doesn't value my affection and is too cold-hearted and not romantic enough for me. Not to mention the wound to my pride. You don't throw the queen out in the middle of the night just for loving you too much :-). This goes against Leo's every fiber.