Comments on Seduction Central: Sagittarius woman only needs Cancer man when she's...

To ottomanbearI am a Sag woman, but I unfortunetel...

2008-07-22T16:22:00.000-04:00

To ottomanbear

I am a Sag woman, but I unfortunetelly have to agree with you. I have done that kind of thing thousands of times...I felt sorry later, but it´s so hard to pretend I am liking someone I prefer to hurt his feelings for a while than to continue with the relationship. Its unbearable not being honest with MYSELF. So its not that we are bitches, I think the problem is I can´t lie to myself. But now I am more mature, and I try to distance myself from the person before telling them I want to break up (not telling I like someone else).

I'm a Sag/Sun and Cancer/Moon guy, who was seeing ...

2008-07-18T23:14:00.000-04:00

I'm a Sag/Sun and Cancer/Moon guy, who was seeing a Cancer/Sun girl. I think I had just as much insecurities about our relationship as she may have had (if not more!). I had those insecurities ever since the beginning of the relationship.

I had a feeling she lied to me
about things, which she sort of did. Nothing really big as far as I know, but they were still lies. She was also really clingy, which, to a degree, I really didn't mind but she seemed to always try to "force" me to do things I didn't want to do. I didn't want to give her the wrong idea by saying no to something so petty, so I would comply.

I actually "broke up" with her a few times, as I didn't see our relationship doing very well but I always regretted it because I wasn't doing it because I didn't like her, I was doing it instead because of my insecurities about our relationship.

She was also the one to start the relationship between us, as I usually do not start them. Maybe it's because of my Venus being in Capricorn, I honestly don't know.

Yes it is possible for a Sag and Cancer to have tr...

2008-04-23T13:38:00.000-04:00

Yes it is possible for a Sag and Cancer to have true love.

IM SAG WOMAN & IM RIDICULOUSLY IN LOVE WITH A CANC...

2008-04-23T02:33:00.000-04:00

IM SAG WOMAN & IM RIDICULOUSLY IN LOVE WITH A CANCER MAN....I FEEL OUR PERSONALITY'S ARE ALOT ALIKE BUT THEN AGAIN WERE ALOT DIFF TOO...I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM EXCEPT I FEEL LIKE HE DOESNT PAY ENOUGH ATTENTION TO ME WHEN WERE NOT TOGETHER..(WE LIVE VERY FAR FROM EACHOTHER) BUT WHEN WERE TOGETHER EVERYTHING IZ BEAUTIFUL!!! LOL...ESPECIALLY THA SEX.......I KNO IM BETTER OFF WITH A GEMINI OR AQUARIUS LEO BUT WHEN I DATE THOSE SIGNS IT FEELS LIKE WERE MORE ON A FUNNY HAPPY FRIENDS LEVEL NOT SOMEONE I COULD FALL IN LOVE WITH..................IS IT POSSIBLE THAT MY CANCER MAN AND I COULD HAVE TRUE LOVE?????

I am a sagittarius and I really like cancer guys (...

2008-03-07T19:41:00.000-05:00

I am a sagittarius and I really like cancer guys (my mom is a cancer). I am not a typical Sag though because I have lots of and water signs in my chart.

To SAG WOMAN: defy stereotype, lower your voice.

2008-03-01T17:24:00.000-05:00

To SAG WOMAN: defy stereotype, lower your voice.

I AM SAG WOMAN.I K33P FALLIN N LUV WIT CANC3R M3N ...

2008-03-01T14:40:00.000-05:00

I AM SAG WOMAN.
I K33P FALLIN N LUV WIT CANC3R M3N 4 SOM3 STRANG3 R3ASON.
IM NOT SUR3 IF WAT YUU HAD GOIN ON WAZ GONNA WORK OUT ANYWAY.

YUU PROBALY SHOULD HAV N3V3R CH3AT3D AND LI3D.
3V3N THOUGH DATS HOW M3 AND MY LAST CANC3R BOI FRIEND BROK3 UP.
NOW IM WITH A N3W CANC3R MAN.

I KANT STAY AWAY 4RM TH3M.

HONEST HONEST HONEST... These sag people love to b...

2008-01-05T08:33:00.000-05:00

HONEST HONEST HONEST...
These sag people love to brag about their honesty. But their "great virtue" is for their own sake only.
I am a cancerian man, I definitily condemn this man's cheating: it is a personal weakness not something about astrology.
On the other hand let me explain the legendary Sagittarius honesty.
You like someone when you are still engaged to another one. And you say to your partner "ı am sorry but ı like someone else goodbye." Wheter he loves you or not is not important. You leave him alone in the half way and go for the sake of your own pussy. This is virtuous sag honesty! No commitment, no respect to a unity or feelings of one. Just yourself and nothing important.
So don't brag about your "truthfullness", think about your selfishness instead.

I'm a Sag woman who was attracted to a cancer man ...

2007-12-10T05:15:00.000-05:00

I'm a Sag woman who was attracted to a cancer man intensely for some time. I loved the Cancer energy, seemed to reach deep down into my more insecure areas. Very nurturing. However, even with little things like crossing the road he'd want to keep me safe when I just like to dodge the traffic quite happily and safely my own way!! After being in his company for about 6 months I'd had enough, I became very confused as he seemed to have set ways with everything which conflicted with my come what may attitude. We just didn't get each other. I think of all the signs I would never consider again Cancer would be right up there with Gemini men. Previous comments are so true in that Lying to or questioning the truth of a Sagittarian is enough to drive them far from you. You see we do always tell the truth (as we see it) for better or worse and we do appreciate the truth in the same way.
You ask why she wants reasons for your actions, I would guess that she is trying to understand the root cause of why you do the things you do or because you've lied to her before and she just doesn't trust your word in anything that you say.
How to win her back? All I know is that to cheat on her shows lack of respect for your relationship with her and that trust has been broken, this will never be forgotten. Personally I would learn the lessons from this relationship and move on with your life in a more positive and honest way opening the door for new experiences and people. If your crabby claw can't let go this could also be too much for her, it's kind of suffocating to be held onto too tightly - for a Sag!
The only way to begin to mend or make the peace with her is to speak from your heart - BE HONEST with her and give her the best of your being....Sorry and meaning it is always a good place to start. But my Sag Brain tells me that if you cheated on her then perhaps you aren't meant to be.

I'm a cancer sun with a sag moon and my boyfriend ...

2007-12-09T16:23:00.000-05:00

I'm a cancer sun with a sag moon and my boyfriend is an aquarius with a libra moon. I have a cancer venus and scorpio mars and saturn and he has a pisces venus and aries mars. And I have two other planets in sag. What is up with this? We're not supposed to be compatable,but he initiated the relationship and calls and texts me more than i do. I don't even feel the need to call every day. I thought aquarians were supposed to be detached and need a lot of space, but I feel like I need more space than he does. I even feel safer when I'm not in a relationship, but I have stong feelings for him and care about him and I don't want to be with any other man. What is up with this?

@jensagg, it just means that -- like most people -...

2007-12-09T08:59:00.000-05:00

@jensagg, it just means that -- like most people -- you're complex. You come across initially as sensitive and nurturing, yet your essential nature is adventurous and freedom-loving.

and ya, Moon in Gemini is usually half-crazy and V...

2007-12-09T04:19:00.000-05:00

and ya, Moon in Gemini is usually half-crazy and Venus in Scorpio is brutal in bed

LOL Jensaggasking people if you're crazy is a rhet...

2007-12-09T04:16:00.000-05:00

LOL Jensagg

asking people if you're crazy is a rhetorical question

don't go there because they'll ass-ume you are ;)

I was wondering how this comment about how cancer ...

2007-12-08T20:12:00.000-05:00

I was wondering how this comment about how cancer and sadge are not compatible would apply to me. Meaning that since Im sagittarius with cancer rising am i crazy? what does my sign mean then and how important is the cancer rising part of it. my moon is gemini and my venus is scorpio.

I agree COMPLETELY with sagilarious. Sadge women ...

2007-12-08T16:30:00.000-05:00

I agree COMPLETELY with sagilarious. Sadge women CANNOT be lied to...no matter what. You would have had a better chance of telling the truth...and seeing if she could accept that....or be your friend. This woman cannot be your friend...because nobody wants LIARS as friends. You have no footing...and you have no chance. Lessson learned.

I hate to say this, but Cancer men (maybe because it is a feminine sign) are hard placed. Their manipulations, control, self-absorption...not to mention the WHINING...is not in alignment with the positive and idealistic nature of Sagittarius. You didn't really love her...or you would not lie or cheat. You loved yourself.

As sagilarious said....the Sadge woman doesn't need a man! She will walk regardless....as she cannot be controlled and is too independent for you.

Well I am going to try and be nice, but Cancer man...

2007-12-08T14:40:00.000-05:00

Well I am going to try and be nice, but Cancer man:

YOU CHEATED AND LIED TO HER!!!

Of all signs you could do that with, this is not the one to mess with. Sagittarius people cannot tolerate a liar. You have lost all your footing in this relationship, and there is almost no chance in hell you will get it back.

If she wants to forgive you, she will. But there is NOTHING you can do to make her forgive you. It's up to her. Otherwise, let her go, and LEARN YOUR LESSON. I don't think you deserve her.

Have you lost your mind? If you love her, then you will think about what is best for her, and she deserves a loyal and honest man.

If she says she is over you, then she is over you. A Sagittarius woman does not NEED a man, so once you screw up....good luck.

I am a Sagittarius...

As a Sagittarius woman who dated a Cancer man, I w...

2007-12-08T09:17:00.000-05:00

As a Sagittarius woman who dated a Cancer man, I would just accept that this relationship will not work out in the long run. For me, I appreciated the nurturing that my ex-boyfriend gave me....initially...but it turned into a controlling and manipulative type of love. This not the type of love that a Sagittarius ultimately seeks. My ex-boyfriend would also lie repeatedly and I found this completely unacceptable. In the end, I found that my Cancer man was cheating and lying about it to me, so we could not even remain friends. Sagittarius has a "live and live" motto, so I would imagine, when your ex-girlfriend contacts you...it is really out of friendship and curiousity...and nothing more than that. My suggestion is to find yourself an Earth sign. I think you will be much happier with a rock-solid woman. As for me....I found myself an Aquarius man....who is my best friend and fellow adventurer......a true soulmate.