tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post1309255680849820278..comments2008-07-01T13:52:36.631-04:00Jeffrey Kishnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00053072876900177367noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-65570204225959853002008-07-01T13:52:00.000-04:002008-07-01T13:52:00.000-04:00I have been looking all over the Internet for a solution to the exact problem and I'm so glad that I found this blog!<BR/><BR/>My man is a scorp and I'm a cancer. We've been together for less than a year and I told him in month 5 that I loved him. He said that he loves me but isn't in love with me.<BR/><BR/>However, I don't suspect him of cheating. I used to be suspicious early in the relationship but have learned to trust him. There was no proof and no reason. He does say that it takes him a long time to fall in love. I'm his second girlfriend (he's 30) and it took him 3 years to be comfortable to tell his ex (1st g/f) of 6 years ago that he was in love with her. <BR/><BR/>It does frustrate me that he's not in love, as he claims, but in the end, we're both happy in the relationship and I wouldn't feel comfortable rushing him to "fall in love". He has all the qualities I look for in a b/f... except not saying that he's in love with me... but I know that if I were in his position I wouldn't want to be pressured into saying three words, "I'm in love", to make my partner feel better about the relationship. Him not saying those three words isn't a valid reason to break the relationship if you make each other happy. Hope this helps... just know that you, virgo, aren't alone.<BR/><BR/>Maybe it does take years for them to build the courage of saying that they're in love. I'm happy that he shows to me that he's in love. He even admits that he'd rather show that he loves someone rather than telling them. Scorps, they're just physical people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-63846337037065172132008-06-29T17:20:00.000-04:002008-06-29T17:20:00.000-04:00Oh My Goodness i love this blog...every one of us are going through similar things WOW...Im a virgo girl and my "on and off bf" is a scorpio...he is a hard headed stuborn man...he gets what he wants when he wants it...he's come after me 4 times already after we break up and he litterally cries for me and beggs me to get back with him but he turns around and does the same thing over and over and over again after 2 weeks and me like an eidiate goes back with him everytime he comes back...this last time we broke up for a little over a month and he called me 2 days ago telling me how much he misses me etc...but ive decided to really just move on now because there is no point i just turned off my phone and im going to try not to have any contact with him and i dont know wats going to happen from here honestly...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-19086912044934430102008-05-31T00:12:00.000-04:002008-05-31T00:12:00.000-04:00Scorpios usually fall in love very quickly. If you aren't fulfilling his needs, in and out of the bedroom, he will probably have doubts about his feelings for you. Maybe you could suprise him with a romantic gesture.. Something to remind him that he should love you for being there.<BR/><BR/>When I was with another Scorpio I was extremely secretive. Though Scorpios rarely cheat, physically. If you ask him about it he will only get more defensive and secretive. So, until he remembers that you are his girl, continue to shower him with love and attention.scorpgirlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-4306599585946480872008-04-10T15:06:00.000-04:002008-04-10T15:06:00.000-04:00I am a virgo girl, write her a letter, expressing how you feel, be very clear in the words you choose, so there is no way to mistake what you are saying(virgo's tend to over think every situation),don't worry about rejection-because she won't reject, then taken her out to a romnatic candle light dinner, we are suckers for romance...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-21298253083320845742008-01-23T15:34:00.000-05:002008-01-23T15:34:00.000-05:00i am a scorpio guy in love with a virgo girl.I do not know how to tell her please advisevijayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968995928120351319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-65664559843893546592007-10-11T03:21:00.000-04:002007-10-11T03:21:00.000-04:00I am married to a Scorp. Once they commit to a relationship you cannot get away from the pincers or the stinger. If you are even asking what is wrong with your relationship with him, honestly, dump him. They have to be struck by a lightening bolt or something, they know exactly who they want. He told me that he knew, and was very romantic with his marriage proposal..They are loyal and a bit jealous, but worth every hairsplitting moments when they love you because they will try everything to make it work, they are in love and they are the defenders of that state. I hope this makes sense. Give space, they will hunt you down. There is no escape. good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-20579194286507508752007-09-26T12:09:00.000-04:002007-09-26T12:09:00.000-04:00I have been reading this blog all morning and have found everyone's advice very helpful. I am a virgo dating?? a scorpio. I am going through the same thing everyone else is talking about. Do we stay with them when we feel they are cheating on us? Yes- NO? I have been on this emotional roller coaster with him for the past two years. He has moved across the country twice to be with me. But for some reason we can't seem to just be happy. Yesterday night was another one of those nights. I heard "I just want to work on me for awhile, I'm not into working on this relationship. " I'm frustrated as all hell. I have spent the last two years trying to be comfortable in this relations, digging though my own pile of trust issues and what it takes to have a healthy loving relationship. I have finally figured it out. What I want and what he has been searching for in a relationship for the past two years with me. Now, he wants nothing to do with this relationship, and he just wants time for himself. When I ask him if he'll change his mind, and he just needs time. His response is I don't know? I just need to worry about me right now. <BR/> Does anyone have any advice in regards to this situation.? Should I pack my bags and move on, or will he come around and we'll have the amazing relationship that I've had glimpses of over the past two years.?Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17860580180945103220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-12548844856775136432007-08-07T02:46:00.000-04:002007-08-07T02:46:00.000-04:00Hey, I'm a Virgo girl falls for A Scorpio guy. Your story is incredibly the same as me...I told him I love him and he said he did too but he wasn't -- that was five years ago and he left me for another girl. That break up ruined me for months...but soon I got over him... No it's not the end -- Now he is back and starts playing his game with me again. He just broke up with that girl. I should have said no but I couldn't...<BR/>Scorpio is so secretive, can't win them easily. But once you love him.. you can't love any body else...Virgo_NZhttp://virgo_nz.co.nznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37240917.post-44546034266287152802007-03-27T01:32:00.000-04:002007-03-27T01:32:00.000-04:00I have a friend going through something similar. She thinks her mate is cheating, but has no proof. I think we all just have our ups and downs and need to adjust accordingly. <BR/>Sometimes we think of cheating, but dont act upon it. Sometimes we are just unhappy at the moment. It doesnt mean that they will cheat.. It just means they want a change. <BR/>I also know that if you push a scorpio, they will cheat by accusing them so often. They will eventually prove you right then be done with you.Scorpnoreply@blogger.com