Comments on Becky's T-Blog: Too close to home

Scary scary stuff!!But do you find that you do thi...

2006-02-14T07:18:00.000Z

Scary scary stuff!!

But do you find that you do things that in fact push that boundary to where you may be outed? I definitely seem to do that at times. Kinda like "I'm in the closet and plan to stay there for now, but if a work colleague happens to come across me in this cocktail bar in this small town (city?) where everyone seems to know each other...well then fuck'it...then my "outing" was meant to be!"

I actually scare myself with some of these daring actions. Maybe I should take up bungee jumping instead.

So Ms B, do you maybe do that as well?

Pheeww!! Close shave.I often want to let just abou...

2006-01-29T15:05:00.000Z

Pheeww!! Close shave.

I often want to let just about anybody know. Then I think "What if it gets back to my family" They are the ones who will suffer most.

Perhaps I can just let people sus me out bit by bit. Julie thinks..." First step... shave my beard off ." :)

Re Mr Y's comments: Do they make him an admirer? ;...

2006-01-28T21:27:00.000Z

Re Mr Y's comments: Do they make him an admirer? ;)

I like wearing shoes! Does that make me a foot fet...

2006-01-28T10:11:00.000Z

I like wearing shoes! Does that make me a foot fetishist?

Do you wear them on your hands?

Ok in the right entry this time. Glad it worked out Becky, I've been looking forward to you getting outed for some time tho, I'm deserate to hear the stories of an office full of jaws dropping further open as they realise the tranny icon in their midst.

> I like wearing shoes! Does that make me a foot f...

2006-01-27T21:05:00.000Z

> I like wearing shoes! Does that make me a foot fetishist?

Technically, I think it does :-\

Hey it's cool, and I think you're easier on the ey...

2006-01-27T19:55:00.000Z

Hey it's cool, and I think you're easier on the eye as Becky ;)!

Becky has more hair on her head anyway :P.

You'll still be you no matter what you wear, clothes are just another way of expressing yourself. Take me, I like wearing shoes! Does that make me a foot fetishist? ;)

And as grandpa said, "And what if your colleague h...

2006-01-27T19:54:00.000Z

And as grandpa said, "And what if your colleague hadn't been cool about it, what then, becky?"

Had an interesting reaction to that question, when, what I believe to be a seriously un-balanced friend made a comment about me being outed and I replied, "Well, do whatever you feel is right" - like, "whatever!". Surprised myeslf. But then did I really think he'd out me? Dunno.

But as long as it was the result you'd wanted that's OK!

That one less of them in the world. Hope alls good...

2006-01-27T19:09:00.000Z

That one less of them in the world.
Hope alls good , but I can understand the paranoid panic.

I did mean to comment on Person Z at the time. Not only was there a whole page in the local paper , but regional, evening news as well.
Hell of a way to come out !
For some one who doesn't want balls, he has them.
Credit to him.

It is weird and bloody nerve racking when there is...

2006-01-27T19:07:00.000Z

It is weird and bloody nerve racking when there is a potential unprepared outing about to occur.
Last week I got outed to my ex-workmates and the number of non tranny people who know about Connie went from about 4 to 40 in a few hours. My site was sent all round the IT department.
And the general overall reaction after the dust settled? Most just said "so what?". In fact one of the ladies I used to work with said she might have a dress I would like that she doesn want.

I feel so damn cool about me right now and don't care if the whole world finds out.

I'm glad it all worked out, and thats one less per...

2006-01-27T19:03:00.000Z

I'm glad it all worked out, and thats one less person to worry about as well!
I do know how you must of felt though, a while back i had someone threaten to come into my workplace and 'out' me, thankfully nothing came of it, they were all talk, but at the time it was pretty awful.

All's well that ends well!

2006-01-27T17:31:00.000Z

All's well that ends well!

Well that was a bit of fun for you then eh? There...

2006-01-27T17:24:00.000Z

Well that was a bit of fun for you then eh? There was a time I did care about that at work. Now I don't care so much. There's a few people there that even call me "Em" whether i'm all dolled up or not.

phew that would keep you up better than cafeine. I...

2006-01-27T17:17:00.000Z

phew that would keep you up better than cafeine.
It's scary and at the same point kind of exciting to walk along the edge like that sometimes.

Pheeew :-| I hope there are no real Names in my bl...

2006-01-27T16:45:00.000Z

Pheeew :-|
I hope there are no real Names in my blog. But there are many trannyless-keywords, where i am high ranked in Google, too. So anytime will find anyone my Blog who knows me.. :-/

Good or bad?

Wow, it's bad that you had to stress over it for a...

2006-01-27T16:36:00.000Z

Wow, it's bad that you had to stress over it for a while, but good that it happened. Now that's one less person you have to worry about.

You have to be careful with Google, he can be mean sometimes. =)